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Ravennera

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for younger guys to like older ( read : more experienced mature ) women ?

I'm curious..

Once I met a guy at an audition.. we went to the pub with the whole group and I ended up with a guy 8 years younger.. first thing he asked me : So do you like younger men ? He already knew I was married by the way...
Needless to say I almost choked on my beer ;)

Tell me guys..
 
Ravennera said:
for younger guys to like older ( read : more experienced mature ) women ?

I'm curious..

Once I met a guy at an audition.. we went to the pub with the whole group and I ended up with a guy 8 years younger.. first thing he asked me : So do you like younger men ? He already knew I was married by the way...
Needless to say I almost choked on my beer ;)

Tell me guys..


I would say it is as common as men being attracted to women...age...for many...means nothing...
 
I've been involved with women older than me. I just liked them in general and they were hot. I will admit that the age difference was a bit of a turn on once things got going, but it wasn't why I got together with them.
 
Bumpme said:
I would say it is as common as men being attracted to women...age...for many...means nothing...

True.. it doesn't for many, including myself.. have had a very intense online thing with a man 11 years younger ;) For me, the inside counts, that's what I'm attracted to..
 
They do.

Although I just found out that someone thought I was about 9 years younger than I was. Hilarious!
 
Ravennera said:
True.. it doesn't for many, including myself.. have had a very intense online thing with a man 11 years younger ;) For me, the inside counts, that's what I'm attracted to..


It's the insides which can get together like this isn't it
 
uksilverlining said:
It's the insides which can get together like this isn't it

Absolutely :D

Oh.. just noticed.. 14 more posts ! :cathappy:
 
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I'd say looking back on things most of my lovers have been a little older than me, nothing cognisent in that though
 
Ravennera said:
for younger guys to like older ( read : more experienced mature ) women ?

I'm curious..

Once I met a guy at an audition.. we went to the pub with the whole group and I ended up with a guy 8 years younger.. first thing he asked me : So do you like younger men ? He already knew I was married by the way...
Needless to say I almost choked on my beer ;)

Tell me guys..
I'm 24 and my ex gf was 35. We fucked like bunnies. Does this help?
 
I'd say it's pretty common. I've always had a thing for the more experienced ladies... but sadly, I never got to experience it *sigh*
 
Had one older girlfriend. wasn't that good for me although she was 17 and I was 16. Never experienced an older woman although I am massively curious regarding it.
 
Ravennera said:
for younger guys to like older ( read : more experienced mature ) women ?

I'm curious..

Once I met a guy at an audition.. we went to the pub with the whole group and I ended up with a guy 8 years younger.. first thing he asked me : So do you like younger men ? He already knew I was married by the way...
Needless to say I almost choked on my beer ;)

Tell me guys..



I wouldnt say I only have a thing for "older" ladies, I am equally attracted to younger ones, its the mind as well that I find attractive, although saying that, my partner is older than me, as are the two other ladies I have been most recently involved with. ;)
 
Ravennera said:
for younger guys to like older ( read : more experienced mature ) women ?

I'm curious..

Once I met a guy at an audition.. we went to the pub with the whole group and I ended up with a guy 8 years younger.. first thing he asked me : So do you like younger men ? He already knew I was married by the way...
Needless to say I almost choked on my beer ;)

Tell me guys..

I think that it is quite common actually. I also think that there are several reasons for it. I have actually had younger men say that the women their age are either too inexperienced, wont' or don't communicate well enough for the man to know what she needs, wants, or desires, and then several have just come right and said that women their age are just to fickled for them to want to deal with.
 
Several college guys from here stay in contact with me. If only they were near me. What fun we could have :devil: Never had the opportunity in real lifr, though. However, I'm has horny, if not hornier, than when I was in my early 20s. Maybe that's why we're desired?
 
that is a bit true missingmeds. Especially when I was a bit younger, like 19 or 20, women the same age seemed to think I should just know exactly what they like or don't on instinct. Had one who didn't say a word ot make a sound the whole time, or guide me to do anything. Didn't have that problem with the older women I have dated, they were happy to let me knwo what they wanted.
 
ima6uldv8 said:
Several college guys from here stay in contact with me. If only they were near me. What fun we could have :devil: Never had the opportunity in real lifr, though. However, I'm has horny, if not hornier, than when I was in my early 20s. Maybe that's why we're desired?

No comment but really older women can be quite a bit of fun....
 
ima6uldv8 said:
However, I'm has horny, if not hornier, than when I was in my early 20s. Maybe that's why we're desired?

I'm totally with you on this one ima.. when I was in my 20s I saw sex as a chore, something you had to do in a marriage.. Boy have I changed since then :devil:
 
Ravennera said:
I'm totally with you on this one ima.. when I was in my 20s I saw sex as a chore, something you had to do in a marriage.. Boy have I changed since then :devil:

Actually Ravennera thats it excately for me. One of the biggest turn ons for me is a sort of enthusiatic hornyness. Having a partner that is as eager to get in your pants as you are to be in theres is nothing less then a blast. Rather than someone who you know wants you but you have to break past thier innate reluctance, not that seduction is not great fun on occasion...
 
grettr said:
Actually Ravennera thats it excately for me. One of the biggest turn ons for me is a sort of enthusiatic hornyness. Having a partner that is as eager to get in your pants as you are to be in theres is nothing less then a blast. Rather than someone who you know wants you but you have to break past thier innate reluctance, not that seduction is not great fun on occasion...

I hear ya... and I agree :) I honestly don't understand why I was being such a pain about it before :devil:
 
hi,

well I believe age is a very relative issue. But as a male, I would say that "older" or "more mature" women generally are attractive (attractive is also one of those relative terms)for a few different reasons. They have a sense of maturity which is a breath of fresh air, they are for the most part more well rounded in life. They have a firm hold on what they want and don't want. As a rule, with age comes interesting experiences.

but if you are asking me if I seek out "older" women?
no, what I seek is usually between a woman's ears and age or physical appearance is only a secondary thing.
 
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