How BBC cuckolding went mainstream

[liqueur]

But do you agree cuckoldry is getting more popular these days?

Yes, it's much more mainstream acceptable. Porn influence.

 

[SexyAruna]

Yes, it's much more mainstream acceptable. Porn influence.

Why does porn encourage this, of all things, though?
I think there’s something more to it.
This is a desire most men have. Porn is just bringing it out!

 

[LMWM321]

How BBC cuckolding went mainstream​

A grotesque assertion that is equal parts racist and misogynist. And totally ridiculous.

If you're noticing more white women with black men, it's because young people are far more accepting of interracial relationships, which is a good thing.

As for why the BBC Bull porn is all over pornography, it's because white men are the biggest consumers of porn, and most white men are sexual simpletons who believe the idiotic tropes that black men have bigger dicks (they don't - studies show) that black men are sexual dynamos (they aren't - they tend to be less healthy) and that white women all crave big-dicked black men (they don't), even if they are in a relationship.

 

[SexyAruna]

How BBC cuckolding went mainstream​

A grotesque assertion that is equal parts racist and misogynist. And totally ridiculous.

If you're noticing more white women with black men, it's because young people are far more accepting of interracial relationships.

As for why the BBC Bull porn is all over pornography, it's because white men are the biggest consumers of porn, and most white men are sexual simpletons who believe the idiotic notions that black men have bigger dicks (they don't) that black men are sexual dynamos (they aren't) and that white women all crave big-decked black men (again, they don't).

And how can you say with confidence those three things aren’t true?

 

[LMWM321]

And how can you say with confidence those three things aren’t true?

This has been discussed in a dozen other threads..

A cut/paste from one....

• If most women really crave a huge cock, then most women would have a fat 10" dildo in their nightstand. But they don't. The most commonly purchased dildo size resembles the average size penis.
• If most women really crave a BBC, then most women would have a fat 10" BLACK dildo in their nightstand. But they don't.
• If either or both of the above were true then they would certainly appear somewhere on lists of Women's Top Sexual Fantasies in at least one of the 6 or so lists published in Woman's periodicals such as Vogue, Cosmo, Oprah, etc.. . But they don't. Huge Cock and BBC Bull are nowhere to be found on such lists.
• Black men are NOT generally fitter. Indeed, thanks to disparities in access to healthy food and health care - all thanks to systemic racism - Black men tend to have higher BMI's and suffer higher rates of prostate cancer, T2 diabetes, hyperlipidemia, strokes, and heart-attacks, just to name a few. ..In fact, black men's life expectancy trails white mens by 4 years. 78 vs. 74. So, are they generally fitter? ..Um, no.
• Meta analysis of every credible study on the subject has concluded that black men do NOT have larger penises. This trope dates back to slave owners who sought to dehumanize black men with claims of hyper sexuality, aggressiveness toward white women AND dicks so big that they'd cause injury. ..All lies so that women would stay clear of them. Of course, Porn long ago turned this on it's ear to monetize it as a Kink..

 

[lick_ur_kitty]

I think we are all over looking a very lopsided issue. Who says cuckolding is only the woman fucking a superior male specimen. What about a 45 or so year old woman with a smoking hot 20 year old daughter and the step dad is fucking the daughter in front of the mom while she is getting off on it. Isn't that by definition cuckold? How may 45+ year old guys are gonna sit back and say, "NO I don't want to fuck that gorgeous daughter of yours"? Isn't that just a slight twist to the "Free use" fad now. I am finding out , from this site none the less, that women and men sexual attitudes are not that much different. Most men just choose to not hide it as well as the women. But I say ," Thank you sluts, you have made my self pleasuring that much easier." I only wish more of you were open about it in real life. Think of the fun we could all be having as consenting adults with a lil RP non consent thrown in on occasion .

 

[liqueur]

I maintain that we will never have an intelligent conversation about this as long as we continue to conflate two very separate issues.

1. Yes, cuckoldry has become mainstream popularized (or the idea of it has, in any case — I wonder how many of its “fans” are really ready to put their mouth where their money is?)
2. Yes, the BBC fetish has become huge. Primarily because of racism, and the fantasy of the ”Black Bull” — which is rooted directly in antebellum slavery days.
3. Yes, the two fetishes have become conflated — first, because of white men's fascination (obsession) with black cock, and then because porn saw a good market there, and capitalized on it.

The fact remains that they are two separate fetishes, and we can't have s meaningful dialogue about either without recognizing that fact.

 

[SexyAruna]

I maintain that we will never have an intelligent conversation about this as long as we continue to conflate two very separate issues.

1. Yes, cuckoldry has become mainstream popularized (or the idea of it has, in any case — I wonder how many of its “fans” are really ready to put their mouth where their money is?)
2. Yes, the BBC fetish has become huge. Primarily because of racism, and the fantasy of the ”Black Bull” — which is rooted directly in antebellum slavery days.
3. Yes, the two fetishes have become conflated — first, because of white men's fascination (obsession) with black cock, and then because porn saw a good market there, and capitalized on it.

The fact remains that they are two separate fetishes, and we can't have s meaningful dialogue about either without recognizing that fact.

Do you realize that there are probably more people that have the combination of these fetishes than there are people who crave just one?

 

[Mike130]

I would love to watch my wife fuck another guy. And she fucked a few while we were dating. Sometimes when making love we fantasize about a threesome, or she tells me about guys she fucked while dating me, how I licked their cum from her pussy, which is hot. She hasn’t expressed a desire for BBC though.

My ex girlfriend however was a bit different. We used to go to sex clubs and I really got excited watching her fuck other guys or lick other girls. Sometimes we spit roasted her. She expressed desire to suck a BBC, but unfortunately we didn’t realize that dream. But it always stuck in my mind, and whether BBC desire is a concept from porn rather than an actual size/stamina difference from other races, to me it’s more the fact that an ex girlfriend wanted it so it’s a legit fetish. And Cuckhold is also, and perhaps even more popular.

 

[liqueur]

Do you realize that there are probably more people that have the combination of these fetishes than there are people who crave just one?

That may be true. I doubt it, but only a scientifically sound statistical survey (like that alliteration?) could answer the question. Again, if it's true, in pretty sure that's porn-driven. Fact follows fiction— I said that recently, I don't remember whether it was on this thread or another.

But whether you're right or not, the fact remains that they're two separate fetishes. I keep hammering this point for a reason:

• Cuckoldry is benign. It does no harm, to the individuals or the society they live in, so long as it's consensual.
• Race play is based in racism, regardless whether it's conscious or not. It inures the parties involved both to their own internalized racism and that of the culture around them, and in doing so, makes room for its growth.

So bonding them together turns a harmless fetish into a harmful one.

 

[LMWM321]

• Race play is based in racism, regardless whether it's conscious or not. It inures the parties involved both to their own internalized racism and that of the culture around them.

I agree.

And the BBC and Bull myth creates a cultural headwind for Black parents who want to raise their boys to understand that not all white women sexually crave them, to understand the all-importance of consent, and to respect sexual fidelity.

And this insidious myth that Black men have bigger dicks needs to be debunked in every Health Ed class in high schools across the country. Otherwise nearly every black kid will suffer from toxic body dysmorphia because he believes his 5.6" dick is small and will disappoint romantic partners.

 

[LMWM321]

I've asked this before in another thread....

If BBC/ Bull fetishists are so comfortable believing the Black Man as Huge Cocked Sexual Superhero myth, what other stereotypes about black men do they believe?

Plus, a BBC fetishist might love the kink of a so-called Bull "Blacking" his white wife, but how does that same man feel about a Bull dating or marrying his white daughter and "Blacking" her? Is he okay with that too? And if not, why not?

 

[SexyAruna]

Aww, I think Billy's jealous

Cuckolding is the body’s natural reaction to jealousy

The male body has evolved to turn excess jealousy and insecurity into… intense arousal!

All of a sudden, you start to crave your wife being with other men.

 

[SexyAruna]

I would love to watch my wife fuck another guy. And she fucked a few while we were dating. Sometimes when making love we fantasize about a threesome, or she tells me about guys she fucked while dating me, how I licked their cum from her pussy, which is hot. She hasn’t expressed a desire for BBC though.

My ex girlfriend however was a bit different. We used to go to sex clubs and I really got excited watching her fuck other guys or lick other girls. Sometimes we spit roasted her. She expressed desire to suck a BBC, but unfortunately we didn’t realize that dream. But it always stuck in my mind, and whether BBC desire is a concept from porn rather than an actual size/stamina difference from other races, to me it’s more the fact that an ex girlfriend wanted it so it’s a legit fetish. And Cuckhold is also, and perhaps even more popular.

Were you also into what happened after the sex, like cleaning up?