hi i need help

[hampshireguy8]

hi there i have a few ads on here but here goes again im very new to this looking for ladies to eplore d/s and other things together and find out what our needs are together , dont have a clue what else to say so plz help

 

[obturator]

I might have a few words that can help point you in the right direction. First thing is to attempt to reign in the desperation in your pleas for a partner. Try to connect with people on here, I think you are looking for ladies, on a human level and then see if you are compatible. So this means that you should try and list some interests so that people can become interested in you...and want to get to know you some. Try discussing how you discovered your interest in "INSERT KINK" and maybe a funny situation or circumstance you have found yourself in. Also, you may want to add a few non-kink based interests also. Keep it short and sweet. Try to appear confident but not commanding.

Be clear about what you are looking for. You may want to consider not listing body types at this point as when I posted this you have no other responses in your add. Think about the type of person you would like to get to know. List a few positive qualities that will not limit or offend those who might respond.

Lastly my friend, be genuine and kind. There is a time and place for the darker side of kink that will be mutually enjoyed, but at this stage concentrate on cultivating friendships that the future recipient will be glad they made.

I wish you the best and if you want some feedback or just a friend who has been there in the lifestyle please do not hesitate to drop a line.

-O