MeetMyNeeds_IWillMeetYours
Intimacy Found Here
- Joined
- Dec 29, 2023
- Posts
- 259
I've accepted that my avatar may not ever work in 2023. So, here you go.
Hi Men of Lit:
I'm in need of a different type of online play. I'd like to have BFE (boyfriend experience) play and the online sexual aspect will occur only after we've gotten to know each other and I feel comfortable.
BFE "represents a package of attributes, emotional investments, and time commitments that mimic those found in typical romantic relationships. But it's not always tied to romantic involvement. It could be a friendship with an extra layer of emotional depth, or it could be a full-blown romantic and sexual relationship without the label. It's about connection, intimacy, and an emotional bond that transcends typical casual relationships. Different from a fling or a one-night stand, the boyfriend experience sits in its own unique niche...emotional intimacy takes the center stage. The boyfriend experience goes beyond superficial connections and dalliances to create a deeper emotional bond."
Long definition, but hopefully that clears up ensuing questions.
I'm looking for genuine, kind, patient men between the ages of 32-42. If you are attached in any way, do not contact me.
I am a single black woman in her 30s & I look forward to providing you with companionship and showering you with affection. I'm not expecting a one-way street type of deal. I will always reciprocate the time & effort you put in and I will prioritize you.
Lots of people on Lit are lonely. Let's try to combat that with thoughtful conversations, creating safe spaces for vulnerability, & an understanding that sexually charged chats are secondary to a genuine connection (kinks are listed in my profile).
I'm not looking to turn our online connection into an irl relationship, but I also won't discourage such a trajectory, should it naturally and mutually occur.
So, if you're interested, let me provide a GFE for you too .
**Note: I have the right to ignore unsuitable messages. So, no hard feelings.