How do I hide my small size?

[TC1017]

I have recently started dating again after being with the same girl for 5 years and I am really worried that my small penis (barely 4 inches hard) is going to be a big problem. Does anyone have any advice on how to hide my small size from her?

 

[silverwhisper]

OK, look.

1. if things go well, she'll find out one way or another. if things don't, she'll never know. therefore, "hiding" is completely irrelevant.

2. the more important question is: will that be a problem for her? and honestly, without knowing her--or hell, even with knowing her--it would be impossible to say. some are really into cock size and some aren't.

i think your best approach here is just keep getting to know her and stop obsessing about it. the overwhelming majority of female litsters in how to expressly disclaim much interest in the size of what you're packing: they're fuckloads more interested in how you use it, and the rest of you.

ed

 

[Eilan]

Anyone who considers making a serious response to this thread should check out TC1017's post history.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I have recently started dating again after being with the same girl for 5 years and I am really worried that my small penis (barely 4 inches hard) is going to be a big problem. Does anyone have any advice on how to hide my small size from her?

You could just keep you pants on, but that is hardly the point, is it? Short of not having sex with her, regardless of what you do, sooner or later she is going to find out. She is able to feel it, you know.

With that said, being a good, or even great lover is not about who has the biggest cock. Being a good lover is how you relate to her emotionally. If the woman is emotionally connected with her man, she will still orgasm quite well, even though his cock is small. Foreplay has more to do with how well a woman is satisfied sexually than cock size.

Big cocks are over-rated: the average woman can take 6 inches comfortably. For most women, more than 6 inches is a waste; however, if the woman you are dating, her pussy is so stretched out so big that all she can think about is a big cock, perhaps you should find another girlfriend that appreciates you, and let her go back to the guy who stretched her pussy out too big. The problem is not always that the man’s cock is too small, sometimes it is that the woman’s pussy is too big.

 

[SweetErika]

You could just keep you pants on, but that is hardly the point, is it? Short of not having sex with her, regardless of what you do, sooner or later she is going to find out. She is able to feel it, you know.

With that said, being a good, or even great lover is not about who has the biggest cock. Being a good lover is how you relate to her emotionally. If the woman is emotionally connected with her man, she will still orgasm quite well, even though his cock is small. Foreplay has more to do with how well a woman is satisfied sexually than cock size.

Big cocks are over-rated: the average woman can take 6 inches comfortably. For most women, more than 6 inches is a waste; however, if the woman you are dating, her pussy is so stretched out so big that all she can think about is a big cock, perhaps you should find another girlfriend that appreciates you, and let her go back to the guy who stretched her pussy out too big. The problem is not always that the man’s cock is too small, sometimes it is that the woman’s pussy is too big.

I won't address the 'stretched pussy' issue; even you should know that vaginas are incredibly elastic.

I will say that if a cock it very short, vaginal sex can be difficult, and positions can be severely limited. However, a smaller cock can be better for oral and anal, and you're right, it has no bearing on how good of a lover the guy is, unless he really lacks confidence. I've been with a couple of small men who were exceptional lovers, and some average or bigger who were lousy.

 

[danigrl84]

I strongly agree with sweeterica. Focusing on something you absolutely have zero control over is going to nothing but drive you crazy. Being confident and comfortable is your own skin is of utmost importance. You should focus on your relationship as a whole and not get caught up on just size. If other aspects of your relationship are going well, when the time comes for intimacy, you will want to be a giving and caring loverr, which most of the time has little or nothing to do with size alone. If she really has a problem with how your body is, be honest with her, and maybe the relationship isn't that ideal to begin with. Good luck.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Anyone who considers making a serious response to this thread should check out TC1017's post history.

I think what you meant to say was ...

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[Nasty_Deeds]

I won't address the 'stretched pussy' issue; even you should know that vaginas are incredibly elastic.

Not all of them. Some are like a worn out sock that won't stay on.

 

[BrazenFellow]

Not all of them. Some are like a worn out sock that won't stay on.

No, I assure you that it is as SweetErika said. They are elastic, almost disturbingly so. If she's used to something larger than you, then what you state seems to be the problem. Give her time to relax and "re-tighten" and you'll be able to feel her.

As I once told a class of cadets that wouldn't stop with the cock jokes: "Gentlemen, the Bismarck looked small in the North Atlantic. Try not to brag about your corvettes."

 

[SweetErika]

Not all of them. Some are like a worn out sock that won't stay on.

I didn't say all of them, did I?

Sure, some women have been irreparably harmed by childbirth, naturally lack muscle tone, don't do kegels, etc., but on the whole, the vagina is very elastic. That's why most women can give birth vaginally and still have mutually enjoyable sex after their bodies have healed.

If you've encountered that many loose women, the problem lies with you and/or the type of women you're fucking.

 

[Texguy84]

And I figure I'd give the cheeky answer: Best place to hide a small penis is inside her vagina. Of course, the trick is getting her to let you hide it there. Confidence is key one assumes.

 

[stickwork]

I have recently started dating again after being with the same girl for 5 years and I am really worried that my small penis (barely 4 inches hard) is going to be a big problem. Does anyone have any advice on how to hide my small size from her?

Money.

 

[sillypanda]

Money.

*giggles* It's funny, yet sad, because it's true.

On another note, though, you might be surprised at how your size can work in your favor. Plus, there are plenty of women who masturbate with a single finger, and you're bigger than that, so no worries. If your size is a dealbreaker for this woman, it probably isn't mean to be. Move on and best of luck with the next one.

 

[wahoo33]

Stickwork shoots and scores!
Thanks for the laugh!

 

[Adrraiya]

I have recently started dating again after being with the same girl for 5 years and I am really worried that my small penis (barely 4 inches hard) is going to be a big problem. Does anyone have any advice on how to hide my small size from her?

You have already gotten some good input.. and with someone suggesting we should look at your post history, I glanced at the list of topics you have started

so, it seems you already have a significant amount of input on this topic...

However, I really do understand the feelings of insecurity when you start dating again.... being a bit on the plus size myself & with significant scars, I have experienced a similar nervousness to what you describe


So, to answer answer your question I am going to take a moment to point out to you that the size of a man's dick has nothing to do with the quality of lover. The single best lover in my history is also the smallest man I have been with... and given a glance at the picture, I would venture a guess that you might even bit a bit thicker than he was even at about the same length

I think most women are more concerned about what you offer in terms of your talents. Needless to say, the women who just simply won't accept you as you are, just aren't the women for you... much in the same way that men who want only model-thin women simply aren't the men for me

The women you date are only going to find out about this after you have decided to un-wrap it... no use in trying to hide, how do you plan to hide it when the passion is in full-force & it's time to get busy with things

I have to agree with the poster who said "the best place to hide it is inside her..." simply because there really is no need to hide it

Getting over the hurdle of unveiling whatever is of concern is always difficult, but it so easy once that is behind you.... for you that is allowing her to know your size... for me it what I look without clothes because of my weight & the scars


So... my advise is don't hide it... and be confident... and if you lack skills, then seek to improve your skills... because if you have melted her hot enough before she even gets the meet-n-greet with your cock, then she will be more impressed with what you have to offer rather than what you do not.

 

[Felix_Jones]

Easy...don't date.

 

[favoritesgoddess]

Stop hiding it. You obviously want as many people as possible to know that you have a smaller than average weiner, so own it and be proud of it. You don't have to keep being coy and pretending it embarrasses you with us. We get it.

 

[Vixandra]

Shave.

Or go after a woman with a smaller vagina. Though the how of that is beyond me.

 

[Que]

i'd distract her with a flashy gold pinky riing with a high quality( VVS2 or better i'd suggest) diamond inset in it.

place the ring around your cock and tell her its a cock ring.

this is one of those situations where size matters so get as big a diamond as you can possibly afford.

 

[mynameisben]

Or go after a woman with a smaller vagina. Though the how of that is beyond me.

The day a man cannot approach a woman and politely inquire about the size of her vagina is the day the terrorists surely have won.

 

[Kitkat103]

I have recently started dating again after being with the same girl for 5 years and I am really worried that my small penis (barely 4 inches hard) is going to be a big problem. Does anyone have any advice on how to hide my small size from her?

Work that tongue.

 

[qrayze]

i'd distract her with a flashy gold pinky riing with a high quality( VVS2 or better i'd suggest) diamond inset in it.

place the ring around your cock and tell her its a cock ring.

this is one of those situations where size matters so get as big a diamond as you can possibly afford.

win ^_^

 

[Annabell4you]

I didn't say all of them, did I?

Sure, some women have been irreparably harmed by childbirth, naturally lack muscle tone, don't do kegels, etc., but on the whole, the vagina is very elastic. That's why most women can give birth vaginally and still have mutually enjoyable sex after their bodies have healed.

If you've encountered that many loose women, the problem lies with you and/or the type of women you're fucking.

Love it Erika!

Considering I've had a guy that size, and within ten minutes he took his hand out of me and I tightened right up around him. Yes I'm talking all the way up to the thick part of him hand. And Yes I've given birth and Yes I get tight. I really like how some men think they actually can generalize the pussy!

 

[Vixandra]

The day a man cannot approach a woman and politely inquire about the size of her vagina is the day the terrorists surely have won.

So, fight terrorism and inquire about the pussy sizes of the women around you today!



It's got to be more fun than the Homeland Security act with just as much privacy invasion!

 

[Que]

The day a man cannot approach a woman and politely inquire about the size of her vagina is the day the terrorists surely have won.

I am pretty sure this is why ring gauge sizing was invented for cigars, I carry a supply of cigars around in the trunk of my 1964 Lincoln Continental. simply remove the cigar ring and hold it up to your eye and ask her is it bigger than this? This? until you establish the diameter issues, then whip out the .... cigar and ask her to demonstrate depth by insertion.

If it is in a work situation and you get called in to explain, simply point out that post Clarence Thomas workplace set of rules was superseded by the Cigar Fucker in chief meme about how its none of our fucking business what one does with a subordinate in our own private offices. Private matter end of story. Then light up in the HR chicks office. She's smoking hot anyway, am I right?

True story: (not at all that the above is not, you understand) The HR chick where I work is married but likely getting a divorce. She is a doe-eyed Latina with a great smile, and a nice little body. She is openly fucking my bosses boss. Well not on the table in meetings or anything, but you see them in the morning at the local grocery store together buying breakfast supplies so its kinda implied. I don't think he has a small dick though he played sports and stuff so its probably big, so come to that this might be sort of a thread jack, and if so I apologize. What was the question again?