Hey. Can anyone tell me how to get over Premature Ejaculation and be great in bedroom

[allyoueverneed]

Heyy Eveyone,

I see Eveyone being so good about their experiences. I'm not that experienced, but due to some problems and porn I think I am going thru PE.

I really hope that this community will give me the best advise and support to overcome this.

Thank you. And Love you all.
Happy New Year

 

[MaybeMae]

Heyy Eveyone,

I see Eveyone being so good about their experiences. I'm not that experienced, but due to some problems and porn I think I am going thru PE.

I really hope that this community will give me the best advise and support to overcome this.

Thank you. And Love you all.
Happy New Year

Hmm, there are lots of things you could do. Try just focusing on her. Lot's or oral sex and fingering. How quickly do you normally cum?

 

[MackodZippy]

Hi there - just chill.

Personally it was never an issue as a teen, however a couple of guys I knew were spectacular PE's (including one in the middle of a stag party with a stripper, but that's a whole other story! )

Bottom line is it's really common and virtually everyone grows out of it. Chances are you'll find a girl who is happy to watch you jerk off rather than have penetrative sex while you're getting into the groove of a relationship. Even without that, as soon as you find a nice girl who loves you for what you are, and you start focussing on pleasuring her, it'll sort itself out.

 

[saustin5432]

This was definitely an issue for me when I was younger. Besides just getting more experience with controlling myself, there were a few things that helped a lot.

1) Think about something other than the fact that you're f*cking. When you feel that urge building, just go over your grocery list or think about work for a minute. If I close my eyes and think about some of the best sex I've ever had, I can still orgasm in about 2 minutes if I'm in a hurry, but distracting myself can help.

2) The same partner can help. Even though I would not consider myself having PE problems anymore, any time I'm with someone new, I orgasm quicker.

3) Keep the foreplay away from the penis. If you're getting a BJ or HJ right to the edge, then you're going to cum quickly.

4) Use condoms, even double-up.

5) Jerk off before sex.