Hmmmm just a tricky situation.....

[panzer105]

I am a bi male and my wife doesn't really show much interest in it at all. (we have had a couple of bi threesomes before). My question to all the other bi guys or anyone with an opinion for that matter is: how do I go about getting her to be more open with a little ass play now and again?

I have tried various things but am lost these days.

 

[A_Kefka]

I have to disagree. It sounds like he is looking for more of her playing with his ass now instead of bringing in other men. I'd say don't push too hard, remind her that you love her and are faithful, and that its something you enjoy, just like any other act. There isn't anything inherently gay about liking your ass penetrated with a toy.

 

[talismania]

When I was first approached about doing this--we're both straight as far as I know, but he wanted to experience ass play--I wasn't too keen on it. I didn't want to hurt him, or cause problems "down there." Besides, what turns me on about a guy is a nice hard cock, not his anus.

What got me to try it was finding out prostate stimulation would lead to all kinds of erectile fun. Making him cum harder. Making him hard in a new way. I get my cock... he's gets the the pleasure of being penetrated.

I used my finger first with a surgical glove because I didn't know what to expect. It was... okay for me, but he liked it and we tried again, experimenting with lubes, figuring out where the darn prostate is, that sort of thing. I let him put a finger in my ass, but I'll be honest, I didn't like it, but we continued playing with his. A woman gets why penetration is cool.

We moved up to toys when I was ready. It's still not my favorite thing to do with my man and his equipment, but it certainly has its moments!