Hey, Pilot, need to pick your brain.

[lovecraft68]

Or your experience.

Writing a piece that took a surprising turn for me. I decided to make the (admittedly stereotyped) batshit crazy tough guy mafioso in my Abigail sequel a closet fan of men.

He has sex with women to keep up his image, but behind closed doors he's into young men.

The term I'm using is sissy boy as in they dress feminine, wear make up and act very girly.

So...is that an accurate term in the way I'm using it 'sissy boy' and what is the dynamic? I'm assuming they would mostly be submissive, but again that is an assumption.

Also would they ever do the fucking or would they always be on the receiving end? I know everything is a generalization and there are exceptions, but I'm looking for what the 'standard' is so to speak.

Of course anyone else can feel free to chime in.

And yes this is the first GM stuff I've ever toyed with and surprised myself by doing a very brief three paragraph M/M scene last night.

 

[J_R_Ashunwhy]

The term I'm using is sissy boy as in they dress feminine, wear make up and act very girly.

Are you talking transgender, Kathoey, (ladyboys) or just drag?

 

[lovecraft68]

Are you talking transgender, Kathoey, (ladyboys) or just drag?

I don't think transgender. There are no breasts or hormones involved. I'm thinking just youngish(over 18 of course) and slight, soft featured, 'pretty' types that dress and act girlish.

In fact there is a thread in the fetish(or glbt) forum "Boys that act like girly sluts' which is sort of what I'm aiming for. But reading through those threads can be a squick fest for a variety of reasons and I didn't want to start the thread over there lest I be solicited(and don't think it wouldn't happen) figured I would ask here from an author perspective, because its not like I have the actual fetish for it, its for a character.

 

[J_R_Ashunwhy]

But reading through those threads can be a squick fest for a variety of reasons and I didn't want to start the thread over there lest I be solicited(and don't think it wouldn't happen) figured I would ask here from an author perspective, because its not like I have the actual fetish for it, its for a character.

Suck it up, buttercup, you're the one who wrote the scene.

So then, femboy is what you're looking for.

 

[lovecraft68]

Suck it up, buttercup, you're the one who wrote the scene.

So then, femboy is what you're looking for.

Ohh, I like when you talk to me like that. Do it again

Yes I think femboy might be the better ticket. Lady boy was the term I had on the tip of my tongue(set myself up there) but couldn't come up with it.

This lifestyle is alien to me so figure I'd ask rather than make things up.

 

[J_R_Ashunwhy]

Ohh, I like when you talk to me like that. Do it again

Pish, you're gonna have to work harder for it than that...


Anyway, some inspiration via Till Lindemann (Rammstein) and Peter Taegtgren (Hypocrisy, Pain).

 

[legerdemer]

Twink might be another term you should look into - it has connotations of young ( not too young), effeminate, very attractive and seductive. But I am out of my depth here.

 

[lovecraft68]

Twink might be another term you should look into - it has connotations of young ( not too young), effeminate, very attractive and seductive. But I am out of my depth here.

From what I gather, Twink means young, but not necessarily effeminate. Course I'm in the dark with this too.

 

[lovecraft68]

Pish, you're gonna have to work harder for it than that...


Anyway, some inspiration via Till Lindemann (Rammstein) and Peter Taegtgren (Hypocrisy, Pain).

Well this is the net so I can't start at your feet where I'm supposed to.

You'll have to settle for a "Please, mistress? Please taunt this unworthy dog with your cruel, but true words."

Ugh, I've been reading too much of my own crappy BDSM stories.

 

[J_R_Ashunwhy]

Well this is the net so I can't start at your feet where I'm supposed to.

You'll have to settle for a "Please, mistress? Please taunt this unworthy dog with your cruel, but true words."

Ugh, I've been reading too much of my own crappy BDSM stories.

Wow...that was just...painfully awful.

Note to self: Don't bother with LC's BDSM stories.

 

[lovecraft68]

Wow...that was just...painfully awful.

I know, I figured it would earn some abuse

I'd laugh at anyone who talked like that-and have at some clubs I've gone to- and cut my fingers off if I actually wrote it. Well at least seriously because I have done similar, but the person was a poser.

I do like the term dog though.

 

[jomar]

LOL, that happened to me in my first Marion story...started as one thing and took a whole different and unexpected turn. I rolled with it through a few series with no personal interest in crossdressing and such. I found it an interesting exercise.

 

[J_R_Ashunwhy]

I do like the term dog though.

Right, I'll be sure to refrain from using it then.

 

[lovecraft68]

LOL, that happened to me in my first Marion story...started as one thing and took a whole different and unexpected turn. I rolled with it through a few series with no personal interest in crossdressing and such. I found it an interesting exercise.

That's why I believe there is an actual muse, because what else explains it when a story doesn't just make a sudden turn but has you writing something totally alien and slightly squicky to you.

This scene really came out of nowhere. The character was in his gym working out and these arms slide around his waist and there's a kiss to his back and next thing I know, its a young man in make up and a baby doll kissing him.

I even said WTF? But kept going. Then showed it to the wife was "Where the hell did that come from?"

 

[lovecraft68]

Right, I'll be sure to refrain from using it then.

I see what you're doing there

 

[J_R_Ashunwhy]

I see what you're doing there

:shrugs:
:goes back to music for better entertainment:

 

[sr71plt]

I think femboy would probably be the best term. I don't write much on them, so am not an authority. There are terms for it under the urban dictionary definition for sissy bottom: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sissy bottom

A femboy could be a top. I don't think a twink is necessarily gay at all--more a type of body, age, and looks.

 

[lovecraft68]

I think femboy would probably be the best term. I don't write much on them, so am not an authority. There are terms for it under the urban dictionary definition for sissy bottom: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sissy bottom

A femboy could be a top. I don't think a twink is necessarily gay at all--more a type of body, age, and looks.

So going by your link-thanks for that-it seems they don't do the fucking-kind of what I figured.

So Twink is not automatically gay? Seems like the porn world has sort of made them that way. Like taboo now seems to always mean incest even though it has a broader meaning.

Interesting to note on the side bar "truffle butter' is trending now....I do not want to know why.

 

[Kelleebabes]

* sigh*

 

[Kantarii]

<--- Blame my ass for resurrecting this ancient thread. Still has relevancy though. There is another word not directly associated with the above named terms: androgynous. If you don't know what it means, look it up. It tends to apply to younger transvestites/ T-girls that aren't on hormones. It applies to me when I take my makeup off and dress like a man, I still get mistaken as woman in many instances. Kant