Hi, we're a nor cal couple kindof goofing around only kindof serious. I'm 36 blonde and pretty. My husband is 42, cute, sweet and very sub. He doesn't mind when I play, in fact he loves it. the thing is, going out and such, it's just really hard to meet someone who gets us. We've always liked lit for the stories and such, so we thought, hey, why not try posting here right? anyways, please bear with us cuz like I said we're just new.