Honest anal

[BiDrew42]

I have a lot of anal sex, both giving and receiving, and have been enjoying it for almost 50 years. There are occasionally accidents, but never anything more than a smudge. Knowing your body and maintaining routines makes it easy to avoid them. I eat a high fibre diet, exercise regularly, and stay well-hydrated. I keep a container of wipes in my bedside table along with condoms and several types of lube. I occasionally douche, but usually only if I've had a recent bowel movement or it's part of our foreplay. I will also douche between partners at a sauna or bathhouse.

If you're using a condom, water-based or silicone lube are the best choices. Silicone seems to last longer than water-based, but it doesn't really matter if you're reapplying regularly. Don't use silicon lube directly on your toys. Oil-based lube is best for bareback anal fun. Sometimes we make due with just a bit of spit.

My trans girlfriend and I have anal sex almost daily. We have never had any big messes, and we're comfortable enough with each other that a rare small mess is no big deal. One of my FWB's has a very large cock, and I used to worry sometimes that the suction effect on the backstroke would cause a problem, but it never has. Again, the occasional small mess is no big deal and has never resulted in us stopping what we're doing for longer than it takes to wipe up, reapply lube, and get back to it.

 

[fma20fma]

bareback anal sex M on F is very exciting. The highlight of the finishing for both partners is the purging out of the semen post activity. the girl enjoys the feel and the guy loves the sight and sound.

 

[live4thebj]

I have fucked MANY WOMANS asses back in my day. One mother in mid buttfuck had me pull out and spun around and started deepthroating my cock.

 

[Islander55]

If I am going to do anal, I prefer to prepare before hand though sometimes you can not plan and just need to go with the moment.

 

[fma20fma]

I have fucked MANY WOMANS asses back in my day. One mother in mid buttfuck had me pull out and spun around and started deepthroating my cock.

I have done that during and after bareback with my ex bf, when i was tipsy and mad horny sometimes.

 

[cocktaildress21]

As I entirely expected when I made the thread, by this point it's drowning in painfully obvious lies.

 

[Britva415]

As I entirely expected when I made the thread, by this point it's drowning in painfully obvious lies.

How do you explain it? What do you think is the truth behind what all these people are saying?

They aren't having anal at all and are trying to gaslight you into thinking it's OK?

That they're all secret scat fetishists and just not admitting it?

What's your thought process here?

 

[ZfrkS62]

As I entirely expected when I made the thread, by this point it's drowning in painfully obvious lies.

Well, go ahead and call them out then

 

[ArcticFlowers]

Y'all: if you're really so bothered and horrified by touching or seeing a tiny bit of poop, maybe putting your body parts inside other people's asses isn't the right thing for you?

 

[fma20fma]

This thread is getting interesting views posted thread bare. Please keep it going.

 

[ZOEOHZOE]

I let my bf once. It stopped hurting when he started pulling out shit all over the place LOL

 

[cocktaildress21]

Well, go ahead and call them out then

I thought I had been.

Simply put: everyone who downplays it - like it's simple, or not dirty, anyone who claims they enjoy it unlubed .. all lies. Most likely from people who have never ever tried it - because otherwise they'd know better.

Slight disclaimer: maybe there's some small individual variance. Maybe.

 

[Britva415]

everyone who downplays it - like it's simple, or not dirty, anyone who claims they enjoy it unlubed .. all lies. Most likely from people who have never ever tried it - because otherwise they'd know better.

I already asked you to explain why people would be motivated to lie about it.

You didn't answer then and I bet you won't, now, either.

 

[ZfrkS62]

I thought I had been.

Simply put: everyone who downplays it - like it's simple, or not dirty, anyone who claims they enjoy it unlubed .. all lies. Most likely from people who have never ever tried it - because otherwise they'd know better.

Slight disclaimer: maybe there's some small individual variance. Maybe.

You questioned 2 posts out of a total of 64, and one of those stories is completely plausible since it's not difficult to stay out of the shower steam in most showers. That hardly constitutes a thread of lies.

 

[cocktaildress21]

I already asked you to explain why people would be motivated to lie about it.

You didn't answer then and I bet you won't, now, either.

Because they are corny and they enjoy their little fantasy. Because they are looking for people to share that fantasy with. And simply because this is the Internet. The is little overlap between a site about sex - and people who have sex. It's far more likely to attract people who don't.

You questioned 2 posts out of a total of 64, and one of those stories is completely plausible since it's not difficult to stay out of the shower steam in most showers. That hardly constitutes a thread of lies.

Ooh - the statistics based argument. Getting and staying lubed in a purposely wet environment is enormously tricky. There is literally no reason for picking that of all places. Is it impossible? No. Is in implausible? Hell yes.

Also, I'm not here to call others out on their obvious lies - nor do I plan to be held accountable by random strangers.

I'm just saying: if the things you say clearly indicate a lack of any practical experience, don't pretend to be experienced (or real).

Others might follow your imaginary example and hurt themselves. Like the garden hose dude - which can quite literally kill you.

 

[Britva415]

the garden hose dude

Lol, now who's cherry picking. That was as obviously not serious to the rest of us as you say the entire thread is, to you.

In fact it's starting to become obvious that you aren't serious about any of this. Hope you enjoyed the attention while it lasted *yawn*

 

[Utmale48]

i love anal. i regularly do dildo squats, usually in heels and choking myself with pantyhose while i look in the mirror and do negative associations.

This makes me hot. Dang.

 

[Terrylipstick]

This makes me hot. Dang.

Found a guy once who was using something to choke himself doing auto-erotic asphyxiation sex play. He was dead, David Carradine style. Fucked up way to die in Iraq in the middle of the surge. Be careful.

 

[cdstefi]

I thought I'd say something about anal. Because well, I feel a lot of central information is never mentioned by anyone.

I'll preface this by saying most of the time, I'm kinda meh on anal - but when I'm so deep in subspace I'm almost drowning, it's like the nectar of the gods, and it pushes me to a near-constant chain of orgasms. So ... I'm not saying it's bad.

I'm saying it's dirty. And I mean that in the literal way. You may or may not realise this, but the rectum is where what was once food exits the body in a new and substantially less appealing state. This is part of why I'm sort of meh on the concept, most of the time. If I'm really horny, I like to lie on my side, on my bed, and use two dildos at the same time. It's not quite the same as the subspace thing, but it's a close-enough second. But it's problematic.

For one thing, to even get started, you need to realise that either you clean yourself thoroughly - or you're going to quite literally get shit everywhere. Now, cleaning propably means a douche, a convenient little invention that um .. flushes out what you don't want to get everywhere else. Keep in mind, it's not a 100% solution. Often it mostly does the job. Sometimes it doesn't. And ... it's your rectum - it's never precisely clean.

But ... I'll say this: Whatever precautions you take, if you like to do what I like, from time to time you'll need to change the sheets after. And it really does detract from the whole experience. Meh.

The other thing is that ... lubricant doesn't last forever. In my experience, oil lasts longer than waterbased, but waterbased is better, and you can't use oil with latex. So ... waterbased it is. Only, I dunno, it evaporates, or get's absorbed by the skin. Whatever the mechanism, it goes away. I've never timed it, but I'd say you get a good 10-15 minutes of bliss - then you kinda need to reapply if you want to keep going. People never mention this.

So ... bottom line: In order to do anal - and enjoy it, in a relatively non-messy way - you need to flush your hindside, apply lube, get going, reapply if you're like me and can easily enjoy an hours worth of fun - then afterwards, clean everything. And maybe take a bath. You need douche, water, lube, dildo, usually a towel on the bed, more lube (times x), more water, soap.

It's a lot of hassle, and most of the time, frankly, it's hardly worth it. To be completely honest, when all the prep work is done, I'm often no longer in the mood.

Central information - revealed!

All good advice.

My personal method is that I'll get the shower running just above lukewarm, unscrew the head so it's just the hose outlet, and douche with that (I just put it up against my asshole, not right inside, then relax till I feel the water entering me). Moderate water pressure is quite effective at sluicing out the rectum (maybe don't try it if you have a power shower though!) Sit on the toilet and expel the stuff (feels somewhat like a bout of diarrhoea but without the cramps) then I'll repeat at least once again until there's no more evidence of nasties, then a final thorough wash of the whole asshole area.

I like coconut oil as lube, it lasts well (better than water-based by far, and a nicer slippery consistency than silicone to my mind).

I got a little carried away the first time I got thoroughly fucked in the ass, and sucked the guy in between bouts of thrusting, and only realised what I'd done afterwards. But in the heat of the moment nothing seemed untoward and there was definitely no ick factor.

 

[apom]

I'm vegan so I think my diet helps, but I'm a magnet for pissed off woman-hating assholes who love ripping fat ass. They want my butt in then air and my face in the floor, so I don't eat anything 24 hours before if there's any chance there's gonna be sex. I keep myself clean always. Being usable is my most attractive feature, and as an ugly female I'm obsessive about doing all I can to keep myself fuckable--being clean, smelling good, keeping my jiggly little mom bod as tight as I can, etc. For me oral is most personal. Vaginal is most intimate. And anal makes me feel most used, dirty, inhuman, like a thing, and I like feeling that way. I never cum but the ache between my legs and the bump in the back of my throat as cocks are being slammed into my belly is a feeling I can't find any other way.

 

[StrongMaster7]

I'm probably the last person who should write about this, as I've only had anal once and enjoyed anal play a few more times. But here goes.

Yes, being clean is very important to me and certainly to my partner. That means a shower, brushing teeth, making ourselves clean everywhere. Not always, but usually. Our sex is rarely spontaneous. I have ED and so we know when we are going to have sex at least an hour in advance.

Neither I nor my wife are into any aspect of feces. Not the smell, not the taste, not the look, not the mess. So yes, we clean that area well. As far as the inside, I understand that porn stars use enemas to clean out the poo. Although, the one time I got to enjoy anal sex, the woman did not take an enema before and their was not a whiff, nor any other sign of poo during our sex. So, I guess it depends on the person and their diet and timing.

 

[twztdgirl]

All good advice.

My personal method is that I'll get the shower running just above lukewarm, unscrew the head so it's just the hose outlet, and douche with that (I just put it up against my asshole, not right inside, then relax till I feel the water entering me). Moderate water pressure is quite effective at sluicing out the rectum (maybe don't try it if you have a power shower though!) Sit on the toilet and expel the stuff (feels somewhat like a bout of diarrhoea but without the cramps) then I'll repeat at least once again until there's no more evidence of nasties, then a final thorough wash of the whole asshole area.

I like coconut oil as lube, it lasts well (better than water-based by far, and a nicer slippery consistency than silicone to my mind).

I got a little carried away the first time I got thoroughly fucked in the ass, and sucked the guy in between bouts of thrusting, and only realised what I'd done afterwards. But in the heat of the moment nothing seemed untoward and there was definitely no ick factor.

I can’t say that I have ever planned anything anal. When things really get going with someone I am clicking with the inhibitions just melt away and I become quite a different person. I have been shocked a few times the next morning about what I did the night before.

 

[cdstefi]

I can’t say that I have ever planned anything anal. When things really get going with someone I am clicking with the inhibitions just melt away and I become quite a different person. I have been shocked a few times the next morning about what I did the night before.

I mean it can happen like that but the last time I did it, I had plenty of notice as the guy was coming round to mine from some distance away. So I had plenty of time to do my prep routine, get showered, shave my pubes and chest, dress in my lingerie and some loose outer clothes that were purely for the purposes of answering the door, they weren't staying on long once he'd arrived

Knowing it's going to be on and getting ready to be as clean as you can is kind of like foreplay, it's exciting in itself.

 

[cocktaildress21]

"Well, when we do it .." or "in my experience ". I have to say, those all sound like this colleague I have, who will open sentences with "no one is less racist than me" and then complain about immigrants or other religions.

Hej means well, BTW, he's not hateful. Just .. misguided

You can't do anal without getting dirty. Not even when you clean up. You can reduce, but not remove. Your colon and rectum will never be clean.

Similarly, you need lubricant. Know someone, or read something about doing it dry? Not. True. It is decidedly painful and unpleasant for both, without enough lube. Vaguely different in my case, since .. I'm with a girl, and there are no nerve endings in her cock.

And you need to get clean so the lubricant works. Also.

Are there exceptions? Maybe, I guess. I doubt it tho.

 

[LMWM321]

"Ewwww!!! Don't you know what the anus is for? Don't you know what comes out of it?"

Yes, of course - we alI do. ..But you know what else can be kinda gross? The vagina and the mouth - and we love involving those in our sex lives, right? Vaginas ooze (as do penises) and menstruate and mouths chew food. Big whoop. I don't think of those things during sex, so problem solved.

Seriously, no one's pressuring you to enjoy giving or receiving anal sex. ..The choice is yours to make.

All I can say is, I'm a thoroughly heterosexual guy who LOVES being pegged! ..I love it!! So I have ZERO difficulty believing 30-40% of sexually active women enjoy having something of their choosing pushed up their butt - including my wife, who enjoys an occasional finger or butt plug (albeit inserted slowly and with lots of lube). And my finger and the plug ALWAYS come out without poop on them..Nor do they smell. Why? Because we have sex at night and her "go" time is usually around 10 am so there is no poop in her rectum. Why would there be? Do you walk around with un-swallowed food in your mouth?

Is there apt to be bacteria on my finger/ plug? Of course! So I never get it near her vagina until I've washed it. To date, we've had ZERO ill-effects from anal play, including my rimming her 1-2 times per week over the past year or so.

Sorry for the gross imagery, but it seems you need it broken down into very direct and simple terms.