How do I talk to my fiance about trying something with another female?

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I want to try something with another female but get too nervous to even talk about it to my fiance. And on top of that I have a horrible self esteem issue due to the fact that I am a little bigger and plus I am a mom. What can I do and how do I bring it up?
 
I want to try something with another female but get too nervous to even talk about it to my fiance. And on top of that I have a horrible self esteem issue due to the fact that I am a little bigger and plus I am a mom. What can I do and how do I bring it up?

I think the first thing you need to decide is how/if your fiancé would have a role in this adventure or if you would just like his support while you explore this aspect of your sexuality. Once you're clear about what you would like, it should be easier to have a conversation about it.
 
Fiance'? I'd talk about it sooner than later. "You know, I'd like to have a girlfriend on the side" is kinda a big "want" to fit into your basket of wants together.

I have the pleasure of knowing a few women as friends with similar interests in being with another girl, but who haven't discussed them with anyone yet....other than me. That I know of. So I don't think you're in any way at a disadvantage. Most women at some point are moms. Most women at some point, after being moms, aren't quite as small as they used to be. None of those things seem to be much of an issue.

As a friend and husband, I'd be happy to have the wife wander off into some girl time, once in a while. Your fiance' may be open to it as well.

Honestly, put the self-esteem issues to rest. No one is all that alarmed about you being soft and cuddly now.
 
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