How confident are you in the return?
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Juspar Emvan
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I am not a risk taker . . .
SleepingWarrior
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I've never said it first and I never will. I'll never leave myself open to disappointment like that.
I'm usually not the first to say it. Once I do say it, I express it frequently. Maybe a little too much actually.
It's really not the rejection factor, I just don't want to make someone uncomfortable. Men folk have a habit of running like the wind if they're not ready to hear it.
*I've heard*
It's really not the rejection factor, I just don't want to make someone uncomfortable. Men folk have a habit of running like the wind if they're not ready to hear it.
*I've heard*
paganangel
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it's a nonissue
i'l never do it again.
i'l never do it again.
Sillyman
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I say I love you fairly readily and easily just as long as I know she won't freak if I say it. I do only say it when I feel it and I wouldn't say it to someone I just wanted to fuck. The return isn't what I care about, once she knows my feelings, it's up to her from there.
And because she said it to me and I didn't say something back because I was being my usual silly self, I'll say it now. I love you too Pez.
And because she said it to me and I didn't say something back because I was being my usual silly self, I'll say it now. I love you too Pez.
YogiBare
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When I first feel love for a woman, I won't say it until I've waited awhile, to be sure that the feeling is real. I don't take saying, "I love you" lightly.
When I'm sure that is what I feel, I tell her. Sometimes, you just have to put yourself out there and let whetever happens happen.
When I'm sure that is what I feel, I tell her. Sometimes, you just have to put yourself out there and let whetever happens happen.
aeriell
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wait a minute... there are about a trillion ways to love here... are you talking love as in love for another that goes deeper than just the surface? or just saying it in general..........geuss i'm one of the risk takers, i will tell almost anyone i love them, and if they respond yeah, if not oh well..........and by the way I LOVE YOU 
Wave_Rider
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*bratcat* said:
Actually, when I said it............for the first time in the past 18 years...........confidence played NO PART in it........when I give from my mind......my heart and my soul......it is unrequitive love........I expected nothing in return........but the words I did receive.....made me alive again..........looking to the north........and bowing.........
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I always held the phrase "i love you" to be one of the greatest and worst ever. Love seems like an illusion when you don't have it, and like paradise when you do. But to answer the question, It's only happened once that I didnt hear it back, but I took great effort in reassuring the lady and myself that she didn't HAVE to say it back..simply as long as she knew I felt that way. I'm not scared to say it...just never say it unless you mean it.
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MorgaineLaFay
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If you never take the chance to fall & be hurt, risk it all, you'll never know.
Juspar Emvan
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MorgaineLaFay said:
Then sign into MSN
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Juspar Emvan said:
Then sign into MSN
you have a pm waiting....
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