Hi all! Newbie Here!!!

babeegirl

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I just wanted to say hi to everyone out there on this board. I'm a new member but have been reading the threads for a very, vey, veryyyyy long time. Anyway, I'm new to the BDSM lifestyle and I guess I'm kind of looking for a community and guidance. Any suggestions?
Thanks all!!!
And happy holidays!
 
Welcome out of Lurkdom. :rose:

I'm assuming you've already read through the BDSM Library sticky at the top of the forum? If not, that's the best place to get some knowledge under one's belt, IMO. If so, what topics are of interest to you? You might start by searching for threads on those (there are detailed instructions on using the search function effectively in the "FAQs Before Posting" sticky on the main How To forum page, and be sure to check out HotCappucino's instructions on searching Lit with Google in that sticky, too).

Otherwise, if you can't find something or need more situation-specific info, just ask! :)
 
SweetErika said:
Welcome out of Lurkdom. :rose:

I'm assuming you've already read through the BDSM Library sticky at the top of the forum? If not, that's the best place to get some knowledge under one's belt, IMO. If so, what topics are of interest to you? You might start by searching for threads on those (there are detailed instructions on using the search function effectively in the "FAQs Before Posting" sticky on the main How To forum page, and be sure to check out HotCappucino's instructions on searching Lit with Google in that sticky, too).

Otherwise, if you can't find something or need more situation-specific info, just ask! :)
Thank you so much for that advice, I really appreciate it!!!! It's kind of tough just throwing myself out there, especially because most people seem to have so much experience. I have no real life experience with BDSM and that really irks me. I've known for a pretty long time that this wasn't something I just wanted to try, but something I want to do on a more permanant level.
 
babeegirl said:
Thank you so much for that advice, I really appreciate it!!!! It's kind of tough just throwing myself out there, especially because most people seem to have so much experience. I have no real life experience with BDSM and that really irks me. I've known for a pretty long time that this wasn't something I just wanted to try, but something I want to do on a more permanant level.

welcome to Lit AND the lifestyle! there are alot of topics that will help you learn here...and also you can google 'bdsm resources' and find alot of good information there too. i just recently got my first RL taste of BDSM when i met my Master of 3 years for the first time face to face. it was awesome and oh so worth the 3 year wait *grins* good luck to you and i hope you stick around the board for a while :)
 
lil_slave_rose said:
welcome to Lit AND the lifestyle! there are alot of topics that will help you learn here...and also you can google 'bdsm resources' and find alot of good information there too. i just recently got my first RL taste of BDSM when i met my Master of 3 years for the first time face to face. it was awesome and oh so worth the 3 year wait *grins* good luck to you and i hope you stick around the board for a while :)
Thanks so much!!! That is so excting that you found such a great Master!!! Thanks for the advice. Hopefully, I'll be sticking around, I don't know why I wouldn't be considering I've been reading the boards for a few years.
 
babeegirl said:
Castlerealm is a wonderful and informative site!!! I have not visited the other two, but will be sure to. Thanks!!!

Quite welcome...

and thanks for the compliment in your reply to My rose :D
 
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