How do i get a dance??!

[Emma88_]

In the past 2 weeks ive been to 3 strip clubs (first time ever! )... And not one person has approached me to offer me a dance. Ive been with my boyfriend and someone else who isn't .... Is it intimidating or what?

 

[SweetErika]

I'm not sure what the exact protocol there is, but I'd imagine asking for a lap dance would be your best bet. Have you tried calling the dancers you like over, then asking for a lap dance, rather than waiting to be approached?

 

[Emma88_]

Well no I haven't haha, which obviously sounds idiotic, but they approach everyone around us! I suppose the can only say no though...

 

[NippleMuncher]

Flashing money will get their attention, asking will get you the goods.

 

[LaRocha]

Well no I haven't haha, which obviously sounds idiotic, but they approach everyone around us! I suppose the can only say no though...

Sounds like they're actually be respectful. If you're with a guy they might just assume you're together and you're both there to watch. You have to ask, and some dancers won't dance for a girl for whatever reason.

 

[SweetErika]

Better yet, get some of the guys around you who want to see some girl-on-girl action to finance the dances.

 

[Luna_Bella]

Better yet, get some of the guys around you who want to see some girl-on-girl action to finance the dances.

Sounds like a good idea to me! or if you are too shy to ask have one of guys ask for you.

 

[infinity706]

Better yet, get some of the guys around you who want to see some girl-on-girl action to finance the dances.

I'd be careful with that, though. Depending on the local law enforcement and the particular club, it might get a little more wild than dancing. Some clubs allow full nudity and depending on how strictly the law is enforced, some strippers might allow spanking, fingering, etc. I guess it just depends on what the person in question would be comfortable doing.

 

[Luna_Bella]

I'd be careful with that, though. Depending on the local law enforcement and the particular club, it might get a little more wild than dancing. Some clubs allow full nudity and depending on how strictly the law is enforced, some strippers might allow spanking, fingering, etc. I guess it just depends on what the person in question would be comfortable doing.

I don't know about the UK, but where I'm from strip clubs are always full nudity, and if you get a private dance(in a booth) are a willing to pay extra, even though its illegal, things are expected to get wild (note that it also depends on the dancer but for the most they are pretty willing)

 

[SweetErika]

I'd be careful with that, though. Depending on the local law enforcement and the particular club, it might get a little more wild than dancing. Some clubs allow full nudity and depending on how strictly the law is enforced, some strippers might allow spanking, fingering, etc. I guess it just depends on what the person in question would be comfortable doing.

What does any of that have to do with who pays for the dances (which is what my post was about)?

 

[infinity706]

Well, a lot of guys might take it as an invitation to push for conditions on what they might want to happen besides the dancing. Quite a few strippers would also take it as an opportunity to push for what the guy might want, too, since it might lead to her walking out of there with significantly more money. Sure, you'd probably handle such a situation just fine, and stand up for what you want, but I wanted to throw that out there because not all people think things through and the OP might not want to risk getting into such a situation without at least having a plan.

You might not agree with me on everything, but I'm pretty sure that you advocate for examining all the risks and benefits before taking action. Afterall, I've watched tons of men and women let their hormones carry them away and get themselves into something they didn't plan on.