How can i help my girlfriend learn to deepthroat??

[Guest]

she gets discouraged of giving head because she cannot deepthroat. how can i help her out? I tell her what she does is fine but she wishes it could be better.
any help would be greatly appreciated
THANX




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And the hardest thing i knooow is to wake up without yoouu, everything falls apart, emptiness of the heart

 

[Dynamite]

Maybe a throat number.

Like Chloraseptic or from the adult stores. I'd look around there. I'm sure they would have something. Maybe if she practices on a banana or something.

Tell her deep isn't all that. It's all in the sucking.

 

[Bindii]

If she is concerned that she can do better and you are happy with her oral sex techniques maybe you can spend some time reassuring her that you truly are happy.
I suspect that the only reason she is worried about it is because she feels that you want more.

 

[Michael1]

As someone mentioned, get some Chloraseptic or some other throat spray. Spray her throat, wait a few minutes, then spray again, then a third time.

Have her lie on her back, preferably on a table, with her head laying back over the side. Use lots of KY jelly on your cock then place it in her mouth.

VERY IMPORTANT HERE: Let her use her hands to pull you into her throat. She will probably gag the first few times but eventually she should be able to take you.

BUT, if you plan on fucking her throat this way forget it. Stroking will be extremely uncomfortable for her.

 

[Guest]

thanx guys...she knows im happy with it and i never ask her to do it therefore she does it when she wants to. i always tell her its good. ill just have to wait till shes in one of those moods again to try your suggestions out.
Thanx a lot

 

[mysty74]

Have her breathe through her nose, and relax her throat. The less it feels like an intrusion, the less she will gag. The table idea is a good one, it lines the throat up with your tongue, and your not forcing it down her throat. She could practice on her own with blowpops or a vibrator. That way, SHE gets comfortable with it first.
Misty

 

[little baby]

u ppl really are great at helping ppl out im learning so much new stuff which im sure my partner will also enjoy

thankoo

little baby x

 

[Mhoram]

I'm not sure the blowpop idea is such a good idea, it is still possible to choke on things and not be able to get them out. Just want to make sure you don't loose your common sense.

 

[Michael1]

Mhoram has a great point. Don't let your girlfriend practice any of this alone. Choking can be a very real concern and certainly ruin any pleasure youu might derive from this activity.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

Ummmm...

just let her totally relax while she's doing it keep reassuring her that she's the best and the rest will cum in time

 

[WhiteRose]

Relax

Most of the time when you're trying something new, it's the "trying" that stops you. If she's THINKING about what she's doing, it's probably tensing her throat muscles up too much so she can't, which is frustrating her, which is making it even more difficult because then she's tense AND frustrated, which will close her throat up even more *hopes that makes sense*

If the two of you can find a way to not talk about it right before you make love and neither of you PLAN on having it happen, it'll be a lot easier for her to let it happen naturally when she's more relaxed about it. Try not to ask her for it even in the heat of the moment, because that will add pressure to the situation (after she's used to it, of course, you can ask for it *g*). The best time to talk about how to do it and whether or not the two of you SHOULD do it isn't right before or during lovemaking. Talk about it over the breakfast table or whatever, but giving her that distance between the conversation and the act might help ease things also.

As for practicing, there is nothing better to "practice" on than a penis attached to a man. Not a banana or blowpop or anything else. If she chokes on anything else, she might not be able to get it out of her throat even if you're there to help her.

If she can practice slow deep breathing through her nose before you start, it will not only help her to get the feeling of it while you're in her mouth, but it will also help to relax her. If she can learn to concentrate on the breathing, she won't even notice when you slide down her throat. After she gets used to that, the two of you can start working on technique

Good luck to you!

 

[BlondGirl]

I am amazed that someone made the moronic suggestion of using KY for oral. I can't imagine anything that would make me less inclined to performing oral on someone other than a shit covered cock.

KY is not for oral consumption. Slobber does the trick instead.

 

[Michael1]

BlondGirl,,,you are mistaken and I am sure you did not want to hurt anyone.

FYI, throat doctors use KY jelly, which is ypu will not taste anyway, for throat dilitations all the time. That is, after they numb it slightly. Some sort of throat spray should take care of the numbness.

The worst thing is for someone to go "dry" when a cock is going down their throat. Saliva works but too little and you will feel as though someone is ripping your throat, too much and you will feel like you are drowning.

So to accomplish what he asked, correctly, a light coating of KY jelly will work.