her first time

[subwannabe]

I think you are on the right track. As long as you both have some feelings for each other, that helps considerably. Make sure she doesn't get pregnant though or that beautiful moment could turn into a mistake that costs you both your future.

 

[wonderwhy]

haha well like i said i have too many friends who said it was horrible,they hated it or regreted it.
and i dont wanna be a mistake you know.
i want to be that guy who was really nice and caring and she will be able to look back on it and be happy
( or call me up who knows)

and yea, if she gets pregnant
well i'd be taking it out with a god damned coat hanger.
im kidding she wont get pregnant.
its one of my biggest fears ever haha.

well id just like to thank EVERYONE for helping out and giving me some great advice.

 

[Angellika]

I said the above. In retrospect, maybe I was a little hasty in my comment. I think it would be WISE to allow her to choose what she feels is most comfortable to her. If she tries it with you on top and seems to be having a difficult time, then stop. Give her a break and ask her if she would like to try it on top. (OR THE OTHER WAY AROUND with her starting out on top). I agree that maybe it should be her choice.

If you do this, then be cognizant of the fact that she shouldn't be forced to stay in that position. Ask her how it's working out for her and offer to do it other ways...be sure to take breaks if she wants to.

Jack

I agree with you... communication is the answer most times...