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My girlfriend is the best, the only thing is that I can't get her to swallow, I want to force her to do it, but first I want her to willingly do it herself!
Diablogrl
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first of all...no forcing her to do it...EVER.
secondly, why don't you talk to her? figure out why she doesn't want to swallow? How long have the two of you gone out? How long have the two of you been intimate?
the key to any good sexual relationship is love and mutual respect. If you want to force this woman into doing something, that makes it sound as if both may be lacking in your relationship. As the two of you grow together and the relationship develops increasingly more levels of trust and comfort, you may find that your girlfriend will be more receptive to even more exciting things than just swallowing. Good luck!
secondly, why don't you talk to her? figure out why she doesn't want to swallow? How long have the two of you gone out? How long have the two of you been intimate?
the key to any good sexual relationship is love and mutual respect. If you want to force this woman into doing something, that makes it sound as if both may be lacking in your relationship. As the two of you grow together and the relationship develops increasingly more levels of trust and comfort, you may find that your girlfriend will be more receptive to even more exciting things than just swallowing. Good luck!
Ezzie
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Some girls, myself included just don't like to swallow. I'm the product of being "Forced" to swallow and now I absolutely refuse to do it. I don't like the taste of it no matter what you eat, drink, smoke, excercise or purchase over the internet to make it taste better. I don't like hot fluids gushing into my mouth. Maybe she's like me and just doesn't like it and if that's the case then, you'll have to accept it or leave her. Talk to her or you'll never know anything.
Just my $.02, though.
Just my $.02, though.
DreamingAngel
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I love nothing more than to swallow my other half's cum, in fact I beg for it.
I wouldn't force her to do it though, I never used to swallow, I never enjoyed it. I got with my currant love and he made me feel so comfortable that I decided that I'd swallow him, lucky for me he tastes wonderful.
The whole forcing thing has me a little worried though, unless you two play at some form of D/s it's just not an option unless you're willing to have her walk out on you.
Some women will never swallow, and like I said in another thread, it may just be a "mental" problem, with certain thoughts going through her mind as she goes down on you. Don't force the issue, instead work at making her comfortable with the idea, then maybe out of the blue one day, she'll take you all, and swallow too.
Good Luck.
I wouldn't force her to do it though, I never used to swallow, I never enjoyed it. I got with my currant love and he made me feel so comfortable that I decided that I'd swallow him, lucky for me he tastes wonderful.
The whole forcing thing has me a little worried though, unless you two play at some form of D/s it's just not an option unless you're willing to have her walk out on you.
Some women will never swallow, and like I said in another thread, it may just be a "mental" problem, with certain thoughts going through her mind as she goes down on you. Don't force the issue, instead work at making her comfortable with the idea, then maybe out of the blue one day, she'll take you all, and swallow too.
Good Luck.
lovechild27
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If you force her to do it, dont be surprised if she takes a chunk out of your penis. Yes....it does happen. Ask her about it. If she says no..accept it. She doesnt want to do it, and you will just have to live with that!
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Dont' force her to - it'll turn her off big time. Drink lots of water and don't be afraid to taste it yourself. Maybe cum on her breasts and take some of your cum on your finger and taste it. Kiss her right after and see if she's receptive to tasting some too. Then talk to her about swallowing it next time. Maybe only cum on her face and get a little in her mouth to start out.
I love to swallow - I love the taste - Good luck!
I love to swallow - I love the taste - Good luck!
mritsme
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yea don't force it my lady never really likes it but she does alot just to pleasure me which is great and times she will spit it out if you let them decide for themselves there are times they do it to pleasure you and the more pleasure you show the more likely it will happen again
Don K Dyck
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Unregistered said:
Some girls just don't want to swallow, and who cares?? Is it a male ego thing - you have to swallow my spunk because I think you need to swallow my spunk to make ME a REAL man???
Grow up, that is a childish attitude!!!
Rather, go over to the How to . . . Board and look up the "Help Me PLease Guys . . . How Do I Finish a Blow Job?" thread. It contains a huge amount of good information form experts.
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Agreeing with Don - as always
Just adding a little thing here... do YOU lick her?
Just adding a little thing here... do YOU lick her?
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Like everyone else has said... talk to her! Don't pressure her, and *especially* don't force her, but do talk to her. Tell her it's something you'd find incredibly sexy.... maybe she'll do it as a birthday present or something . But maybe she does have some good reason not to want to do it.. maybe some other guy forced her to in the past... she might be willing to do it if she knows it would drive you wild.... but that's just a maybe. If not, you've got to live with that.
. But maybe she does have some good reason not to want to do it.. maybe some other guy forced her to in the past... she might be willing to do it if she knows it would drive you wild.... but that's just a maybe. If not, you've got to live with that.Lead by Example!
Cindylouwho has it right. Don't ask her to do anything that you wouldn't do yourself. Have her sit on your face after you've come inside her. Show her that you're not a hypocrite.
I've run into 3 or 4 women who were reluctant swallow at first. I respected their boundaries, while showing them that there was nothing unclean or 'sick' about sharing your lover's juices. A few weeks of positive reinforcement, and they all got to the point where they were licking off my chest the cum that leaked out of their freshly fucked pussies before they made it to my face.
Cindylouwho has it right. Don't ask her to do anything that you wouldn't do yourself. Have her sit on your face after you've come inside her. Show her that you're not a hypocrite.
I've run into 3 or 4 women who were reluctant swallow at first. I respected their boundaries, while showing them that there was nothing unclean or 'sick' about sharing your lover's juices. A few weeks of positive reinforcement, and they all got to the point where they were licking off my chest the cum that leaked out of their freshly fucked pussies before they made it to my face.
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have you asked her why she won't swallow? Is it the texture, the taste or just the whole idea of ingesting cum that grosses her out? If it is taste you can change that by eating fruit or drinking fruit juices (some work better than others - I think pineapple is a good one). If you smoke, stop. The taste of cigarette laden semen is not something that is going to lure a novice into swallowing, besides it's bad for you (here ends the message from the surgeon general). If she doesn't like the texture of your cum drink lots of water, avoid caffeine and jack off a lot (the more you come the thinner and waterier it is). If you are dehydrated or full of caffeine (or other diuretics, or haven't ejaculated in a while or even regularily enough, your semen can be kind of lumpy and thick. Again this will not help to convince her. If she is just really grossed out by the idea of swallowing semen then I have no other suggestions than the ones you have already read. She may just surprise you one day and do it. She may never do it. You may have to live with it. Try putting yourself in her shoes. Let's say she wants you to do something you find repulsive or distasteful or downright nasty. What if she wanted you to pick her nose and eat it? How would you feel? Would you want her to MAKE you do it? Didn't think so. Good luck and enjoy the blow job anyway even if she doesn't swallow.
Minout
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Unregistered,
have you asked her why she won't swallow? Is it the texture, the taste or just the whole idea of ingesting cum that grosses her out? If it is taste you can change that by eating fruit or drinking fruit juices (some work better than others - I think pineapple is a good one). If you smoke, stop. The taste of cigarette laden semen is not something that is going to lure a novice into swallowing, besides it's bad for you (here ends the message from the surgeon general). If she doesn't like the texture of your cum drink lots of water, avoid caffeine and jack off a lot (the more you come the thinner and waterier it is). If you are dehydrated or full of caffeine (or other diuretics, or haven't ejaculated in a while or even regularily enough, your semen can be kind of lumpy and thick. Again this will not help to convince her. If she is just really grossed out by the idea of swallowing semen then I have no other suggestions than the ones you have already read. She may just surprise you one day and do it. She may never do it. You may have to live with it. Try putting yourself in her shoes. Let's say she wants you to do something you find repulsive or distasteful or downright nasty. What if she wanted you to pick her nose and eat it? How would you feel? Would you want her to MAKE you do it? Didn't think so. Good luck and enjoy the blow job anyway even if she doesn't swallow.
Minout
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lorddragonwolf
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spite or swallow? that seems to be the question you hear alot in the locker rooms. hey man does your girl swallow or spite? I have been with women that swallow and some that spit or dont want you to cum in their moths at all. its their choice.
and real men dont for their women to do anything that they dont want to....unless you are into your bdsm roles.
just my $.02 worth as well
and real men dont for their women to do anything that they dont want to....unless you are into your bdsm roles.
just my $.02 worth as well
Force to Swallow?
Hey man. If you force her to do anything, swallow, suck, fuck, whatevert, just remember that you have not taken no for an answer and that, at least theoretically, you could be charged with rape, the ultimate force.
That being said, I learned a long time ago that if you force someone to do anything, you will soon be looking for a new friend or acquaintance. This is a very personal thing for all women, just as I am sure it is also personal for gay men. Personally, I tell my ladies that I would like them to let me finsih in their mouths, swallow and more. BUT, if they are unable to do so that is OK with me also.
I also tell them that if I do cum in their mouth, I will kiss them deeply afterwards. I have licked a wife's pussy clean after fucking her, but I still have a reluctance to do so. I don't rule it out, tho.
A particular fantasy of mine is for my woman to be fucked by another man, then lick his cock clean of his and her juices, then kiss me. Except for the cock, my lady will not have to put anything in her mouth that I will not taste.
So, basically, as all posts have said, forget the forcing her to do anything. Let it come naturally. If it doesn't, it ain't the end of the world.
Igor
Hey man. If you force her to do anything, swallow, suck, fuck, whatevert, just remember that you have not taken no for an answer and that, at least theoretically, you could be charged with rape, the ultimate force.
That being said, I learned a long time ago that if you force someone to do anything, you will soon be looking for a new friend or acquaintance. This is a very personal thing for all women, just as I am sure it is also personal for gay men. Personally, I tell my ladies that I would like them to let me finsih in their mouths, swallow and more. BUT, if they are unable to do so that is OK with me also.
I also tell them that if I do cum in their mouth, I will kiss them deeply afterwards. I have licked a wife's pussy clean after fucking her, but I still have a reluctance to do so. I don't rule it out, tho.
A particular fantasy of mine is for my woman to be fucked by another man, then lick his cock clean of his and her juices, then kiss me. Except for the cock, my lady will not have to put anything in her mouth that I will not taste.
So, basically, as all posts have said, forget the forcing her to do anything. Let it come naturally. If it doesn't, it ain't the end of the world.
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only Jedi Knights
Force???
Sorry, the only decent folks who use that are Jedi Knights and they're only in George Lucas films, not real life!!!
Never EVER force anybody to do anything against their wishes! Sure fire way to lose someone but quick!!
You can kindly request. You can ask but be prepared for her answer which could be a resounding NO. And be a man and take NO for an answer. No quibbling, begging or snivelling.
I'm sure you'd say a profound NO to her request if she wanted to open an umbrella in your ass too.
Like EE says, be grateful and ever so thankful that she does what she does. You have it luckier than most guys I'm willing to bet.
Force???
Sorry, the only decent folks who use that are Jedi Knights and they're only in George Lucas films, not real life!!!
Never EVER force anybody to do anything against their wishes! Sure fire way to lose someone but quick!!
You can kindly request. You can ask but be prepared for her answer which could be a resounding NO. And be a man and take NO for an answer. No quibbling, begging or snivelling.
I'm sure you'd say a profound NO to her request if she wanted to open an umbrella in your ass too.
Like EE says, be grateful and ever so thankful that she does what she does. You have it luckier than most guys I'm willing to bet.
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Good I hear, I have no experience however. Perhaps the idea behind it isn't to change the taste of the man's semen but to give the guy a taste of what his woman is going to have to go through (wheat grass juice isn't exactly champagne from what I hear).
lovechild27
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Cucumber works good too. For me it isnt the taste...it is more the texture of it....like swallowing a big luge.
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!
lorddragonwolf
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i would like to add something here.
i was staying with a relative for the summer helping them paint the house when we heard screaming coming from my cousins room. when we got there she was yelling at her soon to be exboyfriend and he was on the ground doubled over in pain. seems he tried to force her to suck him off and swallow. i think his dick getting bite and torn open hurt more than my uncle beating him to within an inch of his life.
i was staying with a relative for the summer helping them paint the house when we heard screaming coming from my cousins room. when we got there she was yelling at her soon to be exboyfriend and he was on the ground doubled over in pain. seems he tried to force her to suck him off and swallow. i think his dick getting bite and torn open hurt more than my uncle beating him to within an inch of his life.
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