honestWithWifie
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- May 26, 2020
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How many of you are secretive on-line from your spouses/partners?
I am a 60 YO male and have finally become honest about my on-line life. She now knows that I am that guy who sits alone with his computer in the dark stroking.
Firstly: I have always felt ashamed of who I am sexually. Off line, I have felt embarrassed of my desires. I feel that off-line people will judge me. In person, I have been secretive sexually my entire life (mostly).
I have struggled my whole life with societies views on sex as “good and bad” or “right and wrong” my whole life. I have felt bad most of my life. Society forced me to suppress my sexuality. Society and religion have made me feel “bad and wrong” about who I am.
I am neither “bad nor wrong”. I just “am”.
I am hyper sexual and I think about sex a lot. For my entire life, I have been very interested in all types of sex. I am assuming that for my remaining life, I will continue to think and be interested in sex. I have recently come out to my wife and admitted that I like reading on-line erotica and viewing pornography that I am interested in. I enjoy it and I need this outlet.
We have a great sex life, but she doesn’t want or need sex everyday. I like extreme sex on a daily basis. I’m going to keep doing what I have been doing secretly.
I am out and I am finally honest and it feels great. No more tracks to cover and I don’t have to freak out if I hear her coming my way.
I am a 60 YO male and have finally become honest about my on-line life. She now knows that I am that guy who sits alone with his computer in the dark stroking.
Firstly: I have always felt ashamed of who I am sexually. Off line, I have felt embarrassed of my desires. I feel that off-line people will judge me. In person, I have been secretive sexually my entire life (mostly).
I have struggled my whole life with societies views on sex as “good and bad” or “right and wrong” my whole life. I have felt bad most of my life. Society forced me to suppress my sexuality. Society and religion have made me feel “bad and wrong” about who I am.
I am neither “bad nor wrong”. I just “am”.
I am hyper sexual and I think about sex a lot. For my entire life, I have been very interested in all types of sex. I am assuming that for my remaining life, I will continue to think and be interested in sex. I have recently come out to my wife and admitted that I like reading on-line erotica and viewing pornography that I am interested in. I enjoy it and I need this outlet.
We have a great sex life, but she doesn’t want or need sex everyday. I like extreme sex on a daily basis. I’m going to keep doing what I have been doing secretly.
I am out and I am finally honest and it feels great. No more tracks to cover and I don’t have to freak out if I hear her coming my way.
