SusanJillParker
I'm 100% woman
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Now that you've been married too long to remember what passionate sex was like, do you still remember the one who got away? Do you remember the one you should have married?
Close your eyes and take a moment. Think about her. Think about him.
Tell us about her or him. What did he or her look like? What was he or she like? Why were you so attracted to him or her that it still hurts your heart to remember. What happened? How different would your life have been if you married her or him.
Of course, they'll be those who will write that they've been truly happy and are still in love after 30 or 40 years. The Ozzie and Harriet's of the world, I hate people like that (lol). We don't want to hear from you (lol). We want to hear from the man or woman who is totally miserable with their present spouse or alone while wondering what if. We want to hear from the men who still think of her and are haunted by her. We want to hear from the women who still think of him and are haunted by him.
Me? I should have married anyone of a number of men I dated instead of marrying my ex, a bad boy, Boston cop. When he told me his background, ignoring all of that because he was so good looking and charming, I was blind. I should have ran away from him as fast as I could.
An ex Army Ranger, he served two tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. He wanted to stay there. He wanted to be part the private security forces that are over there for the money, lots of money. Only, he was seriously injured and had to return home. A 5th degree black belt in Judo, he had thoughts of being an MMA fighter. Instead he became a Boston undercover cop. He was a violent angry man. Our marriage lasted 3 years.
I should have married someone else, anyone else (lol) but him. Still, I can't help but wonder what if I had married this one or that one. Had I married someone else, had I had a brood of kids, I seriously doubt that I'd have the time to ponder such thing while writing stories.
So...what about you?
Close your eyes and take a moment. Think about her. Think about him.
Tell us about her or him. What did he or her look like? What was he or she like? Why were you so attracted to him or her that it still hurts your heart to remember. What happened? How different would your life have been if you married her or him.
Of course, they'll be those who will write that they've been truly happy and are still in love after 30 or 40 years. The Ozzie and Harriet's of the world, I hate people like that (lol). We don't want to hear from you (lol). We want to hear from the man or woman who is totally miserable with their present spouse or alone while wondering what if. We want to hear from the men who still think of her and are haunted by her. We want to hear from the women who still think of him and are haunted by him.
Me? I should have married anyone of a number of men I dated instead of marrying my ex, a bad boy, Boston cop. When he told me his background, ignoring all of that because he was so good looking and charming, I was blind. I should have ran away from him as fast as I could.
An ex Army Ranger, he served two tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. He wanted to stay there. He wanted to be part the private security forces that are over there for the money, lots of money. Only, he was seriously injured and had to return home. A 5th degree black belt in Judo, he had thoughts of being an MMA fighter. Instead he became a Boston undercover cop. He was a violent angry man. Our marriage lasted 3 years.
I should have married someone else, anyone else (lol) but him. Still, I can't help but wonder what if I had married this one or that one. Had I married someone else, had I had a brood of kids, I seriously doubt that I'd have the time to ponder such thing while writing stories.
So...what about you?