Hey bi gals. I have a question for ya'll

[Queen_Vicki]

Does your sexual experience with a gender, dictate if you will end up in a relationship with person? Say for instance, if a woman is better at pleasing you then a man can, does that mean you will mostly date, and prefer women over men?

P.S. This question is only for the bi females, but I will soon ask the straight men what they think, in a another forum

 

[janeyl]

Does your sexual experience with a gender, dictate if you will end up in a relationship with person? Say for instance, if a woman is better at pleasing you then a man can, does that mean you will mostly date, and prefer women over men?

P.S. This question is only for the bi females, but I will soon ask the straight men what they think, in a another forum

Nope...there are other complex aspects to choosing a partner than purely sexual...and anyway, I get to still have sex with women anyway...

 

[ChattyCathy369]

Yes,

,,,because I find sexual pleasure a very important part of a relationship. However, in my case. I find that in the day to day things of my life other woman enjoy doing those with me more than men would, And I don't enjoy alot of the "Male' activities. I'm not into watching sports endlessly on tv, or many of their other things. I like to shop, visit museums and galleries, concerts, walks in the park, just chatting and oh, did I mention shopping. It's so much easier to find a woman that enjoys these things than a man.

 

[FlyAwayFromHere]

No

No, well, i dont know...

most of my experiences have been with females. i got with my husband at a very young age, and i am now 22. i have only had proper sex with him.

for me at that age it was 100% the person inside i was attracted to. the body it came in was incidental.

If i had been more experienced i might have found it different, as i would have had more to go on. I find my husband is more than capable of satisfying me... but the girls i was with could too. I have to say i miss boobs, but not enough to leave my husband!

i think that the main thing is the personality overall. I love him with all my heart, and i loved my ex girlfriend just as much as him. sex dictated nothing to me about getting with them.

 

[bixxx55]

Well, I don't mind doing these things with an intelligent companion. And I like a good meal with a glass of wine at the end.

 

[Marci_M]

For me the sex is secondary. It's more about the person and what we have in common. I can easily fall in love with a woman or a man. Genitals are secondary to their brain and personality.

 

[richfun]

For me the sex is secondary. It's more about the person and what we have in common. I can easily fall in love with a woman or a man. It genitals are secondary to their brain and personality.

So true ! Thanks for posting xxx

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've never found that women are 'better at pleasing me' than men are. Nor am I better at pleasing women than I am at pleasing men. As far as I'm concerned, sex is a real good thing for its own sake.

SOME men, and SOME women might make me feel like we are a perfect match. SOME men and SOME women are pretty good, some I wouldn't want to have sex with them a second time.

I'm still not real interested in having sex with men at this time, but not because I don't think the sex would be good. It's just not on my radar.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Nope...there are other complex aspects to choosing a partner than purely sexual...and anyway, I get to still have sex with women anyway...

I agree with this.