Hey Tolyk--

[dr_mabeuse]

You seem like a nice guy and I really enjoy your posts, but as long as your Av has a picture of you waving your dick in my face, I'm going to have to put you on ignore.

---dr.M.

 

[cookiejar]

Is this where I say, "Put a sock ON it?"

 

[Lucifer_Carroll]

:raise eyebrow:

Forgive me, but I'm a bit surprised to hear such coming from you, doc. Another recent folly of mine born of assumption.

 

[Songcatcher]

You seem like a nice guy and I really enjoy your posts, but as long as your Av has a picture of you waving your dick in my face, I'm going to have to put you on ignore.

---dr.M.

ditto

 

[domjoe]

Besides, you should always remember the large number of children posting here.

 

[Lucifer_Carroll]

Am I the only one slightly baffled at the double standard?

We cheer lasciviously at every AV of revealed tit, ass, and that oh so rare cunt shot. We drool and applaud like a crowd at a Strip Club. We cry loudly for more and more and not a single post goes up saying "I'm sorry lucky, but if you keep posting yourself naked or licking vella's nipple, we'll have to put you on ignore." And there's quite a large number of straight women on this board. Many of them are the ones baring their tits and asses too.

But lordy, if a guy shows his tonker, it's the Bay of Pigs. People slammed Black Snake when he did it. This thread pops up for Tolyk. I don't get it.

I can understand it maybe if it was tied to a sexual act or to something homoerotic. But as is, it's just a dick. Same as the one all of us men see when we're pissing into the toilet of a morning (well not exactly the same for us uncircumsized guys, but you get the general gist).

It's not like he's asking if it makes us horny.

Eh, I guess I just don't get it.

 

[sweetnpetite]

Am I the only one slightly baffled at the double standard?

We cheer lasciviously at every AV of revealed tit, ass, and that oh so rare cunt shot. We drool and applaud like a crowd at a Strip Club. We cry loudly for more and more and not a single post goes up saying "I'm sorry lucky, but if you keep posting yourself naked or licking vella's nipple, we'll have to put you on ignore." And there's quite a large number of straight women on this board. Many of them are the ones baring their tits and asses too.

But lordy, if a guy shows his tonker, it's the Bay of Pigs. People slammed Black Snake when he did it. This thread pops up for Tolyk. I don't get it.

I can understand it maybe if it was tied to a sexual act or to something homoerotic. But as is, it's just a dick. Same as the one all of us men see when we're pissing into the toilet of a morning (well not exactly the same for us uncircumsized guys, but you get the general gist).

It's not like he's asking if it makes us horny.

Eh, I guess I just don't get it.

I agree with you.

As to blacksnakes av- it didn't bother me. I just couldn't concentrate on his posts.

 

[sweetnpetite]

You seem like a nice guy and I really enjoy your posts, but as long as your Av has a picture of you waving your dick in my face, I'm going to have to insist that you post to every thread I'm on-- several times.

 

[shereads]

It's a cultural standard, fair or not. I posted a thread once asking why mainstream movies will show Hallie Berrie in full frontal nudity but not George Clooney, and the consensus was that a woman's breasts are an erotic tease, but they aren't the main event. I've never seen a "cunt shot" here, and it's probably rare for just that reason.

I'm not complaining. I have the luxury of viewing this site and other erotica in total privacy (except for the boys down at Homeland Security. Hi guys.) I'd feel differently if I had family members in the house who might wander through the room while I'm at the Hangout and wonder whose private parts I was looking at. So I can understand the wish by some viewers to keep AVs at a PG-13 level.

On any given day at Miami Beach families can see all the body parts that are revealed in the most daring women's AVs here. But for reproductive organs on fashionable display at the News Café, come back in, oh, ten years.

 

[Guest]

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Am I the only one slightly baffled at the double standard?

No double standard on my part. I personally don't enjoy people thrusting their tits or pussies in my face either. I guess it's a matter of context.

And for the record, Black Snake's the only other person I've put on my ignore list, and for the same reason. It's your right to show off the organ of which you're so proud; it's my right to choose not to see it.

Lucifer's Av is explicit enough for my tastes. And a lot more sly and clever too.

---dr.M.

 

[BlackShanglan]

Personally, I prefer a bit of mystery. I hate to feel that I'm in an anatomy lesson. I think I put male and female genitalia into the same category. I am happy to see either sex in their naked glory, but prefer to avoid genital close-ups. Frankly, they need to contextualizing to appear attractive, in most cases - either gender. But I'm the Esoteric Pervert.

Shanglan

 

[tolyk]

The fact that you started a thread with the need to blatantly tell me that you will be ignoring me makes it feel more of an insult than a comment. Hell, I don't need to know what ignore lists I'm on, I frankly don't give a damn, as it is entirely your choice who you want to ignore. But going out of your way to bring it up and in public is rather tackless. As Lucifer said, I expected higher of you.

Also, I've been using various genitalia shots as my AV for some time now, why wait so long to put me on ignore?

 

[tolyk]

No double standard on my part. I personally don't enjoy people thrusting their tits or pussies in my face either. I guess it's a matter of context.

And for the record, Black Snake's the only other person I've put on my ignore list, and for the same reason. It's your right to show off the organ of which you're so proud; it's my right to choose not to see it.

Lucifer's Av is explicit enough for my tastes. And a lot more sly and clever too.

---dr.M.

Okay, you dislike having tits or pussies shoved in your face yet BlackSnake is the only other person on your ignore list. This somewhat baffles me, since a rather large number of women use AVs with uncovered breasts in them, including some zoom in shots.

*shrug* It makes no real difference to me, seeing as I just had this conversation earlier. If people don't like my AV, they can always use the ignore option, since manually reading messages of people you have on ignore doesn't show their AV.

Now, if you are going to completely ignore all my messages due to my AV, that is your choice entirely. But I have one question, with me on your ignore list, how are you going to know if I stop using cock shots for my AV? I'm not going to go out of my way to tell everyone who has me on ignore that I have switched to a 'safe' AV.

 

[Guest]

 

[nikkijames]

My thought on this topic is that this is an ADULT site and you should expect to see cock, tits, ass and pussy. If you're not into that, disable the AV's then.I see no reason that anyone should compromise who they are or who they wish they could be for anyone on a website. Bringing it out into the open for public discussion has its pros and cons, but to try to degrade or belittle someone because they enjoying others looking at their body parts isn't saying much for you as a person. Leads me to believe that one isn't as open-minded as they could be.

I do happen to be one of the straight women here,not being into women at all, I happen to enjoy the pictures of Vella and Lucky, as I see it as art, not lesbian smut.

People need a place where they can go and be free and I personally see no reason why that place can't be here.

Love the AV Tolyk because it represents your desire to be FREE

 

[shereads]

This is just a guess, but maybe he took so long to say something about it because he was being tolerant. Maybe today he ran out of tolerance. Maybe he's checking out the forum from the office and a boss got a glance at the screen, or maybe there are kids around, or an elderly grandmother with a heart problem, or maybe it's just been a more in-your-face av this time than previous ones. There are any number of reasons why people in this particular forum, as opposed to a personals forum, might not want close-ups of someone else's genitalia with their morning coffee and boiled Keilbasa. Options are the ignore feature, turning off AVs, or tolerance of a more subtle photograph.

 

[tolyk]

I personally thought this was a less in your face picture than the old close up. Considering this one at least has my face.

*shrug*

 

[gauchecritic]

I'm pretty sure Zoot has thought long and hard about whether or not to post this thread.

I'd be quite chuffed if he'd taken the trouble to make it public that he reads all my posts and finds me interesting.

I suspect ulterior motives too. A thread about one person's AV that he dislikes and then a dozen regulars posting their view on the subject?

Tsk tsk, shame on you sneaky Zoot, lulling folks into a false discussion instead of posting a poll.

Personally I'm not very fond of cock shots, usually because of the photography not the subject.

 

[wishfulthinking]

I think a PM would have been nicer.

But it is kind of hard to take Tolyks posts seriously with that gorgous appendage

 

[shereads]

I'm sorry, I couldn't hear that, because I am ignoring your big cock.

If you're ignoring a particular cock, does that make it the dissed staff?





< running away, hiding behind my mother >

 

[she_is_my_addiction]

No double standard on my part. I personally don't enjoy people thrusting their tits or pussies in my face either. I guess it's a matter of context.

And for the record, Black Snake's the only other person I've put on my ignore list, and for the same reason. It's your right to show off the organ of which you're so proud; it's my right to choose not to see it.

Lucifer's Av is explicit enough for my tastes. And a lot more sly and clever too.

---dr.M.

So why don't you start a thread every time someone's AV bothers you?

I agree with those who disagree with you.

 

[carsonshepherd]

Re: Re: Hey Tolyk--

You seem like a nice guy and I really enjoy your posts, but as long as your Av has a picture of you waving your dick in my face, I'm going to have to insist that you post to every thread I'm on-- several times.

Amen!

 

[Liar]

For the record, I'm all for letting people have whatever they want to as their AVs. Wasn't even aware there was a debacle-worthy one in the premises right now, since I have AV's turned off.

Edtited to add: ..and now it seems I missed it. Bugger.

But here's a peculiar observation. Correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't full size, in your face, homemade cock-shots far outnumberting the full size, in your face, homemade cunt-shots in this place?

I can at the top of my head count to a handful of blokes who seem to enjoy showing off their dangly bits, and most of the time in their non-dangly state. But really, have you seen that many women sport AVs of juiced up wide speads? Lots of skin yes, and the occational ass or bare nipple. But it seems to me that the ladys in the house remain more subtle.

#L

 

[Bridget69]

My thought on this topic is that this is an ADULT site and you should expect to see cock, tits, ass and pussy. If you're not into that, disable the AV's then.I see no reason that anyone should compromise who they are or who they wish they could be for anyone on a website. Bringing it out into the open for public discussion has its pros and cons, but to try to degrade or belittle someone because they enjoying others looking at their body parts isn't saying much for you as a person. Leads me to believe that one isn't as open-minded as they could be.

I do happen to be one of the straight women here,not being into women at all, I happen to enjoy the pictures of Vella and Lucky, as I see it as art, not lesbian smut.

People need a place where they can go and be free and I personally see no reason why that place can't be here.

Love the AV Tolyk because it represents your desire to be FREE

I agree. You come on a porn site, you shouldn't be complaining about seeing nudity. I haven't seen any women complain about all the breast and vagina shots.