He's checking you out; how do you feel about that?

[Black_Bird]

I have a horrible habit of checking out every female that passes by that are even the slightest bit appealing to me. I never used to do that; it's something I've started doing only this past year or so. I was taught to be a gentleman and respect a lady's space, etc, etc, but now I just can't stop. I'm sitting in a resturant with my parents right across from me, checking out the hostess that seated us (she had a nice ass, btw).

If I was checking you out, how would you feel? Offended or sexy?

 

[Bob Peale]

That's why God invented Oakleys!

 

[Georgia Girl]

I've gotten alot bolder recently. It used to bug me for someone to stare at my chest, now I'll flash em. If they're gonna look they may as well get a good look.

Dawn

 

[Bob Peale]

I've gotten alot bolder recently. It used to bug me for someone to stare at my chest, now I'll flash em. If they're gonna look they may as well get a good look.

Dawn

Sorry, I was staring. Did you say something?

 

[Nora]

If I noticed at all, I'd probably look behind me to see who he was scoping out. lol

 

[Black_Bird]

I've gotten alot bolder recently. It used to bug me for someone to stare at my chest, now I'll flash em. If they're gonna look they may as well get a good look.

Dawn

Hon, I don't just stare at women's chests... I check them out up and down.

 

[lilminx]

It really depends on the way he checks me out. I hate the fucking guys who catcall to me on the street- they're so slimy. Do they actually think I'm going to look, smile, and then walk over to them? How fucking stupid.

However, I don't mind admiring glances as I'm walking by, or in a restaurant or bar.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

i would kinda be shy and embarished i just dont see why anyone would look

 

[Laurel]

Sexy. Definitely.

 

[Black_Bird]

It really depends on the way he checks me out. I hate the fucking guys who catcall to me on the street- they're so slimy. Do they actually think I'm going to look, smile, and then walk over to them? How fucking stupid.

However, I don't mind admiring glances as I'm walking by, or in a restaurant or bar.

Cat calls just aren't my style...

No, I admire. I wouldn't call it a "glance", but I admire.

 

[Lovepotion69]

It really depends on the way he checks me out. I hate the fucking guys who catcall to me on the street- they're so slimy. Do they actually think I'm going to look, smile, and then walk over to them? How fucking stupid.

However, I don't mind admiring glances as I'm walking by, or in a restaurant or bar.

I agre with Lilminx,
Cat calls can be really annoying, but not admring glances. Glances can make my day at times. Also it does depend on the way he looks at me. If it's just a "hmm, niiiice!" then it's fine. If it's a "god, fuck she's nice and I'm feeling desperate", then no thanks...

/LP

 

[patient1]

i would kinda be shy and embarished i just dont see why anyone would look

1) you're pretty cute.

2) bibs just dare a guy to see how far they can see.

 

[riff]

Being a hetero male, I would feel a little creepy if you were checking me out, BB.

Nothing personal.

 

[Black_Bird]

i would kinda be shy and embarished i just dont see why anyone would look

Er... ask your boyfriend; I'm sure he'll give you a list.

 

[pipercatt]

I was coming out of a restaraunt yesterday, and helping my grandmother into the car, when across the street, I heard a honk. I looked up, and there was this guy in a delivery truck waving in my general direction. Just waving and honking.

I don't know any delivery drivers personally, and there wasn't anyone else around, except my grandmother, who at 71 looks pretty darn good. He didn't roll down his window or anything, just honked and waved.

How did I feel? Confused. LOL.

 

[Black_Bird]

If it's a "god, fuck she's nice and I'm feeling desperate", then no thanks...

"I'm feeling desperate!"

"That's suppose to be a compliment?!?"

 

[Black_Bird]

Being a hetero male, I would feel a little creepy if you were checking me out, BB.

Nothing personal.

No prob, riff; this one was for the ladies...

Although, I hear you have a cute ass.

 

[BabyBruceJBS]

It would really depend on how and who was doing it. If it was a stare, whistle, or cat call. . .I would get pissed. If it was just a glance or a "hi, I just wanted to tell you you look nice" type of thing, then it would probably make me feel pretty good. But since I work at a lingerie store, I mainly get the first type!

 

[SexyWench]

I've always considered it a compliment. Sometimes it can even make my day!

 

[Black_Bird]

It would really depend on how and who was doing it. If it was a stare, whistle, or cat call. . .I would get pissed. If it was just a glance or a "hi, I just wanted to tell you you look nice" type of thing, then it would probably make me feel pretty good. But since I work at a lingerie store, I mainly get the first type!

Wow... really?

I don't do the cat call thing; tried a sleazy pick-up line once and got a very cold response. Nope, they don't work for me; I'm more likely to look quietly, or make a small compliment.

 

[Bob Peale]

Actually, I'm told what I do is much more unsettling. I tend to take in a body very quickly, often long before anyone notices.

But if I'm taken, I usually make eye contact. Apparently, the look in my eyes is naked (no pun intended), not predatory, but openly appreciative.

As a married guy (with a prominent wedding band) it's not like I'm ever going to speak.

But beauty is beauty...

 

[Georgia Girl]

The only time this has bothered me was once recently when I had to go to a juvenile detention center -- there were 68 males from age 16 to 18 in the room and I was the only female.

I wanted a metal shield or something, I felt completely naked.

Dawn

PS....Bob, what did you say, my mind was distracted.

 

[lisalove]

I feel sexy & I enjoy it. I like it when men give me that knowing look.

It does piss me off if the man I'm with (currently my husband lol) takes an obvious (lecherous) interest in another woman in front of me. I'm not real good at that.

 

[Private Vasquez]

It feels nice...but then words like "what's crackin' with you?" and "holla back, youngin" come out of their mouths...and oooh boy it's time to go.

 

[Siren]