How do I convince my wife to enter her ass hole

[Mikeb2001]

My wife is 30 years old. We have been married for 3 years. We have had sex in many positions but have not been successful in convincing her to allow me to enter her ass hole. Can someone help me with some ideas?

 

[It'sasecret]

Once I convince me husband to ass fuck me I 'll let you know! He wont even touch my ass at all.

 

[SexyChele]

Most women have, usually, at one time or another, allowed a partner to try anal sex with them. Problem is, most men are truly ignorant in how to do this properly, and woman has memories of intense pain which she has no desire to relive. Also, many women have heard, through their friends, that anal sex hurts, and hearing that is enough to turn them off. Still, some women feel it is dirty, that it is humiliating, that it is disgusting.

If your wife the later, it will be difficult to talk to her about anal sex. It is a mindset and an opinion and it is where she is coming from.

If, however, she has tried it before, and it was an unpleasant experience, then try to find out what the previous guy did or didn't do. Read up on anal sex techniques and see how you might go about making it a positive experience.

However, do NOT push her. Talk to her about it, let her know your desires, and let her come to the decision to try. And if that should come, remember: slow and easy....take your time. But make sure you know first what it is that you need to do!

Good luck!

 

[Babydoll5272]

Couldnt agree more!

I couldn't agree more with the previous post. Anal sex is a personal decision for each individual, and if your wife is not comfortable or interested in it, no amount of talking to her will convince her otherwise. As stated above I am one of those woman who has tried anal sex, it hurt and I personally do not want to relive that again!

Personally I would give up on the idea of anal sex with your wife and maybe think of other things you would like to try to spice things up!

Best of luck
DOLL

 

[Tim1]

anal?

I don't post on the "How to" board much. For God sake look at my AV....you think anyone is gunna take me serious?

Ok That being said, The post above are the real deal and very truthful. Most men and I include myself in this are too damn FAST. We want what we want and we want it now. Its a flaw with our sensitive side. When you lead a woman with care and show some respect as you explore, there isn't much that won't take place given that.

Good luck........go slow and use alot of lube.

 

[Skitten]

Try reading up on anal sex first and ask her if she would read too. There are a lot of phobias that are attached to anal sex, and she may be scared of you thinking of her differently or of that you will expect anal all the time. Explain to her your feelings and listen to hers about having anal sex. But I do agree that it is a personal decision for that one person, do not push her into something that she isn't ready for or is totally not into.

 

[weathered2]

Take your time. I'm talking about a process of months here, but getting there is fun to. I agree with the mutual reading and the talking. Furthermore, when going down on her, occassionally wander just ever so slightly into that sensitive area in between. Don't go far or for very long. Just throw that in there over a long period of time, When you sense SHE wants you to go further with that, (you'll know it if whe does). Just take it slowly until, after a long while you're rimming her anus with your tongue. If you follow this same patient "wait until she's begging for it" approach whtih the subsequent stages, shallow fingertip only, just to the sphincter with the fingertip, etc. etc. I think you'll succeed. I did. Make sure you've done a lot of limbering up with the finger, maybe eventually two fingers, before you ever try your penis. And take that in slow stages as well. We probably spread this out over maybe a years time, but getting there was temendous fun as well.

 

[alltherage]

Phew!!!!!!!! From the title on the board i had an all together different idea of what this thread was about. Thank goodness I was wrong. lol

 

[Guest]

How do I convince my wife to enter her ass hole

You want your wife to enter her own asshole? This I have to see. Post on!!

 

[Guest]

LOL

I was laughing out loud at the last two posts....

I agree with the consensus... don't push your wife. If she is up to the idea she will let you know...

If you push her too hard she might ask you to try it out first...

 

[averageguy]

Re: LOL

I was laughing out loud at the last two posts....

I agree with the consensus... don't push your wife. If she is up to the idea she will let you know...

If you push her too hard she might ask you to try it out first...

Lead by example they say!
If my lady demanded I try it with a toy first I would do it.
But that's just me.
Average.

 

[SilverVeil]

Hee hee hee !! I agree with alltherage. When I saw the topic I was wondering "What the hell ?"

So far all the advice had been on target as far as I can see. Is she dead set against it ? Or just never done it and has some fears ?

Let her get on here and read some of the posts from your fellow Literoticians about what we think and like. You never know, she might get some ideas of her own. { waggling eyebrows in best Groucho Marx's style }

 

[shinny]

hi

Get her really horny, get her on the net, show her how much fun it can be,,, when u get there (which u will) be gentle!

 

[nicocujo]

Go to www.puckerup.com.

 

[KinkyKandy]

Maybe your wife has had bad pass experiences with anal sex. Or maybe she is just scared. Try reassuring her that you will be gentle and stop if she wants you to stop. Maybe that will help convince her.