HKBJ

[morninggirl5]

Please go back to you WOOooooooooooooooooooooo thread and edit your title. It's fucking up the whole board for everyone.

Click on the thread, look at your original post there and click on EDIT. It's at the bottom, above the reply button.

Then change the title to WOOHOO or something. Something short and with SPACES.

Thank you.

I just edited this myself, to be sure it would work and IT DOES.

 

[April]

I just tried it on my own thread, and it didn't work. Damnit. I got so excited about it, too. LOL

 

[lilminx]

MG,
I think that will only work if you edit your title soon after you post it. If he edits it now, it won't change the title, but it will change the small, bold writing in his initial post. Not sure, but I think that's what happened when I tired to edit a misspelling in the title of a thread I once started.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

nope it didn`t work.i tried it 2 times

 

[morninggirl5]

Well Hell.




Guess it's more posting like crazy to drive it to page 2 and hope noone else responds to it.

 

[sexy-girl]

thanks for trying hardkore


it doesnt effect me though maybe because i have my screen in hi res or smaller font i dont know

 

[April]

Well, stop doing it! Stop fucking up the whole board with your long ass thread titles!

Stop it.

Stop it!

GRRRRR!

 

[BlondeBeauty]

You know what, HKBJ? It's not my nature to be as flat-out cruel as some of the people on the Lit board. It's not pretty, and frankly I think you've heard that kind of stuff often enough. Doesn't seem to matter one bit...

I've offered to lend an ear several times if you needed someone to talk to. I hereby retract that offer. I honestly don't think I have the patience to do you any good.

It doesn't make me mad when you post nonsense things on the board anymore...it makes me sad. When someone craves attention this badly, especially attention in its worst forms, it's a plea for help.

Regardless of where you are, there are free counselors around.

I sincerely hope you find one who can help.

 

[morninggirl5]

up

 

[Tabby432]

SexyGirl & BlondeBeauty

Well done.



mm5, go kick a dog or something. You might feel better.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

thanks for the kind words.it just makes me feel worse when people are mean to me.im just looking for a friend or two.
im truly sorry to everyone.i hope you all can forgive me.

 

[freakygirl]

thanks for the kind words.it just makes me feel worse when people are mean to me.im just looking for a friend or two.
im truly sorry to everyone.i hope you all can forgive me.

 

[Shylady]

That makes me want to bang my head on the desk

 

[freakygirl]

That makes me want to bang my head on the desk

Makes me want to bang his head with a desk

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

go ahead hit or kill me i don`t care.you can use my gun.

 

[Shylady]

 

[freakygirl]

go ahead hit or kill me i don`t care.you can use my gun.

sorry HKBJ, you will have to find someone else. I'm a convicted felon.. it's against the law for me to possess a gun and vote.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

i know you want to kill me.you all want me to die.

 

[Problem Child]

go ahead hit or kill me i don`t care.you can use my gun.

They let you own a gun? I'm joining HCI tommorow.

 

[morninggirl5]

No one wants you to die. We just want you to stop all the lying and whining to get attention.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

pc,i don`t have a gun.if i had one i would give it to freakygirl.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

i want to die***** just sucks

 

[nasty]

i want to die***** just sucks

Life is what you make of it.

 

[BlondeBeauty]

Quick Tips
for building self confidence

Everybody could do with a confidence boost sometimes, so here are a few tips...

[These tips come from Roger Elliott, who runs courses and a website dedicated to building self confidence.]

1) Feel Good When You Want
For times when you need a quick boost to your self confidence or self esteem, find 3
things that make you feel good. These could be memories of good times, a piece of
music, a holiday souvenir, or a person's face - use photos if it helps. Practise thinking
about them and bringing them to mind.

Because of the way emotions 'attach' themselves to memories, you will quickly train
yourself to feel good when you want - a great help in developing self confidence that
lasts.

2) Beat Self Consciousness
Learn how to keep your attention off yourself - self consciousness is the No.1 enemy of
self confidence. You can do this easily by following these steps...

a) If you notice you have become self-conscious, (you can usually tell
because you start to feel anxious), choose something 'everyday' you can
see and study it in detail. For example: examine a door, look at the different
textures and shades of colour, wonder about who made it and how and so
on. The important thing is that you're learning how to keep your attention off
yourself.

b) If you feel self-conscious in a social situation, it's usually because you
don't have enough to do! Focus on what your purpose in the situation is.
Whether you're there to:

find out if you like the other people in the situation
make others feel comfortable
find out some information
make business contacts
and so on...

It's easy to feel self-conscious if you have nothing to do, and much more
difficult if your attention is occupied by a task.

Think how comfortable you have been with others when you're all working
toward a common goal. The common goal of socialising could be making
friends, it could be the exchange of mutually beneficial information, it could
be whatever you want it to be!

3) Don't Take Undue Criticism - Even From Yourself !
Challenge your own assumptions. For example, take note that:

a) Confident-looking people have bad moments too.

b) Just because you feel under-confident, doesn't mean other people can
tell.

c) If you're saying things to yourself like "You're no good at anything" then
rest assured, you're wrong. Everyone can compose a sentence, get
successfully to the store, eat without choking. Don't let yourself make
sweeping statements about yourself - in the long run it is this sort of thing
that can really damage your self image.

Building self esteem is not just about thinking good of yourself, it's about not
thinking bad for no reason!

d) Just because you have felt bad about yourself in the past doesn't mean
you're always going to feel that way. I have seen hundreds of people
surprise themselves once they have learned how to build self confidence in
a way that it stays built!

This post says alot.
It could be taken to heart by several people.

 

[Gilly Bean]

Life is what you make of it.

Exactly.

Life sucks? Do something about it instead of whining to everyone about it.

I am sorry, I try to just ignore the "My life is horrible, I hate life, no one likes me, everyone hates me" threads, but I think telling people to kill you is a bit over the edge.

If you HONESTLY think about dying all the time, and what not, seek help. Get some therapy, get some drugs, or whatever is needed. Anti depressants. Just stop whining and expecting it to change if you won't do anything to help it change.