Hitting on a good friend...

Black_Bird

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Did you ever flirt with a good friend, thinking that it was harmless flirting only to have it become more then just flirting? Go ahead... share your story! :)
 
Black_Bird said:
Did you ever flirt with a good friend, thinking that it was harmless flirting only to have it become more then just flirting? Go ahead... share your story! :)


Actually, I hit on a certain person every day, altho I don't think he even realizes it. Of course, it could also be considered sexual harrassment (sp?) in the work place, but where I work, it's a job requirement. I'd like it to go to something deeper, but I hardly think it will ever happen, unless 1. I get a divorce and 2. I get him drunk and just take advantage of him.

As for having it already happen, no I flirt with my friends, female and male, but nothing has ever come of it. But there's always hope right?
 
Well, I once had a friend who I had a crush on, but didn't think it would go anywhere. We spent nearly a whole summer together, all the while I was realizing he really wasn't my sort of guy.

Then, one day, we hugged good bye, and he held on for around five minutes or so, his face nuzzling my neck.... Freaked me out.

Haven't seen him since.

He was a pretty cool guy too.

:(

Probably not what you're going for, but it's the only story I have of this kind.
 
I remember when I was in grade 11, I was dating this guy who was really bad for my self-esteem. Anyway, after cheating on me for like, 4 months, I dumped him, and dealt with being single (when you're a fat person at my old high school, people were mean if you were single). So anywho, my ex had this friend named Brian, who was really sweet, and he was my best friend as well.. Brian dated a lot of my friends and never me, and eventually, I wanted to see what it felt like to kiss him... so I leaned in one day, and he grabbed me and planted a wonderful, hot, firm kiss on my lips.. I thought I would die then and there.. I'd had a thing for this guy for ever, and never thought I'd have him.... after a while of awkwardness and passion, he ended up proposing, and I had to say no... but he was great for that time...
 
Black_Bird said:
Did you ever flirt with a good friend, thinking that it was harmless flirting only to have it become more then just flirting? Go ahead... share your story! :)

I do... and you call me stalker... but I think of it as a term of endearment...


btw, what are you doing Thursday?
 
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perky_baby said:


I do... and you call me stalker... but I think of it as a term of endearment...


btw, what are you doing Thursday?

Believe it or not, it's the ONE day I have off this week. Why?
 
lol, cause I'll be up your way... anything doing at the B & N? I've got a few hours
 
YAY... what else is around there? I have to pick up some book by Spider somebody... maybe I'll make you paint ceramics with me<grin>
 
Black_Bird said:
Did you ever flirt with a good friend, thinking that it was harmless flirting only to have it become more then just flirting? Go ahead... share your story! :)

It's the story of my life....I've never had a conventional date or fling. Ever. Every woman I've made love / fucked has been nothing more than a real platonic friend initially and things just went BLAM!

By now it has got to be more than a coincidence but I can honestly say I haven't planned a one.

You want juicy details don't you?

Not now. Maybe later when I'm not ready to go off like a pistol.
 
perky_baby said:
YAY... what else is around there? I have to pick up some book by Spider somebody... maybe I'll make you paint ceramics with me<grin>

What else is around there? There are a few good resturants... Lowes Theater, various odds and ends shops... *shrugs* and then there is white marsh mall...
 
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lavender said:

I don't want to be your friend.
I don't think I want to be his friend either, now. Just in case.
 
Black_Bird said:


What else is around there? There are a few good resturants... Lowes Theater, various odds and ends shops... *shrugs* and then there is white marsh mall...

no you can't make out with me in the movies.....OMG:D
 
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lavender said:


Marxist -

I don't want to be your friend. I just want to be your personal fucktoy.

How does that sound?

We've been platonic about the right time. Yep, you'd end up on the end of the microchocopenis at some point. It's fait accompli at this point.
 
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kotori said:
I don't think I want to be his friend either, now. Just in case.

A sheep is supposed to be a very welcoming orifice.....never made friends with a sheep before....
 
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Marxist said:


We've been platonic about the right time. Yep, you'd end up on the end of the microchocopenis at some point. It's fait accompli at this point.

so since we've never been platonic does that mean you'll never deliver?
 
We use to joke "What's a fuck between friends? If you can't fuck your friends, who can you fuck?"
 
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seXieleXie said:


so since we've never been platonic does that mean you'll never deliver?

Never thought of that before. I don't come on to women overtly in real life so who knows....I'd like to think that offer of armpit sex was more than just words.
 
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