Hi :) New. FTM guy, maybe NSFW?

[kato_xx]

Hi all. I am FTM trans and have been looking for a guy to connect with for a while. It seems like it’s really hard to find someone who shares similar fantasies as me.

I haven’t had lower surgery and would like to live out some stuff before I do. Some things that really turn me on are the thought of a man pushing through my cervix and into my womb to cum inside me. Or sharing me with his friends, or playing doctor, or being outdoors. I really like the idea of father/son roleplay, but wouldn’t necessarily want these things 100% of the time. I’ve never really been into anal, though most of my other FTM friends are. I’ve only really been with women before but I really want to connect with a guy. Unfortunately I pass well, am pretty masculine, and am a top aside from a few sexual fantasies, and it’s kind of gotten in the way. Does anyone else share these problems? I’d love to break out of my shell, but I don’t really know how or where to start.

 

[bluesky496]

Hi all. I am FTM trans and have been looking for a guy to connect with for a while. It seems like it’s really hard to find someone who shares similar fantasies as me.

I haven’t had lower surgery and would like to live out some stuff before I do. Some things that really turn me on are the thought of a man pushing through my cervix and into my womb to cum inside me. Or sharing me with his friends, or playing doctor, or being outdoors. I really like the idea of father/son roleplay, but wouldn’t necessarily want these things 100% of the time. I’ve never really been into anal, though most of my other FTM friends are. I’ve only really been with women before but I really want to connect with a guy. Unfortunately I pass well, am pretty masculine, and am a top aside from a few sexual fantasies, and it’s kind of gotten in the way. Does anyone else share these problems? I’d love to break out of my shell, but I don’t really know how or where to start.

hello Kato,
welcome to Lit"
i am sure you are not alone and i am certain you will make friends on here and who knows ,perhaps someone to help you explore your fantasies ,p.m. me if you would like to chat more ,x

 

[Missouribiguy]

I do admit that I have a running interest/fanasty of being with a FTM transgendered man.

 

[Prince Albert]

Welcome to Lit, have fun but be careful out there!!

 

[stickygirl]

Sorry Kato - you're going to have to be a litle clearer with your label: you say you're a FTM - that means Female to Male ie. you currently have female anatomy, but you identify as male. Or did you mean MTF?
I think your anatomy knowledge is letting you down as well: no man, apart from an obstetrician, would 'push through' a cervix. Forgive my lack of sensitivity, but would a FTM want to have sex with a man vaginally as a fantasy....sorry, not my area
It's one of these situations where the correct label really does matter

I may have gotten this completely 'round my ear' but I'm confused!!

Fuckity fuck - just had to correct my frigging pronouns - Argh!!

 

[Stella_Omega]

welcome, kato! There aren't many of us here.

Plenty of trans guys use their vag's, stickygirl. It's how we can connect with our prostates, since our urethra is in front of that. Some guys do have too much dysphoria to enjoy their front hole, but I gotta tell you- Testosterone has a way of making getting off more compelling than any stupid fucking qualms about what your junk looks like-- I'm amazed at how many guys corroborate that

For a lot of us, the issue isn't that we have an extra hole-- but that we don't have a penis we can use to penetrate with. Personally, I would love to have seven inches or so of dick, and keep my vag right where it is.

Anyways, about getting with a top man. Huge numbers of gay men are really fucked about vag-having guys. Much worse than they are about dick-having gals. Very simplistic notions of what sexuality is. (I just spent my weekend around the leathermen and there was SO MUCH facepalming... )

You need to look for queer men, really. You might try fetlife.com There's a group there for gay FTMs. In fact, there's one on facebook as well.
Also a lot of FTMs connect on tumblr. try FTMporn tag.

Edit-- if you happen to be in missouri, see if you can hookup with missouribiguy. From what I know of him posting here he's good folks

 

[stickygirl]

Thanks for the heads-up Stella!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thanks for the heads-up Stella!

maybe I should start a thread called "Ask a trans guy"
All questions would be answered in monosyllables and grunts.

 

[Missouribiguy]

Edit-- if you happen to be in missouri, see if you can hookup with missouribiguy. From what I know of him posting here he's good folks

I don't know if I should flattered or worried.

 

[_man_]

Hi all. I am FTM trans and have been looking for a guy to connect with for a while. It seems like it’s really hard to find someone who shares similar fantasies as me.

I haven’t had lower surgery and would like to live out some stuff before I do. Some things that really turn me on are the thought of a man pushing through my cervix and into my womb to cum inside me. Or sharing me with his friends, or playing doctor, or being outdoors. I really like the idea of father/son roleplay, but wouldn’t necessarily want these things 100% of the time. I’ve never really been into anal, though most of my other FTM friends are. I’ve only really been with women before but I really want to connect with a guy. Unfortunately I pass well, am pretty masculine, and am a top aside from a few sexual fantasies, and it’s kind of gotten in the way. Does anyone else share these problems? I’d love to break out of my shell, but I don’t really know how or where to start.

First, welcome. Based on conversations with some FTM friends that I have chatted with, yours in not an unusual 'problem' (as you put it).

Explore your transformation.

 

[stickygirl]

maybe I should start a thread called "Ask a trans guy"
All questions would be answered in monosyllables and grunts.

LMAO
....but actually, that's not such a bad idea. I clearly have blanks in my knowledge and MTFs get way too much attention ( Cinderellas .... ). I've felt very nervous of saying the wrong thing with respect to FTMs

 

[Prince Albert]

I don't know if I should flattered or worried.

I'd be flattered Missouri!!