How do men actually work?

Clear language with defined boundaries. Flirting is fun. But it's different than anything "real". You can't flip flop between them without being clear what's happening
 
This guy I like and I keep flirting and literally nothing is coming of it

He initiated something a while ago I rejected him but now I’ve clearly shown my interest we tease each other everyday

How do men work 😭
If you haven't noticed yet, being on Lit for some men is work. It takes a lot of creativity, concentration, typing skills to be able to attract the very few real women here on Lit.

Seriously though, for some it is just playing here for fantasy, to see how far they can get at a safe distance and remaining anonymous. Not sure what you are looking for,but there are plenty of men willing and able, you just have to let them in. Best of luck.
 
I bet he wants to but he’s afraid of the rejection.
I said I’m going to his city in a few weeks with my friend and he said he’ll show me around
Men with low self esteem (if that’s the issue, I’m only speaking from experience) have a really difficult time believing a pretty woman likes them. Even when they say it flat out. What I’ve found works is consistency on your part.
He’s insanely vain actually 🤣 he has the same amount of women chasing him as I have men chasing me

It’s so frustrating because I know we like each other
 
If you haven't noticed yet, being on Lit for some men is work. It takes a lot of creativity, concentration, typing skills to be able to attract the very few real women here on Lit.

Seriously though, for some it is just playing here for fantasy, to see how far they can get at a safe distance and remaining anonymous. Not sure what you are looking for,but there are plenty of men willing and able, you just have to let them in. Best of luck.
Oh I meant off lit like a real man I have a crush on but thank you
 
I said I’m going to his city in a few weeks with my friend and he said he’ll show me around

He’s insanely vain actually 🤣 he has the same amount of women chasing him as I have men chasing me

It’s so frustrating because I know we like each other
Well that city tour certainly present an opportunity. I unfortunately can’t speak for vanity. Lol
 
Men with low self esteem (if that’s the issue, I’m only speaking from experience) have a really difficult time believing a pretty woman likes them. Even when they say it flat out. What I’ve found works is consistency on your part.
I don't doubt the low self esteem part but another thing to consider is all the warning signs here of being played. If the head on top of your shoulders sends warning signals things look too good to be true or real, then your little head should listen.
 
This guy I like and I keep flirting and literally nothing is coming of it

He initiated something a while ago I rejected him but now I’ve clearly shown my interest we tease each other everyday

How do men work 😭
It depends on how he was rejected. If he was hurt by that he may be more cautious or just plain not interested the second time around.
 
He says a lot of things like when I see you I’ll discuss it

Is he just not willing to be into me over text?
No I don’t think that’s it. He might just want to have that conversation in person. There could be several reasons for that. Most likely he wants to make sure you’re being genuine
 
No I don’t think that’s it. He might just want to have that conversation in person. There could be several reasons for that. Most likely he wants to make sure you’re being genuine
That really frustrates me because I’m not sure how he’s going to act in person

The first day we met he was touching all on me which is why i rejected him lol
 
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