hookin up with older chicks

[incubus420]

Hey, maybe im uncreative but im an average looking 18 year old guy, i do ok with chicks my age, but i want to hook up with an older chick, like a skinny 35-45, not for a relationship or anything, but yea... maybe im unimaginative but does anyone have any ideas about how i can go about accomplishing this

 

[phoenix1224]

TOO BAD YOUR TOO YOUNG TO GO TO THE BARS YET... THAT'S WHERE I MET ALL THE OLDER WOMEN I'VE BEEN WITH (ALCOHOL IS A GREAT SOCIAL 'LUBRICANT')...

JUST TALK TO THEM LIKE THEIR HUMAN BEINGS, LISTEN, AND BE GENUINELY INTERESTED IN WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY... FEEL THEM OUT, AND YOU'LL KNOW WHEN TO MAKE YOUR MOVE... THEIR NOT ALL THAT DIFFERENT FROM YOUNGER GIRLS...

HOPE I'VE HELPED...

 

[CelticFrog]

PHOENIX YOU'RE A GREAT GUY AND ALL BUT QUIT SHOUTING!!!

 

[phoenix1224]

LOL!!! SORRY!!!

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by incubus420
Hey, maybe im uncreative but im an average looking 18 year old guy, i do ok with chicks my age, but i want to hook up with an older chick, like a skinny 35-45, not for a relationship or anything, but yea... maybe im unimaginative but does anyone have any ideas about how i can go about accomplishing this

You might want to visit this thread

oh and just a hint...don't call us older 'chicks'

oh and Phoenix, I beg to differ...older women are very different from younger ones. I am nothing like I was at 20. Although I do agree with your advise to talk to them like they're humans and be interested.

 

[VSE]

1) Dont be drunk
2) Actually listen to what she has to say (rather than the usual "justin weasleboy/robbie shithead did.....zzzzzzzzzz")
3)Dont talk about sports/cars/mum
4) if you happen to earn more than £30k(given price of petrol I'll go for $45k) drop it in somewhere
5)be fit/dashingly handsome or bitingly satirical
6) The answer to "do I look fat/have I got cellulite/am I Ugly" is NO (repeat several times and then storm out for full effect)
7) her daughter if she is older than 14 is NOT attractive and any reason she gives why boys will not sleep with her is the law.
8) AT some point she will have shaved her pubes into a heart shape, this is GOOD/CUTE/EXPRESSING artistic talent, try and get her to do it again...... When you're there or even better, doing it for her (you are a hair stylist now, aren't you?).
9) Any automobile with a spoiler, fat tires and turbo that wasnt there when you bought it is a waste of money. In fact its just a car, why the hell do you spend so much time on the damn thing anyway, it never breaks down?
10) Expensive Red wine, some candles and a compliment works wonders.

 

[phoenix1224]

Re: Re: hookin up with older chicks

You might want to visit this thread

oh and just a hint...don't call us older 'chicks'

oh and Phoenix, I beg to differ...older women are very different from younger ones. I am nothing like I was at 20. Although I do agree with your advise to talk to them like they're humans and be interested.

Sorry, I didn't mean to suggest that women don't change over time... we all do...

Sure, a woman of, say 35 or 40 is much more confident than a woman of, say 20... much more in tune with their bodies and what they like and don't like... Also, much more willing to let a guy know what they want in bed (which is a real turn on), instead of just expecting us to know as if we're psychic (shit, we can be pretty dense sometimes)...

But, what I meant by 'not all that different' was that all women want the same thing... A man who will listen, care about what they have to say, treat them like a person first and a lover second, someone to share their lives with and who will share their lives with them... Someone to truely connect with on all levels...

 

[wicked woman]

Re: Re: Re: hookin up with older chicks

Originally posted by phoenix1224
Sorry, I didn't mean to suggest that women don't change over time... we all do...

Sure, a woman of, say 35 or 40 is much more confident than a woman of, say 20... much more in tune with their bodies and what they like and don't like... Also, much more willing to let a guy know what they want in bed (which is a real turn on), instead of just expecting us to know as if we're psychic (shit, we can be pretty dense sometimes)...

But, what I meant by 'not all that different' was that all women want the same thing... A man who will listen, care about what they have to say, treat them like a person first and a lover second, someone to share their lives with and who will share their lives with them... Someone to truely connect with on all levels...

 

[peachykeen]

Re: Re: Re: hookin up with older chicks

But, what I meant by 'not all that different' was that all women want the same thing... A man who will listen, care about what they have to say, treat them like a person first and a lover second, someone to share their lives with and who will share their lives with them... Someone to truely connect with on all levels...

Yeah, ummm... that's all lovely and happy and flowery and shit but honestly, what I (as an 'older chick') would actually be looking for from an 18-19 year old guy is, quite frankly, stamina and endurance. Fuck that life-sharing crap; that's what, like, 'older dudes' are for.

 

[phoenix1224]

Re: Re: Re: Re: hookin up with older chicks

Yeah, ummm... that's all lovely and happy and flowery and shit but honestly, what I (as an 'older chick') would actually be looking for from an 18-19 year old guy is, quite frankly, stamina and endurance. Fuck that life-sharing crap; that's what, like, 'older dudes' are for.

Hey... I must have been drunk when I wrote that... I'm usually not that sensitive (at least when it come to just getting laid)... Must have gotten nostalgic about my ex...

 

[sheath]

Hey, maybe im uncreative but im an average looking 18 year old guy, i do ok with chicks my age, but i want to hook up with an older chick, like a skinny 35-45, not for a relationship or anything, but yea... maybe im unimaginative but does anyone have any ideas about how i can go about accomplishing this

Some pointers:

Stop referring to them as 'chicks'. Chicks are small, yellow, fuzzy and make peeping noises. This is not what you are after. I hope not, anyway.

Treat 'older women' just like they are...well...women. Be mature. Be respectful. Pay attention to her personality. A woman is NOT defined by her age.

And one last tip: Nothing will turn a woman off faster than to get the feeling this young guy is after her simply because he wants to get a good lay with an 'older' woman so he can then go brag to his high school buddies.

My opinion,
S.

 

[SexyChele]

Hey, maybe im uncreative but im an average looking 18 year old guy, i do ok with chicks my age, but i want to hook up with an older chick, like a skinny 35-45, not for a relationship or anything, but yea... maybe im unimaginative but does anyone have any ideas about how i can go about accomplishing this

I am a woman, not a "chick." Granted, you might not actually say this to me, but I will pick up on the attitude. After all, I've been around a lot longer than you and am quite familar with men's attitudes.

Another thing, how do you define "skinny"? Most women that I know of in this age group have put on that extra 15 - 30 lbs. Yes, there are a few who have managed to stay petite, but for the most part kids and life have taken a toll.

Oh, and you don't have to pretend to actually be interested in her. She knows you only want sex and nothing more. Problem is, most older women, unless they are in very unhappy relationships, want more than you have to offer.

My advice? Look for women who have lousy husbands or are extremely lonely. The rest of us will simply play head games with you for an hour or so and then go home to a man who can put a smile on our face clear through to next week.

 

[CelticFrog]

Re: Re: hookin up with older chicks

My advice? Look for women who have lousy husbands or are extremely lonely.

Don't forget desperate, anorexic, drug users... etc.

Seriously, as shallow as you seem (and I didn't say it at first because I was trying to ignore it) you should really be fucking the younger ones who don't give a shit.

Or maybe you should just try to be MILF Hunter's cameraman.

GAWD.
Ang