How did you get your SO to try swinging?

[Howardstark1910]

I have participated in a couple different first time encounters and think that the conversations that convince someone to swing are some of the most exciting in existence.

How did you convince your SO to swing or swap for the first time?

 

[KaitlynW1993]

My first time at a swing party was with my Trainer and wife. They felt i was experienced enough. First time there I didnt have sex with anyone except to my trainer.

But further down the track, I was dating this guy and he asked when we watched a movie "would you do that? Go to a swing party?"
Awkward because is he testing me so he can then take me to one.... or to see if im perverted.
I done the switch back and said "oh i dont know... what about you?

He said "Well maybe but dont know how i would feel watching a guy fuck my GF."
"but wouldnt his woman be fucking you?
Its just sex..... Im not the hottest girl, i know that, i have average size tits, but imagine a hotter girl that me wanted to suck your dick.. Telling me you wouldnt want that?"

Then I said "I heard they have a good time without the sex too. then told him the games, dance, bar etc..Plus some go there just to watch and have sex with each other. some just softswap"

Whats that he says..

"its when lets say that hot milf you like just ants to suck you. Her man just either eats me or i suck him"

He didnt say much but could tell he was in process mode.

week later we are eating dinner watching tv and he says "If we did try swing, I have the final say ok?"

I was like "yep"

We went away on a short break for a week. few states away when i looked up Swing clubs. and found this sex club near by.
told him and said "here is your shot"

So he txted the number and next min his phone rings and now he was on the phone to someone.
That day we got invited to the couples club rooms and they showed us around.

I asked him his thoughts.. he seemed ok yet shy about it.

I said "we can always go, talk, and i promise to keep you hard ok?"

He smiled and said, ok why not, the hosts came back and told house house rules and that tomorrows gathering was Men to be naked or then little micro bike shorts.
Women were Naked or Skimpy Lingerie/Outfit.


At the hotel i could see he was nervous now. didnt know what to wear or just be naked.
i got on my knees and pulled his dick out and sucked him till he was almost about to cum and i stopped. stood up and said "Pleasure is pleasure. Save that cum for tomorrow night as you might need to fill 2 mouths" Then winked at him.

i searched local stores and a sex shop for something to wear. Wasnt much except this BDSM black bondage strap looking outfit.

too much i thought.

So bought a collar with a tag on the front that said Bitch.

Next night I showered, I rubbed my clit, I applied lube to my butt, inserted my little Blue gem plug.
Placed on my lace up up stockings. heels. Then added a black lace thong. Added my collar. makeup and hair...

I looked at myself in the mirror and went "yep"

I removed the collar, put that in a small case with clothes and could hear talking in the hotel room. Thinking he was on the phone i walked out of the bathroom towards where my handbag was on the table next to the tv and noticed the talking stopped.

i turned to see my mans expression,

 

[Howardstark1910]

Being welcomed/encouraged by an experienced old couple seems to be a VERY common thread. That was my first experience and it has never left my mind.

Relationships are also hard. If it’s built around the swinging/bdsm, the rest of the relationship seems to be put on the back burner, and if you don’t address that right off the get-go you are stuck trying to bring it up and hope there is agreement.

I feel like I’m trying to incept my SO that other guys and couples could be fun. Currently, by wife is very vanilla, but has enjoyed EVERYTHING kink she has tried. I try to be chill when we hear about people we know swinging and seem the right amount of interested.

 

[Howardstark1910]

My first time at a swing party was with my Trainer and wife. They felt i was experienced enough. First time there I didnt have sex with anyone except to my trainer.

But further down the track, I was dating this guy and he asked when we watched a movie "would you do that? Go to a swing party?"
Awkward because is he testing me so he can then take me to one.... or to see if im perverted.
I done the switch back and said "oh i dont know... what about you?

He said "Well maybe but dont know how i would feel watching a guy fuck my GF."
"but wouldnt his woman be fucking you?
Its just sex..... Im not the hottest girl, i know that, i have average size tits, but imagine a hotter girl that me wanted to suck your dick.. Telling me you wouldnt want that?"

Then I said "I heard they have a good time without the sex too. then told him the games, dance, bar etc..Plus some go there just to watch and have sex with each other. some just softswap"

Whats that he says..

"its when lets say that hot milf you like just ants to suck you. Her man just either eats me or i suck him"

He didnt say much but could tell he was in process mode.

week later we are eating dinner watching tv and he says "If we did try swing, I have the final say ok?"

I was like "yep"

We went away on a short break for a week. few states away when i looked up Swing clubs. and found this sex club near by.
told him and said "here is your shot"

So he txted the number and next min his phone rings and now he was on the phone to someone.
That day we got invited to the couples club rooms and they showed us around.

I asked him his thoughts.. he seemed ok yet shy about it.

I said "we can always go, talk, and i promise to keep you hard ok?"

He smiled and said, ok why not, the hosts came back and told house house rules and that tomorrows gathering was Men to be naked or then little micro bike shorts.
Women were Naked or Skimpy Lingerie/Outfit.


At the hotel i could see he was nervous now. didnt know what to wear or just be naked.
i got on my knees and pulled his dick out and sucked him till he was almost about to cum and i stopped. stood up and said "Pleasure is pleasure. Save that cum for tomorrow night as you might need to fill 2 mouths" Then winked at him.

i searched local stores and a sex shop for something to wear. Wasnt much except this BDSM black bondage strap looking outfit.

too much i thought.

So bought a collar with a tag on the front that said Bitch.

Next night I showered, I rubbed my clit, I applied lube to my butt, inserted my little Blue gem plug.
Placed on my lace up up stockings. heels. Then added a black lace thong. Added my collar. makeup and hair...

I looked at myself in the mirror and went "yep"

I removed the collar, put that in a small case with clothes and could hear talking in the hotel room. Thinking he was on the phone i walked out of the bathroom towards where my handbag was on the table next to the tv and noticed the talking stopped.

i turned to see my mans expression,

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