how did u

[shynsexy]

loose your viginity?

I was just wondering how old everyone was when they 1st had sex, and how? was it a romantic planned thing, or a thrown together rushed mess? or maybe somewhere in between?

I'll start by telling yall mine.

I was 14 at the time, and so in love. It's actually the only time i've been in love. we were at his friend's house and they were having a few wine coolers. not me i was a good girl, lol. so he came up and sat behind me and whispered in my ear so softly that he wanted to make love to me. for the next few hours i was so nervous and exicted. he was a few years older than me and i knew he was experienced but i had only kissed 2 guys before.

finally his 5 friends went to sleep on one bed and we were in the other. i was shaking so badly, like a leaf in autum. he started kissing me and told me it would be ok, and asked if i was sure. of course i was! we kissed and kissed, and then he strated kissing down my stomach. he went down on me and i was amazed how great it felt! after i came he postioned himself before me and asked again if i was ok with this. i was shy, but wanted him so badly! he pushed himself inside so slowy, and when he was finally thru my barrier, he started saying he was sorry for hurting me. after the pain started to go away, we started making love. i was the best i've ever had! we slept perfectly in eachothers arms all night.

sounds to good to be true but its not.....so what about yall???

shy

 

[Voosla]

Loosing my virginity wasnt as nice. I was 17, met a much older guy off the internet. I had never dated a guy or anything. ( I was quite shy, boys didnt talk to me, so i didnt talk to them) I figured what the hell, I'll probally never have anything special anyways and had sex w/ him. I was going through my depressed teenage years. I caught an STD, even using protection. I wish I could say I regret it, but its part of what makes me me today.

By the way, thinking i would never have anything special was way off.

 

[shynsexy]

Voosla

I am sorry that it happened that way, but i am GLAD you know that you are worth more.... alot of girls i know havent even realized that now..... after my love broke up with me 2 months later, i went crazy and slept with any guy that came onto me....i felt so broken for so long, but i am glad to have been in love. shy

 

[huskie]

I was 16 and was just in a hurry to get it over with. I new it would get better with time, and it has, but to me it was just something I had to hury up a do.
When I was in the army, I felt the same way about my first parachute jump. GOD just get it over with!!
all the hype and talk..... after it was done then everything kind of settled down from there on.

 

[coolr]

i was 16 at the time, during the summer, i was kind of seeing this girl on and off, and we were both virgins, so we decided to lose it to each other instead of someone we didn't care about at all, then we were pretty much together for sex after lol =D

 

[sabbathstorm]

I lost my virginity when I was 16 and the experience wasn't all that great. It was during the summer and we had spent the day out having a good time. I think he had it all planned out that day before we left. His mother wasn't home and he pushed a lot for things to happen. It didn't really impress me all that much Thankfully I've learned a lot more and have a very sexually fulfilling partner now

 

[Ms_Lilith]

.

 

[SexySlut2]

I was 13 and I gave it up to my boyfriend at the time.
We were at my best friends house, he had it all planned that we were going to do it so I agreed. It was anything but wonderful, but over time it got to be better, or at least I thought so back then!

 

[KittenGoddess]

mm first time....i was 15 he was 18 thus i was "cool" and i didnt want to loose that..so i went along with it even though i would have rathered not... as far as i was concerned it was a painful...short, and sticky mess. after that i broke up with him anyway..i didnt have sex again till i was 23, and luckily that time was one hell of a lot better

 

[Nicole25]

my first time

I lost my virginity at the age of 16 to the man I later married. It wasnt overly planned. It was painful but nice.

 

[Petrov]

My first...

Was less than six months ago, when I was 20.

Long term girlfriend who is and was a christian, so I assumed premarital sex was a nono until told otherwise.

She told me otherwise and more or less ambushed me.

Startlement and performance anxiety meant I was below my best, and terrified of hurting her, but it was a moment of grand intimacy.

As far as a sexual revelation went, I'm not sure how it was for either of us, but since then we've... practised.

Petrov.

 

[Vinny]

13

It was overatted at the time. Hurt me as much as it hurt her. As we got more loose and experienced it got better. Now it is fabulous

 

[shynsexy]

am i the only one who enjoyes my first time??????

 

[OldAllisWD45]

I was 25

It was a one night stand with an older woman. It was great. I got off 4 times.... must have been all of the excitement cause I havent been able to do that since. I was always scared of getting a girl pregnant and STD's. Finally my being horny all the time got the best of me and I havent looked back since. There was only one other before I met my wife so I am not the most "experienced" dude on earth, but I know what I like

 

[daave]

Sad I am afraid,19.

I was 19 when I lost mine, but in a way it was better that way, I had found out what I wanted and what I was missing by experimenting, you know mastabation.
It happened in a haystack on a warm summer night with a lady of 33 and was really good. I have no regrets looking back and 30 yrs later we are still friends though we never repeated it.
LOL daave.

 

[coolr]

am i the only one who enjoyes my first time??????

i did!!!!!!!!

 

[Vinny]

Sexy

am i the only one who enjoyes my first time??????

I may not have enjoyed my first experience with sex, but I am sure I would love a first experience with you<wink>

 

[shynsexy]

i am sure it would be fun Vinny!

 

[Random Variable]

20

I was ambushed, too. Senior in college. Girl I was platonic friends with wound up sitting next to me during a dance. She had a steady boyfriend. All of a sudden she comes on to me. Before I know it I'm in my dorm room with her and she's saying, "I like it under the covers." (why?)

I was so excited and scared. I remember mostly how incredibly, fiery hot it was inside her. I was in her only for a couple of strokes before coming. I was elated but depressed because my performance had been so weak.

To this day I regret how poor I was--didn't know anything about foreplay, or control, or oral sex or clitoris. Only lately I've come to think that, well, she wasn't much help either.

She got up in the morning pulled on her clothes and left, never spoke a word to me again.

I don't think she ever knew she'd taken my virginity.

Turned out her boyfriend had been screwing a number of other girls (he was the tall, gleaming-eyed charismatic type). She was the only one surprised.

Late starter, huh!
Random Variable

 

[Italian_4_U]

I was a good boy....

I wanted to wait until marriage before having sex because that is what me and my girlfriend at the time agreed upon, but one day I woke up and realized if I were to do that I could die without having sex so the next girlfriend I had we went all the way....it was 1 week before my 22nd birthday. All I have to say is THANK GOODNESS I tried it because I am now HOOKED. My first time was amazing (quick but satisfying) but sadly I can only remember her first name. I bumped into her not to long ago (like a year or so ago) and she had gotten married and already had 2 children. She worked pretty quick because I am 27 now.

 

[sweetlittleass]

14

Him and I were in love and he was living with me and my mom for the summer. I had known him for 4 years and we were "long distance" boyfriend/girlfriend for 2 years before that - we only saw each other a few times a year. He came to town to work - and was working with me! So we were together 24/7 for the whole 2 months! I was in heaven!

Anyways, the nitty gritty of the whole thing:
My mom worked the early morning into the afternoon as a waitress at a local resort. So we were alone together every morning. It took us awhile to get into it, we did alot of groping, kissing and petting - but didn't get into actual sex until he only had a few weeks left with me. At that point the urgency seemed to rise, we only had a few weeks together left! Oh no! So one morning, on my mom's bed, we undressed each other and he was very gentle about the whole thing. We were both virgins. He went slow and it didn't hurt either of us a bit. He kept asking me if I was in any pain, but I thoroughly enjoyed it. After that, every morning after my mom went to work, he'd get into bed with me and we would go at it. The only problem we had was we were too young and too stupid to think about protection. I ended up pregnant. Fortunately, at the time, I had a miscarriage.

We are still great friends, he was even the DJ when I got married! No one could believe my to be hubby was willing to let the guy who took my virginity play music at our wedding, but he didn't know! He lives about 3 hours from me now, and we still keep in touch a few times a year. We both would do anything for each other cause we have this special bond that no one can ever take away from us.

 

[Belilica]

Well, there's a couple of ways you could look at it....

The first guy I slept with didn't really give me much of a choice. It wasn't rape, but I didn't really want to. He was 8 years older than me and it was on his birthday. We had been friends for years and hooked up a few months beforehand. He gave me one of these lines like "I'll start, and I'll stop if you want me to". He didn't really give me a chance to say no. For the rest of our relationship, it was completely based on sex. Every time I saw him, we had sex, and every time we had sex I resented him more. We don't speak anymore.

On the other hand, what I really consider to be losing my virginity, was with my current partner. We've been together for 2 years and known each other for 7. One night we were wrestling like we always do, and he started teasing my nipples. Over the course of the next few weeks, it progressed to petting and other things. The night it happened, we had been wrestling, and I noticed this look in his eyes. I sat there, straddling him for half an hour, the whole time he was saying, "you look as if you want to say something". Then after that long pause, I said to him, "Either you want to have sex with me, or you love me". He replied, just simply, "yes". After a few hours of foreplay, we made love, and it felt very spiritual. Now we have a 9 month old son and are still together, and still have a very active sex life. The sex just keeps getting batter too!

-Bel

 

[freefall]

How? In a stolen moment like most fumbling teens.

When I was 15 living in a dried up little town, everyone was bragging about their bf/gf except me. I went to a private school in another town, so only saw my friends on weekends. They were all - to hear them tell the tale - in the most significant relationship of their lives and had found true happiness. I just wanted to be near a girl without collapsing in a panic attack.

Then on a group trip it happened. Somehow or another on the bus returning home, a senior, a really gorgeous senior sat next to me and acted as if she was really interested in what I had to say. Me, a lowly sophomore, with her? Teen angst overdose. In that time-warp that only happens to teenagers, after the sun set but before we got home we started kissing (a first for me) and then gropeing. From intro to my hand down her blouse in the same day, yeah, like that can happen to me. Joy! It can happen to me.

Then we got home. Awkward 'goodbyes' in the parking lot and, I was back to an all-boys school the next day. Finally summer came and I had a girlfriend. Oh, boy!

Then, still early in the summer, she said that her mother had remarried and they were moving away. Immediately. Far away. Reality crashes about my feet.

Six months pass and it's my 16th birthday. Guess who's in town visiting? I scam a ride to her brother's house, where she's staying the weekend. While her brother and sister-in-law were away at work, she gives me the best birthday present I've yet received although I'm many, many years older now.

I was hesitant, fumbling on the couch in the living room of some stranger's house but I still remember being enthralled exploring the first female body up close and personal. We lay there for quite a while comingled on the couch, slowly and gently playing with each other's body until - THUMP! - a car door closed in the driveway.

I grab my clothes and rush out the door into the back yard . . . hey, it was the first door I could find . . . and start scrambling into my clothes, thankful that no neighbors were out. She had run into the bathroom but missed picking up all her clothes - panties half under the couch on the living room floor.

We sat around talking to her brother and sister-in-law pretending that they didn't know anything until her brother gave us a lift to my birthday party. It sounds cliche, but half a dozen people came up to me that night asking why I had such a big, stupid grin on my face.

It was quite a few years later - in college - before I really had other intimate relationships, and that was when I found the true unpleasantness of two inexperienced people trying make themselves happy, but somehow the first time was slow, relaxed and wonderful. When it's right, hmmm . . . .

 

[marksgirl]

I to was 14, it was summer and we were staying at a hotel and there were alot of teens and twentys about the pool and I feel head over heels in lust with a 21 year old guy who's nickname was Woodstock and well at 14 I looked a bit older, he took me to his room and he took him time with me first by giving me head, now that blew my mind, at 14 I didn't even know what head was, all I know was it was great, when he entered me he went very slow and when he popped my cherry, oh it hurt a little bit but no biggie, what really sucked was one of my friends came knocking at the door before we could finish the deed to tell me my Dad was looking for me, so I had to beat neck it out of there. I still to this day do not know his real name.