How do i eat a girl out !?!

[Jaywalker274]

Dear other members,

I am 18 years old and have benn going out with my girlfriend ever since we went on our eighth grade trip to England, but we have only recently started having sex not full but you know oral masturbation and a little anal she doesn't want her cherry taken til her wedding night. Ever time we go for oral sex she gives it to me great but then when I go to eat her out she says that i could use a lot of work but she won't tell me how I was just wondering if there was some special technique to getting a girl off or if it is just me. I would really like to return the favor to her for all the times that she has given me a great orgasm by the use of her tongue and teeth WOW it is amazing . So if any of you can help I would really appreciate it.

Jay

 

[Skibum]

Jaywalker, try this link for a complete lesson.
http://very-koi.net/tutor/pussy/pussy.htm

 

[lala]

hey i read the link she sent you- and it's all right on, i know there are a couple of things she didn't talk about, so i thought i'd add a couple of things.

1) not everyone enjoys the smell, and first of all, you have to get used to it (or ideally enjoy it) but there are some ways to ease getting used to it
a) bathe or swim together, and catch her when she's clean
b) put something that tastes good there- flavored douches, food, etc.


2) although some women are very quiet, for the most part they at least breathe or moan softly, that is your information, what makes her gasp, what makes her moan, or whimper, fall silent, shiver, even twitch unfortunately some young people do not or cannot communicate their sexual desires verbally, use every cue you can, in short: pay attention to details! yes, we want you to be mind readers, i know you can't but you can at least read body language

3) more or faster is not necessarily better, just like it said in the link, neither is cutting to the chase and going straight for her clit, take your time and do what is comfortable

4) don't stress, have fun!

 

[Skibum]

hey i read the link she sent you

She? Since when am I a she? Did you ever see a female skibum? Or any kind of female bum?

Actually, it's okay lala. It is not a gender specific nickname.

 

[Naked Hunny]

aww sweetie i know your male!! See he has one of those penis thingies hanging between his legs *points at skibums crotch* Isnt it cute?

 

[Always]

*snapping fingers*

I got a case of body language...

 

[lala]

sorry about that i'm one of those freaks that has female as default concerning pronouns- plus i didn't give a guy enough credit to know something like that- i didn't redeem myself there, did i ? i'm learning!