Hookup apps

[ZacharyFagg]

What apps do you recommend?

I don't know. I mostly use Sniffies and Grindr, and while I do meet lots of fun guys, they are also full of blank profiles, pic collectors, fakes and creeps.
But I think they are all that way.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Yes, that's true about hook up apps. Most of the guys or people on there are either picture collecting or fakes.

The pic collectors piss me off, especially if their profile is completely blank.
This town I'm staying in right now is full of them.
It's so aggravating. Almost every message I get here just says "pics"
I immediately block these people.

 

[wifes_fag]

Glad we have a couple of regular guys. Tried Grindr and did meet a few people. But have to wade through a lot of bullshyt on there. What I did like about Grindr was blind meeting people and they turned out to be someone I or we knew real well. Oh well now they know. My wife has a steady boyfriend she goes and sees by herself whenever they want to. That has been going on several years. We have another guy we both go see he likes to have both of us. We have been doing this for years and enjoy it.

 

[drobert44]

Yes, that's true about hook up apps. Most of the guys or people on there are either picture collecting or fakes.

Silverdaddies has worked for me

 

[Uncut1969]

Glad we have a couple of regular guys. Tried Grindr and did meet a few people. But have to wade through a lot of bullshyt on there. What I did like about Grindr was blind meeting people and they turned out to be someone I or we knew real well. Oh well now they know. My wife has a steady boyfriend she goes and sees by herself whenever they want to. That has been going on several years. We have another guy we both go see he likes to have both of us. We have been doing this for years and enjoy it.

Sounds like a great relationship! Do the guys you know back off or get more excited knowing you like cock!

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Last night I was talking to a few guys and of course they want more pics. And more pics. Tons of questions.
Meanwhile a DL guy who had just left the gym hit me up, and 20 minutes later I was sucking his dick, while the others were still asking for pics.
By the time one actually said that he wanted to meet, I had been fucked good and was ready to go to sleep. And he called me a flake because I wouldn't meet.
Guys, most of the real people on these apps aren't going to wait all night for you to make up your mind.
We aren't getting married. Let's just fuck.

 

[BillyWalrus]

We aren't getting married. Let's just fuck.

You're not looking for Mr. Right. You're looking for Mr. Right Now!

 

[Britva415]

Last night I was talking to a few guys and of course they want more pics. And more pics. Tons of questions.
Meanwhile a DL guy who had just left the gym hit me up, and 20 minutes later I was sucking his dick, while the others were still asking for pics.
By the time one actually said that he wanted to meet, I had been fucked good and was ready to go to sleep. And he called me a flake because I wouldn't meet.
Guys, most of the real people on these apps aren't going to wait all night for you to make up your mind.
We aren't getting married. Let's just fuck.

I totally do this. “sorry man. I’m talking to someone serious.” or “sorry man. I already hooked up with someone.”

You snoozed. You losed. I’m not the flake, here.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

You're not looking for Mr. Right. You're looking for Mr. Right Now!

I am never looking for Mr. Right, but I never mind an ongoing thing with good chemistry!
But if someone is that damn picky, sites like Grindr aren't where they should be looking!

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I totally do this. “sorry man. I’m talking to someone serious.” or “sorry man. I already hooked up with someone.”

You snoozed. You losed. I’m not the flake, here.

Exactly. I never mind good conversation or hot chat, In fact I love it!
Im also not against people wanting to get a little comfy through chat before meeting. I enjoy that as well.
But if someone needs a pic of every body part from different angles acts like its a job interview, I will loose interest, especially if they start asking very personal questions.

 

[Skooter57]

I don't know. I mostly use Sniffies and Grindr, and while I do meet lots of fun guys, they are also full of blank profiles, pic collectors, fakes and creeps.
But I think they are all that way.

Grndr is ok. I get lucky every once in a while. I have roommates, so I get a hotel room if I want to play. There's about an 20% of the time I get lucky. I try once a month that my limit

 

[Don_private]

I need to rant.
Hookup apps can be fun, but they can be frustrating, and occasionally downright creepy. Here's a few things that people should know about them. If you have other things to add, feel free to add them. The people that need to read this probably won't, but you might feel better.


Your blank profile is useless. Fill out your profile. I get that people need to be discreet, but you can at least put your age, stats and what you are looking for. If you feel that you cannot, at least send it in a message. Say “40 year old 6’0 200# top looking for some fun.” Don't just say “hey” or “looking” from a totally blank profile.

Read other people's profiles before messaging them. And, have a little respect for what they say that they are looking for. If someone says that they are a total top who's looking for smooth, twink bottoms, do not message them if you are not that. If someone says they are a total bottom, do not message them and ask them to top.

Do not ask for pics without having some on your profile or sending some. And if you ask for pics, and someone sends one, at least say something to them. Nobody likes pic collectors.

Be polite and have a little game. Flattery, dirty talk, or flirting will get you further than "looking?" "Hosting?" “wyd” or “rn?”

Don't get pushy, and don't spam someone if they don't reply right away. And if someone says they aren't interested, just look elsewhere.

People have lives. They may not be sitting around wanting to go right now. If you're interested in someone, but they can't meet right then, stay in touch. Occasionally let them know that you are still interested.

If someone says that they are just looking for a NSA hookup, they are just looking for some casual fun. They probably don't want to send 30 different pics, or tell you their life story.

Most importantly, if you agree to meet someone, don't flake. Especially if the other person is hosting. It's a terrible feeling to give out your address to a stranger, then have them not show.

Agree with everything you write above…EVERYTHING …the only thing I would add is to then begin an email discussion with them…I never trusted a single person who was not willing to share an email to discuss “turn ons and turn offs”…we will be exchanging bodily fluids…if you can’t exchange emails, you can’t be trusted…period. Additionally…goes to your honesty…lay out EXACTLY what YOU ENJOY and absolutely what YOU DONT ENJOY…that way, if something happens that you said you don’t enjoy, you can bring it up immediately.
I had fantastic experiences from my ADULTFRIENDFINDER hookup’s. Had sex with women, men and couples from that site in 6 different states and 3 countries when traveling for work or going on vacation. I liked that site because it gave me access to all genders and locations

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Agree with everything you write above…EVERYTHING …the only thing I would add is to then begin an email discussion with them…I never trusted a single person who was not willing to share an email to discuss “turn ons and turn offs”…we will be exchanging bodily fluids…if you can’t exchange emails, you can’t be trusted…period. Additionally…goes to your honesty…lay out EXACTLY what YOU ENJOY and absolutely what YOU DONT ENJOY…that way, if something happens that you said you don’t enjoy, you can bring it up immediately.
I had fantastic experiences from my ADULTFRIENDFINDER hookup’s. Had sex with women, men and couples from that site in 6 different states and 3 countries when traveling for work or going on vacation. I liked that site because it gave me access to all genders and locations

I am totally fine with chatting about likes and dislikes. That makes for a fun time. I consider that foreplay.
I don't even mind chatting with someone that I will never meet. Love edging myself to hot chat!
I just hate the endless weird questions. Some guys even try to get extremely personal. I don't know, it gets creepy.

 

[Don_private]

I am totally fine with chatting about likes and dislikes. That makes for a fun time. I consider that foreplay.
I don't even mind chatting with someone that I will never meet. Love edging myself to hot chat!
I just hate the endless weird questions. Some guys even try to get extremely personal. I don't know, it gets creepy.

Agree…I NEVER EVER went to ‘emails’ until we are going to start arranging times and places to meet…I could usually tell within the first few messages if there was going to be chemistry…