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lol duh @ men. women ask that question because of insecurity...all you have to do is make her feel secure and that question will go away.TigerClaw said:To answer the question or not to answer the question? Is the question.
Do you answer HONESTLY and Not tell a LIE ?
Is your opinion the anwer?
I like women with say 5 - 10 lbs on them? It rounds them out well and look great in a bikini. I can enjoy a woman with more weight then that. It all depends on the attraction. But one thing for sure they are so very soft to sleep with, hmmmm.
A friend of mine likes his women at the suggested weight and will not deviate from it. The only fat he wants on em is Tit and Ass. That's it.
To me a woman at 5 - 10lbs over weight is not Fat to me at all. To my friend, yes, they are.
If the woman is more the 10lbs and I think she is sexy as hell.....Is she Fat? I might not want her to loose any weight.
No matter what the weight is they never believe you if you say, "No", "Your at the perfect weight", "I love you just as you are", etc. By whose opinion are they going by then?
God forbid if you say, they are fat, fat here or there, not fat but could loose a pound or two. Your dead meat.
A woman who has curves is easier for breat bondage, clamps, etc. What is youre experience?
Kajira Callista said:lol duh @ men. women ask that question because of insecurity...all you have to do is make her feel secure and that question will go away.![]()
shy slave said:Kc and Miss_Puss are right.
IMHO no-one in their right mind would ask or try to answer that question.
The world is full of thin people who think they are fat and vice versa.
There are other no-win conversations. I have been frowing my hair. It was bout 1 1/2" long(4cm) when I met Him. He insists i grow it. This has casued many difficulties and discussons as I had not realised owning me also means owning my hair
Anyway at work a man commented my hair looks better longer.
Instantly I asked "Are you saying it looked terrible before!?"
If it looked so bad why didn't you tell me!?"
Yes I was joking, yes he looked around for an escape route and had an OMG look in his eye!!!
TigerClaw said:I knew you were not going to be able to resist this thread !
You have a very good example of wanting an honest answer about leaving the house with your man. My hair might still go up on end with that question but if he knows that is what you want I think a partner caring about how the other partner looks when they are out is wonderful.
TigerClaw said:Mistaken Hon, I may have been Mistaken in posting it where I did. Most likely the General Board may have been the correct venue but then I would not have gotten the audience I wished to.
Your advise is well taken and respected.
TigerClaw said:LOL,
Is he a Dom and your a sub?
I understand completely in reverse. I used to be very honest when answering questions like this. I remember my first girlfriend that I adored (vanilla rel) and how angry she was at my answer on how she looked before going out. It took a long time come up with a compromise to what I was used to and what some women expected a man to say.
TigerClaw said:What about telling something not true to be more Flamboyant. More elusive, playful, intriguing or thought provoking. By taking a completely different position then what you truly believe for the sake of being thought provoking or intriguing. Isnt this Lieing?
TigerClaw said:What about telling something not true to be more Flamboyant. More elusive, playful, intriguing or thought provoking. By taking a completely different position then what you truly believe for the sake of being thought provoking or intriguing. Isnt this Lying?
graceanne said:LOL, now we are. We are very new to the scene, so things that happened then are different than things now. On the other hand, I'm one in a long line for K. He learned the hard way that you don't answer that question. To tell the truth it used to be if I asked, he'd say "Oh, no, not going there." lol
MissTaken said:Wouldn't it depend on if the information given is intended to mislead or if it is intended as a joke?
I am imagining myself at a party, talking crap, but making folks laugh even though they know I am not telling the truth.
Does this make sense?
Or is it time to log off now?
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