How do I train my fuck buddy...

[DirtySecrets11]

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[troubledone]

Patience and hard work both are required

 

[C5MiGuy]

so that he doesn't cum so quickly? Is it possible?

He's a great guy and there's lots of foreplay but the times we have sex, it would be less than a minute and he cums. He makes up for it by going down on me and fingering until I cum but I've been wanting a proper pounding.

I think he would go longer if he could, he said sorry once when he was done, that time I couldn't mask all of my disappointment. I like him as my fwb, he's respectful and always game whenever I get my kink on and want to fuck in a dark alley way or in an open field, he never denies me. It's just...I wish it would last longer.

Any suggestions?

hydrocodone.

OK, maybe not for everyone, but when I was on it for some pain issues, it was almost impossible to climax. Hard on was there, just wouldn't reach that point.

 

[JudasIscariot]

Get him on anti depressants

They numb the emotion of the mind, he may feel as excited but he will not cum nowhere near as quick

 

[Porkwarrior]

so that he doesn't cum so quickly? Is it possible?

He's a great guy and there's lots of foreplay but the times we have sex, it would be less than a minute and he cums. He makes up for it by going down on me and fingering until I cum but I've been wanting a proper pounding.

I think he would go longer if he could, he said sorry once when he was done, that time I couldn't mask all of my disappointment. I like him as my fwb, he's respectful and always game whenever I get my kink on and want to fuck in a dark alley way or in an open field, he never denies me. It's just...I wish it would last longer.

Any suggestions?

Get a second FWB and double book dates?

Stop being so hawt getting him all turned on & hard for you?


Pain meds actually do the trick (as I found out when I had my last operation on my ankle....ugh six weeks laying on a couch, with masturbation, blowjobs & sex an excercise in frustration, double UGH!)

Ever play with male toys? Cock rings can help. Some even come with built in vibrators that can be very fun, hee hee.

 

[fungatorgurl101]

Look into prolonging gel maybe for him.

 

[sunshinegirl05]

I'm sorry...the first thing that I thought of was...bribe him with treats. LOL

I really have no clue....to answer your question.

 

[Aquagal]

Try different positions to get his mind off spewing the load.

 

[fungatorgurl101]

I'm sorry...the first thing that I thought of was...bribe him with treats. LOL

I really have no clue....to answer your question.

Bwahaha

Try different positions to get his mind off spewing the load.

You could always fill his head with mental images of the things he would never wanna see

 

[sunshinegirl05]

Bwahaha



You could always fill his head with mental images of the things he would never wanna see

you don't want him soft.

 

[Edensgarden]

I saw the thread title and thought someone had started another gummy train.

 

[MSH2]

If I may interject a practical note here. Is he capable of cumming twice?

How about part of the foreplay involves him cumming. Most guys will last longer the second time around. Especially if he;s been aroused for along time before he gets to cum.

Try getting him off then foreplay so he's aroused again.

Your sexuality is very different to his, Yours plateaus and you can then come again and again. His will peak, he cums then he has to start from the bottom, build up arousal and then, once he's cum, you guessed it, start from the bottom again. The trick is timing his peak to meet when you're wanting the pounding.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

does he want it to last longer?

get him hard and don't let him cum. as soon as he starts to shift into "I'm about to" mode, back off. give him a few minutes and get him hard again..
and then back off.. (over and over)
he could do it while he masturbates too (or if you do it for him).

it might also help if he practices "man kegels"

 

[fungatorgurl101]

Shock Collar *giggles*

 

[MSH2]

Shock Collar *giggles*

you'd be shocked at what you stuff into a woman and shock her world

 

[Pinktacokitty]

If I may interject a practical note here. Is he capable of cumming twice?

How about part of the foreplay involves him cumming. Most guys will last longer the second time around. Especially if he;s been aroused for along time before he gets to cum.

Try getting him off then foreplay so he's aroused again.

Your sexuality is very different to his, Yours plateaus and you can then come again and again. His will peak, he cums then he has to start from the bottom, build up arousal and then, once he's cum, you guessed it, start from the bottom again. The trick is timing his peak to meet when you're wanting the pounding.

Sounds way to logical to me........

Maybe she could do a long sexy strip for him while he mastrubates after he cums she could go down on him and have a lil fun making him hard just for her pleasure.....

 

[MSH2]

Sounds way to logical to me........

Maybe she could do a long sexy strip for him while he mastrubates after he cums she could go down on him and have a lil fun making him hard just for her pleasure.....

well yeah! exactly his second time will last longer and think of all the fun that can be had getting him hard again. Seems logical and lots of fun to me




PS long sexy strip? yes please

 

[Porkwarrior]

I think you guys are missing the exhibitionist "dark alley ways & open fields" part of the OP's post.

Although if she's willing to do a long strip in an open field or dark alleyway...

 

[teocan]

communication is the secret. Let him know you what him to last until you cum. I he gets close to cummin he should stop and lick ur clit for a minute until he is ready to go again. Foreplay is not just for before.

 

[DirtySecrets11]

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[Nomadman]

Make him clean you up when he cums to quickly

By forcing him to lick his cum out of your pussy.

 

[subdued_passion]

so that he doesn't cum so quickly? Is it possible?

He's a great guy and there's lots of foreplay but the times we have sex, it would be less than a minute and he cums. He makes up for it by going down on me and fingering until I cum but I've been wanting a proper pounding.

I think he would go longer if he could, he said sorry once when he was done, that time I couldn't mask all of my disappointment. I like him as my fwb, he's respectful and always game whenever I get my kink on and want to fuck in a dark alley way or in an open field, he never denies me. It's just...I wish it would last longer.

Any suggestions?

Can I just say "Welcome to my world," only it's not a friend but almost all the men I date.

If I may interject a practical note here. Is he capable of cumming twice?

Such a logical question and practical solution... only if it's a date it's not exactly the kind of question the guy is going to answer with complete sincerity.

 

[ejredlady]

my FWB does last a long time, however that long time includes a LOT of me sucking his cock. He lets me ride a good long while but when he is ready to come he want it in my mouth. There is just something I miss about those final thrusts as he empties himself into me.

 

[MrRetro]

I'm not sure it helps after reading the responses here, but without a doubt a man will last longer the second round... For me only a few minutes after my first is needed for rocovery as long as I'm ultra horny... Your FWB might need to consider 'taking his edge off' earlier on in the day so he can provide for you... I have done this with a particular woman that enjoyed a man to last a long while, but never a second round...

 

[domandrew]

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