And to a very wonderful and understanding woman who I adore. Particularly since we allow each other space; about 4 miles. You see, we live apart in 2 beautiful homes. But we enjoy a harmonious, monogomous relationshop that would not likely be tolerated by many other couples. Our relationship is based on love, trust, respect and the understanding that we can't live together. The best part for me is that I never have to worry about my wife catching me wih my girlfriend because they're one in the same person.