How aroused do you get??

[txoutlawgirl]

I am just asking because I am truly nosey. How aroused do you get while you are writing? I have been writing for quite a while now and I still get excited when I write or read my RP's.

I believe that each character we create is a part of us, so there are bits and pieces of us in our stories. I am sure that some people no longer get aroused while writing. I just cannot fathom it because I am so intertwined with my characters.

Thoughts?

 

[fr33ks33k]

I suppose that depends on your definition of aroused. My mind is certainly aroused, though my body does not necessarily rise to such heights every time. It is hard not to become physically aroused, however, when writing the sexual portions of a story. The imagery is just too vivid when described to elicit any other response.

 

[Annisthyrienne]

I've been thinking of asking this very question too. I sometimes get so turned on by my own writing that once I finish it and post, I have to go 'take care of some business' if you get my meaning.

At other times, I am on so much pain meds that I don't even think what I wrote is that good, and later when I read it in a better state of mind, I realize, "Damn, that's hot! Who wrote that?"

 

[SoulWeaver]

I am just asking because I am truly nosey. How aroused do you get while you are writing? I have been writing for quite a while now and I still get excited when I write or read my RP's.

I believe that each character we create is a part of us, so there are bits and pieces of us in our stories. I am sure that some people no longer get aroused while writing. I just cannot fathom it because I am so intertwined with my characters.

Thoughts?

Depends a lot on the scene. I like my RP's to be added sex rather than just a flrit by flirt post, that might as well be in IMs or PMs anyway. Of course often while writing there are pm's and thoughts going on in the background . . . which often constantly stir.

Time is a factor too. If I'm rushing or being distracted by multiple thngs I won't work on a post ether, I'd rather save it for free time when I can get in character.

I do agree about immersing in character though. It's one of the reasons I've limited the number of my active RP's even though theres a few other ladies I'd think I'd love to write with. The story needs to be enough of a hook for that immersion and I doubt I could do that over many more than 4 or 5.

So after all of that .... I guess the answer is yes, if you don't why SRP in the first place ....?

 

[yuna1981]

Sometimes I get crazy aroused, other times not as much... always aiming for writing while aroused, that creates the hottest stuff!

 

[Annisthyrienne]

Good point, SW. And I would like to add, upon further reflection, that the ones I get the most excited about usually have some emotionally dramatic context and content as well, not just the mechanics of the act, no matter how well it is described.

 

[SoulWeaver]

Sometimes I get crazy aroused, other times not as much... always aiming for writing while aroused, that creates the hottest stuff!

Good point, SW. And I would like to add, upon further reflection, that the ones I get the most excited about usually have some emotionally dramatic context and content as well, not just the mechanics of the act, no matter how well it is described.

It's petty much about getting your head in the game .... once that's in the right place, the rest is unstopable ......

 

[Apollion]

Good point, SW. And I would like to add, upon further reflection, that the ones I get the most excited about usually have some emotionally dramatic context and content as well, not just the mechanics of the act, no matter how well it is described.

*writes this down for later*


On-topic, I get heavily aroused during SRPs. Especially when my writing partner does things beyond the norm.

 

[choklatekoneko]

*writes this down for later*


On-topic, I get heavily aroused during SRPs. Especially when my writing partner does things beyond the norm.

Same here.
I have such a vivid imagination so...I tend to let that work for me.

 

[xOxCherryxOx]

It depends on who I'm writing with and it also depends on my connection with my partner. Some really don't effect me much other than like Fr33k said, it's an arousing of the mind not necessarily the body. A few select others drive me absolutely mad with want and turn me on to the point of distraction. If it's someone who know's me fairly well, my kinks and how to stroke them they usually are the one's that have me all squirmy in my seat and tend to really bring out the naughty in me.

 

[Azazael]

I'm in a constant state of mental arousal, it's a life hazard which no one warns you about ..... oh shit .... what are we tal ... um .... writing huh, wrong thread!

 

[RP519]

Time to get a bit personal. Due to a horrible medical experience in late April/early May of '08, or from anti-depression meds, or both...I pretty much can't, physically. When I do get there...reach certain heights, as it was said...it doesn't last, and the end result is nowhere near what it was. I was twenty five then; Great age to start having such issues.

Mentally, that's another story. Writing, reading, these are just as powerful for me as they ever have been. This is something I hope will never change, so if my current co-writers see this, or any future collaborators, I thank you immensely.

My own family doesn't know about my...issues...so it's good to get it off my chest, three years later, though my father has a vague inkling from things I've told him. But they know my age, and when I was in the hospital during that bad time, so if they see this I guess they know now. Any case, I'm glad someone could listen. Even (or especially, perhaps) complete strangers.

 

[Firmhanded_Daddy]

Hmmm this is a rather interesting topic.

For me writing has always been a very intimate thing. I am an extremely introspective person.. so it is sort of a bridge between my brain my emotions, and my mouth. I'm not sure why but some things are easier to express for me in written text. Maybe it's the extra layer of thought it requires; I'm not certain.

Anyway I have found that for me the level of my arousal (physical or emotional) depends on how well I can connect with my character, and the connection I have with my partner. I have had writing partners who have engaged me on more of an emotional level, than a sexual one, and vice versa. Though usually it is a delicious mixture of both. For me at least sexual arousal is tied closely to emotions, so without being emotionally engaged in the story, I find the sexual scenes are harder for me to get into, and as a result are not as good.

I also have an extremely over active, and intense imagination. When I get wrapped up in a story, or just have something in my head it manifests almost like a movie or a personal experience. I see parts of it clear as a picture, I can taste, feel, smell, and hear it as the story progresses.

Some people do a better job of engaging me than others, some to the point where when I write with them I can easily lose my focus on the story because of the potency of my reaction.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I very rarely have feelings of arousal when I am writing an SRP. No idea why that is except for the fact that if the story goes the way I think it should, I will be emotionally invested in my character and will care far more about my co-writer's response (which is very true in the RW, as well). What that means is (I guess) I see the character as something outside of me and I can not get aroused by that.

This changes in the Lounge, especially when I am playing with certain friends or people that have always gotten me from day one. At that point, I am not writing a character, I am writing me, for good or ill. So when I am writing with those people, investing MYSELF, it is a completely probable that at some point, I will have to stop and visit someplace quiet for a while.

 

[Nina327]

Bloody hell. How aroused do I get when writing. Fuck me. It depends on whom I'm writing with but it can get rather insane. I write my initial reactions... which if you have talked to me in PM or IM.. you know I cant spell for shit and my grammar is past atrocious... So I write my initial reactions and then go back and fill in the blanks and fix all the errors. That's the biggest reason I don't scene in the lounge... I'd be replying in gibberish.

Back on topic. I get completely wrapped up in words; physically, emotionally. sometimes its just completely more than i can process. So when writing the sexual parts of an SRP I'm engrossed; reading and responding as if it were completely real (I know its not real real, but, fuck off, I love engrossing myself in everything I do). Yea... if the connection with my writing partner is good... the arousal when writing is fucking awesomely insanely high.

 

[Annisthyrienne]

Bloody hell. How aroused do I get when writing. Fuck me. It depends on whom I'm writing with but it can get rather insane. I write my initial reactions... which if you have talked to me in PM or IM.. you know I cant spell for shit and my grammar is past atrocious... So I write my initial reactions and then go back and fill in the blanks and fix all the errors. That's the biggest reason I don't scene in the lounge... I'd be replying in gibberish.

Ha! Nina, I am the same way! I try to make what I post to my stories perfect in terms of spelling , grammar, structure, punctuation, etc. But when I am playing in chat, when the response is immediate, those special people whom I've played with in 'that' way have figured out that the worse my typing gets, the closer I am to a real life cum, even if I've still got both hands on the keyboard!



Someday I'd like to make Luna have to visit that quiet place!

 

[Mephistophelily]

Mentally, yes. Quite often.
Physically, sometimes. Depends on the story, flow of certain scenes, chemistry with fellow writer. Not intending to turn this into a praise thing, but some of the people I've written with in scenes can get so damned descriptive/creative that reading and replying give me a shiver. (Among other things. And then I ask sweetly for Im'er time.)

 

[Vail_Indigo]

I definitely get aroused when writing my own stories. Physically and emotionally. This has kept me from finishing stories more than once (finishing until later).
SRPs it really depends. It depends on the nature of sex in the story, it depends on what I'm trying to accomplish at that moment (sometimes there's something going on that has to happen), and it definitely depends on my partner.
I would say, though, as a rule I do.
I would also say that no small part of that it my deep love of language, of its power over me, and its power to reach out and run along skin
like fingertips
or fingernails.
(and yes, I know I've used that line before but I love it)

Also, there's no question I get aroused when it involves Lily.

 

[Nina327]

At other times, I am on so much pain meds that I don't even think what I wrote is that good, and later when I read it in a better state of mind, I realize, "Damn, that's hot! Who wrote that?"

HAHAHA.... fk... yea... writing on pain meds (or as of late insomnia and stress).. sometimes I dont have a clue WTF I wrote really. I mean... the scene is in my memory.. but its like its years old. I reread the post and I'm like... hey.. you should have writen this here and put that there....where the bloody hell are you going with this story.... Ohhhhh.... thats where... Maybe i shoudl write while drugged stupid more often... hrmmmm.. no.
I'm my own worst critic.

Ha! Nina, I am the same way! I try to make what I post to my stories perfect in terms of spelling , grammar, structure, punctuation, etc. But when I am playing in chat, when the response is immediate, those special people whom I've played with in 'that' way have figured out that the worse my typing gets, the closer I am to a real life cum, even if I've still got both hands on the keyboard!

Omg.. yea... thankfully i'm familiar with self denial.. cause.. holy fuck.. sometimes I cant type more than gibberish... just that close... and I know if i dont cum fucking soon.. and let go of the keyboard... I will rip off keys. BUT to do that and have it just as intense as it felt 3 seconds ago.. I keep typing.. and stay just this side of losing my shit for as long as I can... Well thats with a very few... and damned close with some others... and not fucking at all with some.

 

[Jessica6]

Ohhh I like this thread. To answer, very, with the right partner. I like to know the person I'm writing with a little, and then I find it very easy to .... become distracted while imagining and writing about our characters together ......

 

[Azazael]

Omg.. yea... thankfully i'm familiar with self denial.. cause.. holy fuck.. sometimes I cant type more than gibberish... just that close... and I know if i dont cum fucking soon.. and let go of the keyboard... I will rip off keys. BUT to do that and have it just as intense as it felt 3 seconds ago.. I keep typing.. and stay just this side of losing my shit for as long as I can... Well thats with a very few... and damned close with some others... and not fucking at all with some.

Gibberish ...... really? That would explain the quivering text.

But I do agree. Just seeing a message waiting or composing a treat for them to read later can send the brain into a slow boil .....

 

[Hikari]

All I can say is that when I get into character for SRP, I hold nothing back emotionally. So I'll often step away from a story to find myself incredibly aroused, more so, often than I was aware of. It does depend greatly upon the character development and I'll have more of a reaction on SRPs where I have genuine writing chemistry with my partner. It's not something you can fake, you either have it or you don't.

 

[Nina327]

Gibberish ...... really? That would explain the quivering text.

~evil grin~
Sweetie, even if I rip the keys off my computer, it cant make the text on your end quiver. That my dear is you, delightfully trembling, panting... pulse racing till you cant see straight.

But I do agree. Just seeing a message waiting or composing a treat for them to read later can send the brain into a slow boil .....

Oh yes. And the boil continues. Knowing they wont read it till hours later. Possibly even a day or two later. Having all that time to imagine possibilities, hoped responses. Checking to see if you have a reply even when you don't have time to read it. Just to grin and dash off to life for a while more. That's how ya know you have a good writing partner. When you can feed off the other and not even be typing. The stories like background noise in your head or clit or whatever.

 

[Annisthyrienne]

Ha! Nina, I am the same way! I try to make what I post to my stories perfect in terms of spelling , grammar, structure, punctuation, etc. But when I am playing in chat, when the response is immediate, those special people whom I've played with in 'that' way have figured out that the worse my typing gets, the closer I am to a real life cum, even if I've still got both hands on the keyboard!



Someday I'd like to make Luna have to visit that quiet place!

And this post has already generated some of those 'special PMs' that were such a hot topic here couple months back. Someone wants a shortcut to become one of 'those special people'.

Hint: Those 'special people are called 'friends'. It takes more than a couple PMs to become one.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

And this post has already generated some of those 'special PMs' that were such a hot topic here couple months back. Someone wants a shortcut to become one of 'those special people'.

Hint: Those 'special people are called 'friends'. It takes more than a couple PMs to become one.

QFT


And cuz Thyri makes me want to drag her to my Den....