Hey everybody, masturbation....

[murphster]

Hey everybody. I'm new, a virgin, and have, frankly, never felt a real need to masturbate. I feel a sort of throbbing when reading these stories, and sometimes, it's just comfortable to have a hand down there, just touching, but i have never actually rubbed. Never felt the need. Well, I'd like people's opinions, suggestions. I figure if I'm going to get advice, it will probly be most proficient here. lol

murph

 

[dollface007]

[BI feel a sort of throbbing when reading these stories, and sometimes, it's just comfortable to have a hand down there, just touching, but i have never actually rubbed. [/B]

I consider "just touching" to be masturbation. Just b/c you don't come doesn't mean you're not masturbating or enjoying yourself. However, i do think (from what you've told us) that you do masturbate alot less than most guys. If this really bothers you, you should see a doctor...don't be shy, that's what they're there for. If not, then what's the big deal?
Good luck,
D

 

[murphster]

misunderstanding

Allright, there has definitelty been a misunderstanding. Dollface, you assumed i was a GUY. I am actually a GIRL!!!! lol Okay, any future postings, please use advice for a girl's masturbation!

thanks

 

[murphster]

misunderstanding

Allright, there has definitelty been a misunderstanding. Dollface, you assumed i was a GUY. I am actually a GIRL!!!! lol Okay, any future postings, please use advice for a girl's masturbation!

thanks

 

[murphster]

ok BUMP!!!

the murphster wants a little discussion

 

[constantlykinky]

Welcome to Lit Murphster. Being male im not the best person to advise you!

 

[Etoile]

There's nothing wrong with not masturbating. Do you want to, and want advice on how? Have you ever had an orgasm? It's perfectly okay to not be interested in sex.

 

[murphster]

i've never orgasmed, but i hope to in the future. I'm interested, but it just doesn't happen when i'm alone with myself.

 

[dollface007]

Oh no! So sorry! I saw "Murph" and thought "Murphey" as in male first name. My bad. The advice remains the same (except for the part about you being a guy). Touching is a form of masturbation. If it really bothers you that you are not more into masturbation, check with your doctor. Listening to your story, i don't think there's anything wrong with you. Don't beat yourself up!