Horse outta the gate to fast

[Etoile]

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My apologies.

Why on earth are you apologizing? You're not the one at fault!

 

[Owlz]

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Why on earth are you apologizing? You're not the one at fault!

'K. Thought I might be the one because your post came immediately after mine.

 

[Etoile]

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'K. Thought I might be the one because your post came immediately after mine.

No, I thought it was pretty obvious that I was referring to the first poster. After all, he's the one who can't say the word vibrator.

 

[Owlz]

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No, I thought it was pretty obvious that I was referring to the first poster. After all, he's the one who can't say the word vibrator.

OK

 

[rosco rathbone]

What you DON'T want to be doing is trying to distract your mind by thinking of baseball, etc.

You need to be focused on your sensations with a detached awareness. Ejaculation is entirely controllable, but it takes practice.

 

[CITYGAL08]

I have always had this problem w/ my SO. We've been together for 18yrs now so I guess I am just accepting it now.
We've tried masturbation beforehand and that really didn't help too much since his main issue is not only PE but he's a one timer. He has NEVER been able to get a hard on after ejaculation.
Any advice would be great....btw...he's also not as experienced as I am and has some self-esteem issues.

 

[sammy65]

PM me and I can help you/him. Sorry to hear the problem but it could be a lot worse. He ccould have problems getting an erection or PE on top of it all.

ttyl
S

 

[shiny5437]

I kinda have the same problem although I am actually getting better at it.

I've noticed a few things, just wondered if anyone agrees.

1. I've always tended to masturbate not for the pleasure of it but rather just to relieve the sensation of horniness. So when it comes to actual sex I guess I'm still not tuned into trying to enjoy it.

2. I last longer if I've engaged in anal stuff recently, even up to a few days beforehand. I think this might be that whilst doing the anal I have to focus on relaxing everything down there and then this relaxed feeling carries over into sex.

So my advice is enjoy it and stick your fingers up your bum! Sounds better than tugging on a ball (although that doesn't sound too bad if maybe a little dangerous)

What do other people think?

 

[love_269_girl]

My husband overcame a similar problem by learning to control his prostate. He experimented with hands free orgasm using a popular anal toy for men. In the process of teaching himself how to achieve an O without touching his penis he learned how to control his O during intercourse. His cumming to soon for me has gone from the norm to the rare occasion.

 

[iadoremywife]

I know exactly what you mean. There is a pill called "Maxstam" or something like that. They are usually sold in sex stores. I've even seen them in convience stores. Has anyone ever tried them and do they work?

 

[TexasWife25]

O.K I gotta problem and I could use a little help, and that problem would be premature ejaculation. Now with that said I already no one of the ideas you will say, first would be to masterbate before hand. Problem is, is that once I go, I lose all sexual drive period that and my SO is a little shy and not into oral.... I also tried the stupid desensitizing sprays and cock rings with no change. I am really bummed because I read all the storys of other people have long sessions with a partner. I always try to satisfy my SO with a BOB, oral, or the good ol rigid digit before I even attepmt penitration But I would like to last longer then 30 freakin seconds Anyways anyone have any good ideas or is there a drug like Viagra that would help?

Not sure if anyone said this but my hubby used to practice holding out during masterbation
it was how he sorta trained himself to stave off orgasam