well here goes. My hubby and I are married 8 yrs, and have always had a very satisfying sexual relationship. We discuss fantasies and try 'new' things...but... I'd like a bit more agression/dominance from him. We've talked about it but he never goes as far as i want. It always ends well everyone gets off but I'm wondering if he's not into it. Should I become the dominator? Never tried that before! a little feedback from y'all would sure help.
how can i get my husband to be more agressive?
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Try standing in front of the TV.
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Well well
Well first do what you want him to do for you on him..
This works very well..
My suggestion is tie him him on the bed his face on the bed and start whipping him and count upto 20.
If he still says He will not be agressive go upto 30 and ask again and so on..
This will work.. Ohhhhhh
Well first do what you want him to do for you on him..
This works very well..
My suggestion is tie him him on the bed his face on the bed and start whipping him and count upto 20.
If he still says He will not be agressive go upto 30 and ask again and so on..
This will work.. Ohhhhhh
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send him a card
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Take him to a topless night club.
Take him to a topless night club, Buy him a couple of lap dances and head for the nearest motel for a night of HOT fun!!!!!!
Take him to a topless night club, Buy him a couple of lap dances and head for the nearest motel for a night of HOT fun!!!!!!
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If you take the initative, and please him maybe he will do the same for you. Taking him to a topless bar I personally do not agree with instead you be the topless dancer and give him your own kind of lap dance and show him and do things to him that will make him wanting more. There is nothing wrong with you making the moves first. Be the agreessor sometimes for a man that is a total turn on.
more aggression ...
Tell him. Don't do it when you are just holding hands and just finished paying the monthly bills. This is not a discussion to have during or after dinner. This discussion needs to be handled during your love making... Tell him what you want and how you want it and then demand it. You have to get him when the little head is doing the thinking for the big head. Remember, only one head can work at a time. They both can't operate during the same time frame. So if you really want it ... Tell him.
Tell him. Don't do it when you are just holding hands and just finished paying the monthly bills. This is not a discussion to have during or after dinner. This discussion needs to be handled during your love making... Tell him what you want and how you want it and then demand it. You have to get him when the little head is doing the thinking for the big head. Remember, only one head can work at a time. They both can't operate during the same time frame. So if you really want it ... Tell him.
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Re: more aggression ...
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Puddles The Wonder Poodle is making a lot of sense. You should listen to him.
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Who knows more about agressive behavior than a dog?
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you might look at my profile
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Can you believe I actually checked out her profile?
[Edited by R Nitelight on 10-22-2000 at 08:39 PM]
Can you believe I actually checked out her profile?
[Edited by R Nitelight on 10-22-2000 at 08:39 PM]
