Hertz? Not hurts ...

[chapter6plan]

Since most of the men here are accomplished porn stars, y'all should be able offer some insight.

Is fast fucking ... on the order of 100+ FPM (fucks per minute) ... a porn video gimmick for the audience? Or do bottoms (and tops) really prefer fucking like that?

Personally (and I have only a couple of data points), I prefer receiving long, slow, and deep strokes until my top is ready to cum ... and then he should let loose as needed!

I don't want to tell my top "take it easy, we're not on camera" if he really loves fast, short strokes, but the high frequency fucks don't do much for me.

So ... slow and sensuous (20-30 FPM) or fast and furious (60-120 FPM)?

 

[Wageslave]

There's no right or wrong way - just find out what suits you best

 

[JoeSmith2022]

Porn isn't real.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

It's definitely not a porn gimmick.
I like a mix of both. I love when he's fucking me deep and slow, then he fucks me as fast as he can. Then maybe he goes deep and slow again.

 

[jakie69]

It depends on my partner, my mood, the situation and especially location. I like it rough and fast but I have partners and fuck buddies who like to take it slow and take their time. If I’m getting fucked somewhere public it tends to be faster. Either way is good, not porn level or style but really hot

 

[chapter6plan]

I clearly need more experience. A regular fuck buddy would be wonderful, but I'd be happy with a series of hookups.

 

[saintcero]

If your Top doesn’t have much length he may have to limit his thrusting to keep from slipping out. I may want more length and more thrusts but asking for it when there is no more to be had just frustrates everyone

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I clearly need more experience. A regular fuck buddy would be wonderful, but I'd be happy with a series of hookups.

Yes! Once you get used to getting fucked regularly you will love when he just starts pounding you.

 

[klippert]

I'm a Top and For me.. when I'm with my buddy or in the past with a male lovers. its a mood and time we have thing. I prefer long deep controlled strokes...pushing in as deep as I can, then pulling all the way out. As mentioned when i'm getting close, its time to fuck hard, pull out and cum all over him. That said. There are times when I'm not in that mood to feel his hole clinching me...I'm there to fuck. Get that ass up. I'll mount you then leave you with a glazed hole, and you will have some oral to do after. Then Ill leave.
As for porn. I recently watched and interview with a former female porn star / director / producer who let the cat out of the bag. From the film era to digital age … especially digital era. The porn industry has been very very well edited.

 

[Terrylipstick]

There's no right or wrong way - just find out what suits you best

This is the answer. It really depends on the top, the bottom, and the energy. I like it when he slowly enters me, especially if he is big. Long, slow, deep strokes are nice and relaxing, but sometimes a jackhammer fuck feels right. Communicate with your partner, if it hurts, let them know, Change your body position, call a time-out. But yeah, sometimes a good, hard, fast, deep fucking hits that cum-button and sends me into paradise

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Personally I love when a top just starts pounding away at me. That usually means that he is really into it, and seriously turned on.
Yes, sometimes it's rough, and it hurts, but it makes me so hot knowing that he is that into fucking me.