DVS
A ghost from your dreams
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Torture can be an ugly word or a delicious word. It all depends on your relationship with it. From your post, it seems you don't see it as torture so you may be one of those that consider it delicious. Your description "punish me causing me considerable discomfort" is very much a part of torture, when speaking of the male genital area.I wish the activity could be referred to as cock and ball "play" or even cock and ball "punishment". My wife in no way "tortures" (such an ugly word!) me. She does play with me and punish me causing me considerable discomfort and I enjoy when she does it to me because she enjoys doing it. And over the years she's gotten very, very good at it.![]()
Not everybody agrees with you in how it feels. Some still consider it torture, and just put up with it, because their mistress likes doing it to them. Some still consider it torture, but are masochistic and so they enjoy the pain just for the thrill it gives them.
BDSM is full of many different kinks. And there are just as many opinions as there are kinks. And in the same way, the scale of pain and the scale of pleasure are both quite varied, too. That's part of the thrill of these kinks we all enjoy. In most people, the feeling of pain and pleasure are very close together so it's sometimes difficult to describe if something feels good or hurts. You've heard of the expression "it hurts so good"?
So, I think we'll both agree that some things might feel good when to most vanilla people, they should hurt. Right? That might be why they call it torture. But, what's in a name? If you want, you and your wife can call it something else. I don't think the rest of us will mind.