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Well, the first time I sucked a guy it wasn’t actually consensual. Frankly didn’t understand why this kid five years older than myself was trying to do. Five years later I figured it out...lol. And five years later than that, had a truly fabulous experience trading blowjobs with my best friend.
In my twenties had another series of “events” with another best friend. He had a really big cock, and a quick recovery time.
That’s when I realized that I really enjoyed sucking and swallowing.
Still enjoy it, but at my age I don’t get the opportunities very often...dammit.
In my twenties had another series of “events” with another best friend. He had a really big cock, and a quick recovery time.
That’s when I realized that I really enjoyed sucking and swallowing.
Still enjoy it, but at my age I don’t get the opportunities very often...dammit.
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how did I decide to do it? It just kinda happened
I have always had a jack off fantasy of being mounted and fucked by a man. I didn't really understand the fantasy as I have no attraction to males in daily life. During the fantasies, if oral sex was performed it was only as a prelude to anal.
My first step down the road on m4m action was to write a fantasy story for Literotica. That story was under another user name and can be found in the following link. The story was based on a true life finger fuck that my physician gave me during a physical. other than the finger quicky, the rest of the story is fantasy. https://www.literotica.com/s/my-yearly-physical-1
As I got older, the curiosity about giving up my anal cherry grew. I wanted a test to help me determine if there was an attraction to male on male sex or not.
That lead me to get a gay nude massage as a test of what I wanted and how far I would go. That story is the second post on this thread. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1434382
The first massage showed me that I was a sub bottom. The second gay massage showed the same thing. I remember spreading my legs as he climbed on top of me and rolling my hips up in acceptance of his weight. I remember being disappointed when I found he had no erection. By agreement, the massage was to have no penetration so there was no chance of anything happening but I left knowing I was a sub bottom even though at that point, I still had not touched a man's junk. Yes, both massages ended with a happy event. The masseur had mad skills.
I then joined Silver Daddies and posted some photos. One of the Silver Daddies members liked my photos and offered to blow me. He could host. I had some free time so I went to his place. Super nervous. Even scared. We chatted a bit. I relaxed some and relaxed some more when he went to work on me. He edged me twice but I had him pull off to keep from cumming too quickly.
He started up on me again and I found I was curious. I flipped to a 69 and then touched, licked and sucked my first cock. It was a 5" cock but with balls big enough that I could barely get both in my mouth at the same time. I attacked that poor man but he didn't complain.
I edged him twice before I took his load and PROUDLY swallowed. I was so happy to have made that cock dance and sing for me. Yes, I was proud. I lost my erection after he came. So he came and I did not which is opposite of what I thought would happen that day [other than me being a chicken and running away before anything could happen.]
Afterwards, there was guilt, regret, shame and all the stuff that one might expect. Right along with it was a hunger for cock #2. Oral was so much fun and so much safer than anal that I am not in a rush to give up my butt anymore. Cock #2 will happen some day and I might even give up my butt some day too. Time will tell.
So what lead me to take a cock for the first time? Curiosity and opportunity for the most part. It is just sex. Go for it if you get a chance.
I have always had a jack off fantasy of being mounted and fucked by a man. I didn't really understand the fantasy as I have no attraction to males in daily life. During the fantasies, if oral sex was performed it was only as a prelude to anal.
My first step down the road on m4m action was to write a fantasy story for Literotica. That story was under another user name and can be found in the following link. The story was based on a true life finger fuck that my physician gave me during a physical. other than the finger quicky, the rest of the story is fantasy. https://www.literotica.com/s/my-yearly-physical-1
As I got older, the curiosity about giving up my anal cherry grew. I wanted a test to help me determine if there was an attraction to male on male sex or not.
That lead me to get a gay nude massage as a test of what I wanted and how far I would go. That story is the second post on this thread. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1434382
The first massage showed me that I was a sub bottom. The second gay massage showed the same thing. I remember spreading my legs as he climbed on top of me and rolling my hips up in acceptance of his weight. I remember being disappointed when I found he had no erection. By agreement, the massage was to have no penetration so there was no chance of anything happening but I left knowing I was a sub bottom even though at that point, I still had not touched a man's junk. Yes, both massages ended with a happy event. The masseur had mad skills.
I then joined Silver Daddies and posted some photos. One of the Silver Daddies members liked my photos and offered to blow me. He could host. I had some free time so I went to his place. Super nervous. Even scared. We chatted a bit. I relaxed some and relaxed some more when he went to work on me. He edged me twice but I had him pull off to keep from cumming too quickly.
He started up on me again and I found I was curious. I flipped to a 69 and then touched, licked and sucked my first cock. It was a 5" cock but with balls big enough that I could barely get both in my mouth at the same time. I attacked that poor man but he didn't complain.
I edged him twice before I took his load and PROUDLY swallowed. I was so happy to have made that cock dance and sing for me. Yes, I was proud. I lost my erection after he came. So he came and I did not which is opposite of what I thought would happen that day [other than me being a chicken and running away before anything could happen.]
Afterwards, there was guilt, regret, shame and all the stuff that one might expect. Right along with it was a hunger for cock #2. Oral was so much fun and so much safer than anal that I am not in a rush to give up my butt anymore. Cock #2 will happen some day and I might even give up my butt some day too. Time will tell.
So what lead me to take a cock for the first time? Curiosity and opportunity for the most part. It is just sex. Go for it if you get a chance.
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It was right around the time I turned 60 years old. I was having some chat fun with a woman 10 years my junior, or at least that is what she told me. It started out with fantasies about my looking for men to have sex with my wife. It soon turned into stories of 'her' having sex with my wife.
After many scenarios of sex with her, it turned into threesomes with my wife, her and her husband. As things progressed, I soon became involved as part of some wife swapping fantasies. When she suggested that I think about sucking her husband's cock, I was more than a bit turned off. But, she persisted, eventually informing me that if I did not do as she asked, she would not write to me anymore.
I was in a predicament. I had become accustomed to our sexy stories going back and forth, and I also had become quite submissive to her. I 'had' to do as she told me to. I complied and wrote about sucking her hubby's cock. I found it erotic and compelling. It was nothing that I would have ever considered to be possible in 'real life.'
After a couple of years writing back and forth, my lady friend and I went in different directions, much to my chagrin, but we had exhausted all of our common interests. By then, I was curious as anyone could be about sucking a cock. I started to scour other forums and chat sites, writing and talking about being able to do it. My interest was way beyond the scope of 'maybe', I needed to suck one. I had to find a buddy.And I did.
After approximately three years of sometimes insanely intense curiosity, I met a guy close by and we went for coffee, which turned out to be a suck and get sucked experience. I was hooked. The first thought that crossed my mind as I took his hard cock in my mouth was just how natural it felt to suck a cock. For me, there is no turning back. I still love pussy and all a woman has to offer, but I also love sucking a nice cock.
For what it's worth, this is my take on the matter.
I decided to try it 3 years ago I was on Craigslist trying to talk to women on there and then saw the m4m ads saw one in my area he came over sucked me off then I suck him didn’t get him off but I was hooked since. I’m looking for a few cocks to suck on a regular basis
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I never did decide. I always just liked sex, didn't matter from whom. One of my first experiences was with a school mate, and he enjoyed sucking me. And I enjoyed the release. Pretty soon I had to taste what I was giving him, and started eating my own cum. I guess I've always been this way. No decision, just action.
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For various reasons I've opted not to pursue sex with men, but yeah, as far as desire, there was never any decision involved. Since I first became sexually aware, my urges for pussy and cock were always equally strong.
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Started with buddies in Jr high school played around enjoyed it. Last experience was in High School then 2015 rooled around and I decided to give it a try again, no regrets.
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For me...
I suppose it was being too young to buy them in the store but looking at the Playboy centerfolds. Fantasizing and masturbating often. Then I happened to see a different magazine, may have been an issue of Hustler. At first is was just a cock in the picture of a woman but more and more I realized that I was staring at him almost as much as her. Then one day I found a man only magazine, my older sisters Playgirl or what ever it was called. That led to finding a man on man magazine. I then began to fantasize about women and men, being with two women, a man and a woman and two men. Still a big fantasy of mine and I enjoy looking at naked men online and very occasionally in person. I don't dwell on it, I just enjoy sex.
I suppose it was being too young to buy them in the store but looking at the Playboy centerfolds. Fantasizing and masturbating often. Then I happened to see a different magazine, may have been an issue of Hustler. At first is was just a cock in the picture of a woman but more and more I realized that I was staring at him almost as much as her. Then one day I found a man only magazine, my older sisters Playgirl or what ever it was called. That led to finding a man on man magazine. I then began to fantasize about women and men, being with two women, a man and a woman and two men. Still a big fantasy of mine and I enjoy looking at naked men online and very occasionally in person. I don't dwell on it, I just enjoy sex.
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i had experimented with mutual oral with a buddy before I had any pussy . It was ok but once I had pussy I had zero interest in cock.
Years later my curiosity was awakened from having guys hit me up on chat lines and indulging in role play chat out of boredom and horniness. I was always a huge fan of getting my cock sucked by women and the idea of being on the giving end became more alluring from role play chat.
This combined with porn eventually caused an overwhelming desire to try sucking cock again. After meeting with a few guys and having no interest to follow through, I questioned if I'd ever find the right candidate.
I realized the idea of sucking a big black cock caused an extra element of excitement that made me focus on seeking out that specifically. It was kinda like I wanted to suck a bigger black version of my cock.
It took awhile to find the perfect guy with the right cock but once I did I dropped to my knees with as much lust, desire and nervous excitement as I'd maybe ever had. It still ranks as one of my hottest sexual experiences.
After that I definitely wanted to do it again and had a few more awesome cocksucking experiences. Over time though, the enjoyment waned and I was less excited by the acting out of my fantasies.
I still masturbate almost daily to the fantasy but don't act on it anymore. I'm very happy with my wife's pussy , and I have a huge rubber black cock I can suck to play out my fetish when I crave a bit more.
So I guess the reality of being a cocksucker was a bit of a passing fancy. Perhaps if I'd found a cool buddy with a huge black dick I could play with once in awhile it may have remained more ongoing?
If I did find that now, I'd be more interested in a J/O type friendship as long as my wife was cool with it, but its no longer as important as it once was.
Of course that could change in future.
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With me it started at a young age
With my hormones raging I fantasized about girls and sucking cock. I’ve always thought about it. No attraction to guys, just cocks. Had my first experience at 18 when I blew a friend then nothing until about 3 or 4 years ago in my mid 30’s. My cravings come and go but there is nothing more exciting that having a cock in my mouth.
With my hormones raging I fantasized about girls and sucking cock. I’ve always thought about it. No attraction to guys, just cocks. Had my first experience at 18 when I blew a friend then nothing until about 3 or 4 years ago in my mid 30’s. My cravings come and go but there is nothing more exciting that having a cock in my mouth.
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For me, it has been being out "here." I've probably cum with at least a hundred different guys out here in chat, voice, and vid. There is one guy out here I have been consistently chatting, voicing, and vid'ing with for 7 years. We've shared and learned a lot about each other sexually over the years. We have shared some incredibly pleasurable and intense times. If our schedules ever line up, I have no doubt we will have sex. Exploring my relationship with him has convinced I could easily have a homosexual encounter with the right guy.
I had some youthful experiences which I place no significance on.
Fast forward to 15 years ago. My marriage was falling apart and I was extremely frustrated by involuntary celibacy and bitter about having to return to my adolescent means of sexual release. I fooled around with a few married women from work - all younger and exciting in their own ways - but extremely dangerous in their own ways as well.
Long story short, I fantasized about having a sexual outlet that was easy, comfortable, free from emotional entanglements, focused on uncomplicated exchanges of pleasure and discreet. Those parameters pretty much ruled out nearly all women.
It took a while to accept the idea that I was turned on by the idea of same sex oral, a while longer to accept the idea that if the right opportunity arose, I'd act on it and longer still to realize that such an opportunity was unlikely to arose unless I did something to make it happen. In other words, I could either do something to make my fantasies real - or I could spend the rest of my life wondering would it would have been like. I got brave and chose the former.
I placed a totally honest ad on CL which explained my situation and that I was looking to find a similarly situated guy who was willing to help me have that all-important first opportunity.
I got many responses - most of which I dismissed out of hand. Then I came across one that seemed too good to be true. A few days later I found myself kneeling in front of an ideal guy working to get his pants down.
The experience felt dirty, taboo, but almost intoxicatingly stimulating. Twice I came too soon, my partner not at all and I realized that I was totally unskilled and it showed. However, I had no regrets.
It was about a year before I had another encounter. It was much different and I was prepared and, again - left with no regrets. Ever since, I have occasionally looked for suitable partners and it has gotten more challenging - especially after CL was no longer able to help me connect. I love women and all that they can give. However, when a woman isn't an option, a little hedonistic trading of pleasure suits me fine.
Fast forward to 15 years ago. My marriage was falling apart and I was extremely frustrated by involuntary celibacy and bitter about having to return to my adolescent means of sexual release. I fooled around with a few married women from work - all younger and exciting in their own ways - but extremely dangerous in their own ways as well.
Long story short, I fantasized about having a sexual outlet that was easy, comfortable, free from emotional entanglements, focused on uncomplicated exchanges of pleasure and discreet. Those parameters pretty much ruled out nearly all women.
It took a while to accept the idea that I was turned on by the idea of same sex oral, a while longer to accept the idea that if the right opportunity arose, I'd act on it and longer still to realize that such an opportunity was unlikely to arose unless I did something to make it happen. In other words, I could either do something to make my fantasies real - or I could spend the rest of my life wondering would it would have been like. I got brave and chose the former.
I placed a totally honest ad on CL which explained my situation and that I was looking to find a similarly situated guy who was willing to help me have that all-important first opportunity.
I got many responses - most of which I dismissed out of hand. Then I came across one that seemed too good to be true. A few days later I found myself kneeling in front of an ideal guy working to get his pants down.
The experience felt dirty, taboo, but almost intoxicatingly stimulating. Twice I came too soon, my partner not at all and I realized that I was totally unskilled and it showed. However, I had no regrets.
It was about a year before I had another encounter. It was much different and I was prepared and, again - left with no regrets. Ever since, I have occasionally looked for suitable partners and it has gotten more challenging - especially after CL was no longer able to help me connect. I love women and all that they can give. However, when a woman isn't an option, a little hedonistic trading of pleasure suits me fine.
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She decided for sissy.
Years ago was retiring (that thing about not having to go to work everyday thing) and informed Her that sissy would like to dress as female full time. After thinking about it She agreed with the condition that became Her sissy. Agreed to it and She trained sissy in what She wanted Her sissy to be. Now all sissy wants is to please Her, Her agreeing to let sissy do what made sissy feel good and right deservers to be rewarded by this sissy only wanting to please Her.
Being a full sissy requires learning to satisfy men in their physical sexual needs and satisfying their mental needs to be served and given pleasure as best a sissy can.
My first ever sexual experience was having my cock sucked by an older guy, at the time i was considering myself to be straight but being a horny 18 year old virgin i was eager to get my rocks any way possible. Following on from that i dated girls exclusively throughout my late teens and into my mid twenties, eventually settling down into a long term relationship.
Unfortunately my partner decided to move on to another guy, leaving me suddenly single. A good friend at the time had just come out and during those turbulent days we seemed to support each other.
One evening we were having a drink in a local bar, when he told me how deep his desire was for me. I told him about my first ever time and said that i had never had the opportunity to return the favour and suck the older guys cock. My friend suggested we leave the bar and find somewhere to be alone.
He drove us to a quiet lane and sucked my cock for me, before letting me play with his, and suck him for the first time.
Straight away i knew that it was right for me. I have predominately been with women throughout my life, but it is always nice to find a guy to be with too.
Unfortunately my partner decided to move on to another guy, leaving me suddenly single. A good friend at the time had just come out and during those turbulent days we seemed to support each other.
One evening we were having a drink in a local bar, when he told me how deep his desire was for me. I told him about my first ever time and said that i had never had the opportunity to return the favour and suck the older guys cock. My friend suggested we leave the bar and find somewhere to be alone.
He drove us to a quiet lane and sucked my cock for me, before letting me play with his, and suck him for the first time.
Straight away i knew that it was right for me. I have predominately been with women throughout my life, but it is always nice to find a guy to be with too.
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So many hot stories. Regret not trying MM when younger.
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It was by accident in a 3 some over 30 years ago. His touches turned me on as much as hers. Never regretted it
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Some are just born to it. I imagine it is the feeling of being a girl in all ways but bodily and it was just natural to admire male equipment and then enjoy being very popular with the guys. People are much luckier today as it is so much more convenient to become what you desire.
In my case, it's always been more the person than their gender that attracts me sexually. Male or female, I'm good with either. I just wish that society had been more approving of same sex relationships when I was younger as there were some guys that I'd have loved to have sex with that just didn't want to go there because of what others would think if found out.
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Very well said! Me too
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