Here I am.

[Sallyhansen6914]

Here I am sitting here in a office chair in our man cave. short shorts, one leg propped up and the other on the ground basically for the world to see in front of my husband watching videos on his phone… there’s no way he can’t notice me being “slutty” but why can many men go out of their way to hit on or speak to me and him just completely ignore me?

Is he gay? I’m basically starting to believe he has to be gay. Doesn’t want a divorce but won’t do anything to try and feed my needs.

I’m not ugly, I am 28 curves, I’m not the worst he’s been with and he’s told me how wonderful I am in the past.

Why does he ignore the hints? I guess I have a gay husband.

 

[easyoff]

Here I am sitting here in a office chair in our man cave. short shorts, one leg propped up and the other on the ground basically for the world to see in front of my husband watching videos on his phone… there’s no way he can’t notice me being “slutty” but why can many men go out of their way to hit on or speak to me and him just completely ignore me?

Is he gay? I’m basically starting to believe he has to be gay. Doesn’t want a divorce but won’t do anything to try and feed my needs.

I’m not ugly, I am 28 curves, I’m not the worst he’s been with and he’s told me how wonderful I am in the past.

Why does he ignore the hints? I guess I have a gay husband.

So find a Bi guy and have a 3some, then you will know

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

So find a Bi guy and have a 3some, then you will know

I don’t think he’d be into it. Idk I just think the marriage is over after 10+ years and the bullshit I don’t blame him I guess but just let it go if you don’t want it

 

[Tigertiger55]

Hey, PM me would like to chat.

 

[ducks]

Come set in front of me and see.

 

[Rob_Royale]

Forget the hints. We men suck at hints. Go straight to grabbing him by the chin and telling him, "I need you face first between my legs or I'm calling an attorney." Or, instead of vamping, go straight to using a dildo in front of him. "I guess, I'll have to see to my own needs."

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

Oh no. I’ve grabbed him like that once before and he shut me down didn’t like it at all. Very vanilla

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

Forget the hints. We men suck at hints. Go straight to grabbing him by the chin and telling him, "I need you face first between my legs or I'm calling an attorney." Or, instead of vamping, go straight to using a dildo in front of him. "I guess, I'll have to see to my own needs."

I’m terrible with rejection and if I did that and he did I wouldn’t be okay. Nd even if I did that the last three times we’ve done it two of them he couldn’t cum so it’s a shot in the dark

 

[FlyingThruLife]

Have you had a discussion with them and told him that you feel like your needs are being met?

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

Have you had a discussion with them and told him that you feel like your needs are being met?

Yes

 

[FlyingThruLife]

And what has he said to that?

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

And what has he said to that?

He’s not a doctor doesn’t know how to fix it or maybe I should try harder.

 

[FlyingThruLife]

I see.
I think a better question I should have asked is what are you hoping to get from posting here? Posting in the personals, are you looking for someone to fool around with?

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

I’m looking for the one who shared this website with me. Sadly I don’t think he wants to be found

 

[FlyingThruLife]

Ahhh, that is possible, although a lot of people also would be hard to find. I would say don't give up hope.

Also, knowing very little about the situation between you and your husband, but if my partner were wearing short shorts and sitting there with legs splayed open, I'm not sure that would be enough of a hint for me. I've been told that I am incredibly oblivious to most hints. I kind of need to be smacked or told what is wanted.
According to people around me I've missed many hints from many people, and many possible fun opportunities.

 

[JayInLondon]

Sorry to hear that Sally....

If you both get along well together etc maybe it's worth asking about making it an open marriage, as if he won't meet your needs you can go find someone who will?

 

[Greekguy1963]

Here I am sitting here in a office chair in our man cave. short shorts, one leg propped up and the other on the ground basically for the world to see in front of my husband watching videos on his phone… there’s no way he can’t notice me being “slutty” but why can many men go out of their way to hit on or speak to me and him just completely ignore me?

Is he gay? I’m basically starting to believe he has to be gay. Doesn’t want a divorce but won’t do anything to try and feed my needs.

I’m not ugly, I am 28 curves, I’m not the worst he’s been with and he’s told me how wonderful I am in the past.

Why does he ignore the hints? I guess I have a gay husband.

I think you sound fantastic

 

[Bassman4000]

Here I am sitting here in a office chair in our man cave. short shorts, one leg propped up and the other on the ground basically for the world to see in front of my husband watching videos on his phone… there’s no way he can’t notice me being “slutty” but why can many men go out of their way to hit on or speak to me and him just completely ignore me?

Is he gay? I’m basically starting to believe he has to be gay. Doesn’t want a divorce but won’t do anything to try and feed my needs.

I’m not ugly, I am 28 curves, I’m not the worst he’s been with and he’s told me how wonderful I am in the past.

Why does he ignore the hints? I guess I have a gay husband.

Hi there how are you doing? Would love for you to sit in front of me.

 

[NC_Coastal]

Does he drink? Get him drunk and fuck him.

 

[LoneMilf]

There can be many reasons your husband doesn't feel like having sex - being gay isn't the most likely unless there are other clues pointing to that. Desire for sex is affected dramatically by the non-sexual parts of our lives as well, so maybe just assume there is something that bothers him to the point of distraction. If you can find out what that is, you can help him.. and then he can help you

 

[Zephreck]

I am not attracted to men at all. So I cannot speak about the gay angle. I don't know how old your husband is but being a male that is almost 50 and dealing with depression.... I can say that there are several things in our lives that can affect our libido.

In my previous relationships in life I was always the person with the stronger libido. It is a difficult thing to deal with. I want your relationship to get better and I hope you can figure out why he is not currently wanting sex. I hope things get better.

 

[Mtnmike]

Here I am sitting here in a office chair in our man cave. short shorts, one leg propped up and the other on the ground basically for the world to see in front of my husband watching videos on his phone… there’s no way he can’t notice me being “slutty” but why can many men go out of their way to hit on or speak to me and him just completely ignore me?

Is he gay? I’m basically starting to believe he has to be gay. Doesn’t want a divorce but won’t do anything to try and feed my needs.

I’m not ugly, I am 28 curves, I’m not the worst he’s been with and he’s told me how wonderful I am in the past.

Why does he ignore the hints? I guess I have a gay husband.

I feel you, can never understand why men ignore their lady, how can he not see and understand what you want it's right there in front of him for the taking, could not be anymore plain in what you want, idiot.

 

[Sallyhansen6914]

I feel you, can never understand why men ignore their lady, how can he not see and understand what you want it's right there in front of him for the taking, could not be anymore plain in what you want,

Thank you

 

[Mtnmike]

Oh no. I’ve grabbed him like that once before and he shut me down didn’t like it at all. Very vanilla

Then you need to leave or find it on the side your decision, year's ago I would not have said get it somewhere else but I to find myself in the same situation, 15 year's now and she still says No every time.

 

[Mtnmike]

He’s not a doctor doesn’t know how to fix it or maybe I should try harder.

Wth, a marriage is a two way street and he is not doing his part OMG