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I have an interesting relationship with my therapist. He’s entered my life and crosses boundaries, cocky, controlling and really sexy. I’m not a submissive person but I’d get on my knees to suck his cock. I feel like a really fun story could arise from our dynamic.

I wish I were your therapist
 
So many questions... Definitely not an original idea and endless possibilities..

What is it about him that makes you so excited? Or is it just his position of power? How long have you seen him? How much have you shared with him? Do you ever make things up to try and motivate him? Think he is married? Is he your first therapist?
 
yep

i am a therapist

for the most part i never cross any boundaries

but i have had one client who purposely constantly tries to provoke or arouse.....she talks about her masturbating.......gets very graphic about how her boyfriend is just unable or unwilling to satisfy her......etc.....shes beautiful and hot and i know all the while that she is doing it on purpose....for the most part i enjoy it and usually manage not to get too aroused

i have another client, however, who is totally my type, is very beautiful and super sexy......but acts very shy and introverted.....except for her habit of sitting indian style in her chair.....even if in a skirt......more than a few times ive seen her panties.....which in and of itself is a big turn on to me.....there is definitely a vibe between us.....but....i purposely try to keep it even more arms length than normal....by calling her ms. and she calls me sir.......even with that there is some definitely inuendo.....it could go somewhere......but of course would be completely unethical

still makes for better days though
 
You titled this "transference" , what are you transferring? Your desire for one thing transferred to your therapist? What was it? How powerful?
 
Transference is a theoretical phenomenon characterized by unconscious redirection of the feelings a person has about their parents, as one example, on to the therapist.*That being said, countertransference is defined as redirection of a psychotherapist's feelings toward a client – or, more generally, as a therapist's emotional entanglement with a client.
 
I know the definition, but wondered what exactly it was in this case....
 
That's cool. It's something we discussed in length during a couple of my Human Services courses in college.
 
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