How do I approach this... (Warning: Involves Incest)

[Desolation_Row]

posted in the other forum as well, but I figured it wouldnt hurt to spread out...

Hey everyone. So Im not really sure how to approach this, but I just had something pretty crazy happen to me. I slept with my mother this weekend. I'm still in shock from the whole thing, and I can't really believe it happened. We never had any prior chemistry, but last night we had a bottle of wine with dinner, and things just continued from there. I'm an only child, my father left us when I was younger.

The more I think about it, the more freaked out I'm getting by it. I don't know how to approach her, I don't know what this will do to our relationship. I havent been able to talk to her about it yet, she left for work in the morning.

I've lurked on this forum for a while, and I joined to ask anyone for advice, or share experiences that may help me adjust to what the hell just happened. Im not looking for guys telling me about their fantasies, nor am I seeking women telling me theirs. I'm asking for help in a way.

I will post in other forums just to spread out a little. Thank you guys for reading this and any help would be really appreciated..

 

[SweetErika]

If you truly need help, I'd suggest calling a crisis line so you can talk to a trained professional and maybe get some resources. Other than that, I can firmly say that NO amount of alcohol would ever allow me to have sex with my son, so it sounds like your mom needs to get some professional help as well. Even when both people are adults, this kind of thing is predatory and just not right for a long list of reasons. Sane people don't have any interest in having sexual relations with their children. They likely recognize that their kids are attractive people, but they don't cross that very clear line, alcohol or no alcohol.

If you're trolling, shame on you, and you should seek professional help for the problems that are leading you to cry wolf.

 

[nakdsub]

Yeah, I have a feeling this is bogus

If not, my apologies. If it is, shame on you.
Unfortunately, there is more incest out there than we would like to think. For those of us who shutter at the mere mention of it, we would like to think it only happens on the pages of Literotica, but we would be wrong.
I agree though, if you are for real, first get help for yourself in the way of a crisis center. Then see if you can persuade your mother to seek help as well, either separately or possibly together.
Experiences like this can lead to very long term problems with other relationships down the road and possibly for the rest of your life.

 

[kingjggff]

Something creative off the top of your head, not revision updates- since I'm the one that do those type of articles.

 

[goodsonformom]

posted in the other forum as well, but I figured it wouldnt hurt to spread out...

Hey everyone. So Im not really sure how to approach this, but I just had something pretty crazy happen to me. I slept with my mother this weekend. I'm still in shock from the whole thing, and I can't really believe it happened. We never had any prior chemistry, but last night we had a bottle of wine with dinner, and things just continued from there. I'm an only child, my father left us when I was younger.

The more I think about it, the more freaked out I'm getting by it. I don't know how to approach her, I don't know what this will do to our relationship. I havent been able to talk to her about it yet, she left for work in the morning.

I've lurked on this forum for a while, and I joined to ask anyone for advice, or share experiences that may help me adjust to what the hell just happened. Im not looking for guys telling me about their fantasies, nor am I seeking women telling me theirs. I'm asking for help in a way.

I will post in other forums just to spread out a little. Thank you guys for reading this and any help would be really appreciated..

If you are genuine........speaking with your mother about this is the most important thing. You have already crossed the lines of intimacy, that most probably will be very defining. Your relationship as "mother and son" is still the most important thing through all of this, not whether you will or not be lovers in the future.

I understand how you might be a bit taken back and how things in a moment can become so different......almost surreal.......take a breath........exhale......remember she is your mom.......she is a woman........

I will add........this is a very intensely emotional situation......so fragile.......and the way you both move forward is absolutely critical.......

P.S................My suggestion is not to contact a crisis line.......unless of course you are beside yourself with guilt and mental turmoil.......it sounds to me you are not in that place.......Good luck.

 

[michaelb19]

You say you are freaked out. Be truthful, deep down would you like it to happen again? If so, tell her. If not then tell her you enjoyed it, but it can't happen again. Then move on with you life. If you don't want it to happen again don't make a big issue out of it. Just my thought.