How do I get over....

duskybeauty

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finding out my "boyfriend" has a wife and baby? :'( *feels heartbroken and betrayed and hurt and taken advantage of*
 
Move on

finding out my "boyfriend" has a wife and baby? :'( *feels heartbroken and betrayed and hurt and taken advantage of*

Kiss a stranger.

Or, in other words, move on to your next love.

If you were close by, I'd offer you a Mexican hug.

Sorry that your ex is a shit
 
Just give it time and do not blame yourself for his failings as a man. Just my $.02.
 
finding out my "boyfriend" has a wife and baby? :'( *feels heartbroken and betrayed and hurt and taken advantage of*

First, you "get over" being stupid...

...let us know when you get that handled.
 
finding out my "boyfriend" has a wife and baby? :'( *feels heartbroken and betrayed and hurt and taken advantage of*

Ha, had the same situation with an ex-girlfriend. Except we were together before her "secret life" started. :(

The're sptil up now and we sometimes get together. Everytime she asks me to buy her stuff, like she did in the old days, I bring this up and it shuts her up pretty fast. :cool:
 
Try getting in touch with your legitimate feelings of anger. You feel betrayed, hurt and taken advantage of because you were, in fact, betrayed, hurt and taken advantage of. He betrayed his wife and child too, by the way, even if they don't know or never find out about you.

Perfectly respectful, sincere people fall in and out of love all the time. This prick was a scumbag before he met you. Assuming you judge yourself to be worthy of infinitely better treatment, part of you should feel lucky you found this guy out before he inflicted even more damage in your life.
 
suicide. i suggest drug overdose. just not tylenol. that shit takes fucking forever. it does work though. liver failure, yo. apparently it fucking hurts.

anyway: have fun dying.
 
Try getting in touch with your legitimate feelings of anger. You feel betrayed, hurt and taken advantage of because you were, in fact, betrayed, hurt and taken advantage of. He betrayed his wife and child too, by the way, even if they don't know or never find out about you.

Perfectly respectful, sincere people fall in and out of love all the time. This prick was a scumbag before he met you. Assuming you judge yourself to be worthy of infinitely better treatment, part of you should feel lucky you found this guy out before he inflicted even more damage in your life.

Have I ever told you how smart you are sometimes, Colonel?

Smarty McSmartypants. :heart:
 
finding out my "boyfriend" has a wife and baby? :'( *feels heartbroken and betrayed and hurt and taken advantage of*

Get a better boyfriend and when the old boyfriends calls to say he left his wife, hang up.
 
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