How About Who I Am Instead of What I Want?

HomerPindar

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Seeing as alot of threads in this forum have a few replies only, I thought I'd try this to see what happens ~ and heck, if it works, why not.

I'm a writer, and yes, some of it's here at Lit, http://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=51502 . As you might see from some of the poetry, I like to be erotic for the ladies. :D

I'm single, living in Philly, studying sociology and working. Besides writing, I'm a big fan of live music, travel, the arts ~ you know, all the middle-to-upper class things that become bohemian because I don't make enough money to be called middle or upper class. While I'm working on my B.A. degree in soc I'm not a 20 something. I started college when I was 31. I was 28 when I decided to quit my job of six years, pick up a backpack, and wander around the country for abit. After that I thought I'd see if all my bright ideas held water to actual academic sorts. So far, so good.

I'm working on getting published, and on independent documentary video work, game designer (rpg's, not board games), and yes, hanging out on Lit (mostly in the Poetry forums lately). I'm a tall, skinny white guy with long hair (its half way down my back) mustache and goatee...heck, if ya still reading this and interested, email me, I'll send you a pic. For that matter, if you're still reading after all this, then drop me a line, here, PM, or email. Heck, chatting is free ...

HomerPindar
 
how wonderfully ingenious of you to start this kind of a thread! its refreshing, actually:) i'm into many of the things which you listed, and i'm sure there's lots of people around here who are the same way. thanx again!!!

red
 
redathena said:
how wonderfully ingenious of you to start this kind of a thread! its refreshing, actually:) i'm into many of the things which you listed, and i'm sure there's lots of people around here who are the same way. thanx again!!!

red

Quite welcome, always willing to do the unexpected when folks enjoy it :) And while I would love to take credit for the billiant idea, I recall reading the suggestion in some advice collumn here in philly (mighta been Dan Savage, but I say that only cause he's the funniest advice collumn out there) on writing a personal. So, I stole it :D

Course, I'd offer to buy you a drink but living in chicago as you are it's a little tough...but, should you ever come into Philly area, let me know :)

HomerPindar
 
well I do like a person who is upfront and ready to give things ago!

I can chat and chat and chat and...well you get the idea! *L*

Anyway I think there may be a point to this post...but it seems to be eluding me right now......

Oh yes thats it! feel free to PM me if you want ..I can ramble and waffle in PM too....I am mutitalented*L*
 
very nicely done..............

HP..............nice to see someone present themselves in this way........may it bring you closer to all that you seek.........

greybeard
 
English Lady said:
well I do like a person who is upfront and ready to give things ago!

I can chat and chat and chat and...well you get the idea! *L*

Anyway I think there may be a point to this post...but it seems to be eluding me right now......

Oh yes thats it! feel free to PM me if you want ..I can ramble and waffle in PM too....I am mutitalented*L*


ooooohhhh, this sounds like a chat challenge here :p I think six hours in one sitting is a personal record (but I was recovering from surgery and wasn't allowed to do anything anyways at the time).

And, she's multitalented...any chance you'll be visiting Philly soon? lol

HomerPindar
 
Re: very nicely done..............

greybeard said:
HP..............nice to see someone present themselves in this way........may it bring you closer to all that you seek.........

greybeard

Thanks greybeard, its a test as well as living hopfull :)

Good crumb AV btw :D

HomerPindar
 
By way of bumping...

So far I've gotten alot of positive feed back on this approach, more in PM's than here ~ which is not a problem, keep em coming.

But, while I've gotten plenty of new folks to chat with, and they all seem to like what they've read, none of them live any where near Philly.

Just my luck, huh?

HomerPindar
 
sorry but i am firmly stuck in england right now!

6 hours? how pathetic (no offense meant) let me think...I am not sure of exact times but i kno i have managed 10 hours or so on many occassions!*L*
 
English Lady said:
sorry but i am firmly stuck in england right now!

6 hours? how pathetic (no offense meant) let me think...I am not sure of exact times but i kno i have managed 10 hours or so on many occassions!*L*

Chuckle, might not want to point out that the inverse assumption is also valid...

I considered doing a semester in London, but I'm aiming for Rome, Italy as my first choice...woohoo!

HomerPindar
 
well mate i don't blame you*L* I think i'd pick Rome over london myself! I don't really like London..too smoggy and packed ohh and i don't want to even think about the underground!

Now manchester is much nicer..ok so I am biased being brought up near there but well.....*L*.
 
English Lady said:
well mate i don't blame you*L* I think i'd pick Rome over london myself! I don't really like London..too smoggy and packed ohh and i don't want to even think about the underground!

Now manchester is much nicer..ok so I am biased being brought up near there but well.....*L*.

Well, I havn't been to either...and want to goto both, so it was more a matter of which choice better suited my class needs.

Ok, it was that and the hope of drinking wine looking out over Rome....

HomerPindar
 
well i don't blame you...Rome is supposed to be beautiful and the name itself just rolls of the tongue so nicely....
 
yes interested.. Atlantic City - Youknow which state.....there- happy??
my email addy is available.
By the way- where are you studying?

kayla
 
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English Lady said:
well i don't blame you...Rome is supposed to be beautiful and the name itself just rolls of the tongue so nicely....

I'm hoping there's an upper level writing/poetry class available the semester I'm there. Although, honestly, just being in Rome will make the class choices second in importance :D

HomerPindar
 
doyoulikestrapons said:
yes interested.. Atlantic City - Youknow which state.....there- happy??
my email addy is available.
By the way- where are you studying?

kayla

AC?! woohoo, let's go play the progressive slots till we win millions and can retire :D

BTW, I did email you back...not sure it's reaching you, but I tried :rose:

As far as school is concerned, I moved into the city to make the going a tad more easy ~ it's sorta worked. But I also know the ease with which personal information can be used to track down folks...and unfortionatly, there are assholes out there who I don't feel like handing personaly information over too :rolleyes:

HomerPindar
 
I hope you're hopeful :D And I think everyone likes a bit of romance in their lives....
 
English Lady said:
I hope you're hopeful :D And I think everyone likes a bit of romance in their lives....

I personally would like a bit more :D

Maybe this is a good question for another thread, but what the heck, I'm the topic here, so lets keep it on topic :p

Is being a "good guy/nice guy" actually something the ladies want? Being a nice guy, this falls on topic (ME :D) but reading the threads posted here on the personals, it's a mystery to me whats what...

HomerPindar
 
I love nice guys..i married a nice guy.....BUT...a girl likes a bad boy...*L* so i think sometimes the good "nice" guys need to play at being a bad boy for a while......


*L* did that make sense?
 
English Lady said:
I love nice guys..i married a nice guy.....BUT...a girl likes a bad boy...*L* so i think sometimes the good "nice" guys need to play at being a bad boy for a while......


*L* did that make sense?

oh yeah... I've a friend (lives too far to be more ;)) who says I need a nice girl who enjoys getting kinky in the bedroom... not that I know any :rolleyes:

HomerPindar
 
why just in the bedroom*wg* but i think i know what your friend means....i think everyone needs a bit of kinky in their lives....
 
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