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[mathis847]

hey yall , as you know ive had problems with my bf in the past . well .. we are trying to get it together and make things work . so far since hes been home , its been going alright . first id like to get into everything sexually we have done .....

position wise :
missionary
girl on top
reverse cowgirl ( didnt work out well )
doggy style

weve done anal , which recently ive been getting into alot more lately
double penetration
ive swallowed his cum
ive licked/sucked his balls
licked his ...... other regions
hes licked my other regions

well , weve tried alot of new things over the past few days
ive tried to keep an open mind on things , which is mainly why its been going so well lately . out of curiosity is there anything else ( not completely crazy ) that we can try . ive been looking on the internet , and really , i cant find a whole lot that interests me at all . i want my mind to be open on eveything , i just cant seem to find anything .. it doesnt have to be , sexual positions wise or just that , just anything .. anything that can be fun and exciting .. of corse the sex is way better then it used to be , for me that is .. but i want it to be just as exciting and mind blowing for him too ...

any suggestions or tips are appreciated

 

[gbarnes59]

hey yall , as you know ive had problems with my bf in the past . well .. we are trying to get it together and make things work . so far since hes been home , its been going alright . first id like to get into everything sexually we have done .....

position wise :
missionary
girl on top
reverse cowgirl ( didnt work out well )
doggy style

weve done anal , which recently ive been getting into alot more lately
double penetration
ive swallowed his cum
ive licked/sucked his balls
licked his ...... other regions
hes licked my other regions

well , weve tried alot of new things over the past few days
ive tried to keep an open mind on things , which is mainly why its been going so well lately . out of curiosity is there anything else ( not completely crazy ) that we can try . ive been looking on the internet , and really , i cant find a whole lot that interests me at all . i want my mind to be open on eveything , i just cant seem to find anything .. it doesnt have to be , sexual positions wise or just that , just anything .. anything that can be fun and exciting .. of corse the sex is way better then it used to be , for me that is .. but i want it to be just as exciting and mind blowing for him too ...

any suggestions or tips are appreciated

you should finger his anus

 

[mathis847]

lol ive done that .. i know it drives him wild .. i forgot to put that in there , oops oh well .. yeah , that drives him crazy ..

 

[gbarnes59]

lol ive done that .. i know it drives him wild .. i forgot to put that in there , oops oh well .. yeah , that drives him crazy ..

lol, i wish i had a girl to do that for me, lol

have you tried a dildo, or strap-on maybe?

 

[mathis847]

haha funny you mention that .. ive tried to talk him into the whole me using a strap on thing with him .. i figured he likes me doing those things to him with my fingers / mouth , why not try something different .. but .. he says no .. he thinks its too " gay " he said the same thing about licking my toy after i came on it .. i swear , he needs to relax a bit .. obiviously .. he used to say i needed to relax and trust him .. i think he needs to relax and trust me for once dont cha think ????

 

[gbarnes59]

haha funny you mention that .. ive tried to talk him into the whole me using a strap on thing with him .. i figured he likes me doing those things to him with my fingers / mouth , why not try something different .. but .. he says no .. he thinks its too " gay " he said the same thing about licking my toy after i came on it .. i swear , he needs to relax a bit .. obiviously .. he used to say i needed to relax and trust him .. i think he needs to relax and trust me for once dont cha think ????

yeah he needs to chill out and be more secure in hie sexuality


and if he wont lick the cum off your toy, i will!!!

 

[mathis847]

and if he wont lick the cum off your toy, i will!!!

wow ! lol .. hmmm ... yeah .. he needs to just chill .. i know he wants to fuck me , honestly , its not to my standards because id like it every night .. but .. i put those selfish thoughts aside and wait for him .. i try to come up with ideas , of how we can have sex , and what id like for him to do/say during .. and he says it sounds like fun , but .. we usually dont get around to it .. usually its me sucking his dick , sometimes he will go down on me , and then its straight to fucking .. id like for it to be more ... aggresive sometimes , that ive told him .. not like .. crazy aggresive , but just .. more hair pulling , more dirty talk , more moaning ( on his part of corse , i moan enough for the both of us ) i dont know , id just like it to be good for both of us

 

[gbarnes59]

wow ! lol .. hmmm ... yeah .. he needs to just chill .. i know he wants to fuck me , honestly , its not to my standards because id like it every night .. but .. i put those selfish thoughts aside and wait for him .. i try to come up with ideas , of how we can have sex , and what id like for him to do/say during .. and he says it sounds like fun , but .. we usually dont get around to it .. usually its me sucking his dick , sometimes he will go down on me , and then its straight to fucking .. id like for it to be more ... aggresive sometimes , that ive told him .. not like .. crazy aggresive , but just .. more hair pulling , more dirty talk , more moaning ( on his part of corse , i moan enough for the both of us ) i dont know , id just like it to be good for both of us

damn you sounds wild!!! he is a lucky guy!!

i love eating pussy....mmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[mathis847]

i cant say im "wild" but .. since ive been with him , ive done more things then ive ever imangined .. believe me , with anyone else , i most likely would have never done any of this .. i used to be the typical guy on top , girl on top or doggy style and thats it .. but .. my bf has introduced me to basically everything else .. which i like it all ! wow its amazing sometimes how good it feels ( never thought id say that ) i never even thought that i would be the type of person to ask for more of it either .. but .. i dont want to make it out that hes being selfish(again) because hes not .. more or less , hes just not as open to things as i am now .. the way i see it is , he started it now he can finish it too ... he got me like this .. i never used to want sex every night , or want to suck a guys dick .. i used to hate doing it .. every part of my life ive changed for him ( except for my mood sometimes , cant help sometimes i feel bitchy ) but other then that ive bent over backwards sexually for him .. i want it to be just plain good for both of us .. i want us to both fall on the bed catching our breath , and regaining our energy , not just me .. i feel like . it was a hit and quit deal sometimes because he just rushes off to the bathroom to clean up and then its usually off to bed , i mean he cuddles and holds me afterwards but geez , its not going to hurt him if his cum stays on his dick for 5 more mins .. ya know lol .. anywho though .. ill stop here .. gonna go get some food and take a shower .. clean up the house too ...

 

[gbarnes59]

i cant say im "wild" but .. since ive been with him , ive done more things then ive ever imangined .. believe me , with anyone else , i most likely would have never done any of this .. i used to be the typical guy on top , girl on top or doggy style and thats it .. but .. my bf has introduced me to basically everything else .. which i like it all ! wow its amazing sometimes how good it feels ( never thought id say that ) i never even thought that i would be the type of person to ask for more of it either .. but .. i dont want to make it out that hes being selfish(again) because hes not .. more or less , hes just not as open to things as i am now .. the way i see it is , he started it now he can finish it too ... he got me like this .. i never used to want sex every night , or want to suck a guys dick .. i used to hate doing it .. every part of my life ive changed for him ( except for my mood sometimes , cant help sometimes i feel bitchy ) but other then that ive bent over backwards sexually for him .. i want it to be just plain good for both of us .. i want us to both fall on the bed catching our breath , and regaining our energy , not just me .. i feel like . it was a hit and quit deal sometimes because he just rushes off to the bathroom to clean up and then its usually off to bed , i mean he cuddles and holds me afterwards but geez , its not going to hurt him if his cum stays on his dick for 5 more mins .. ya know lol .. anywho though .. ill stop here .. gonna go get some food and take a shower .. clean up the house too ...

i think you should talk to him about some of this, if he realises how you feel he might change... let me know how you get on and good luck!!

 

[mdcplhavnfun]

Watch (or Buy) A Webcam!!

I am sooo serious. A few weeks ago, I suggested to hubby that he let me suck his cock while he watched his favorite homeclips on the internet. It was so hot to see him so turned on!

That turned into me finding a live webcam site, where he could watch the ladies and couples, type or talk to them, and all the while I could be sucking him or he could be playing with my pussy. He has never been so hard or came so much in his life.

Needless to say, one thing led to another, and I bought a cam. At first I thought we would never go on it, but we would use it for the mic only. I was wrong!!! Once we got brave enough to show a little, we have been having a BLAST!!

It is surprisingly anonymous if you watch your camera angles. We have met others who will show their faces, but we only show from the neck down - mostly close-ups. I never knew how much of an exhibitionist I am, but god damn it is hot to flash on cam.

I bet your guy would love it! It sounds like you are open to this kind of stuff. I don't know about you, but we are totally into each other, are totally straight, and have no interest in swinging or meeting other people in real life. But imagine how hot it is to get an IM from another couple, who just want to say hi and see if we are up for some sexy fun? That happened to us last night. And it ended with a contest to see who could suck their guy and make him cum first (we won LOL), and then a quick show of fingering the ladies till we both came.

I am telling you... we have been married 5 years, and the sex was always great... but OMFG this is incredible. It has been the hottest 3 weeks ever!

Good luck with your guy - it sounds like he is really lucky to have you!

Oh, and if you convince him or want to try it out - we will be happy to help you get set up (and hopefully join you

And if you want to see if we are for real.... check out our site. It is a homepage I made, that has pics, a blog, and even a video.
www.geocities.com/mdcplhavnfun

Michelle & David

 

[phoenix1224]

haha funny you mention that .. ive tried to talk him into the whole me using a strap on thing with him .. i figured he likes me doing those things to him with my fingers / mouth , why not try something different .. but .. he says no .. he thinks its too " gay " he said the same thing about licking my toy after i came on it .. i swear , he needs to relax a bit .. obiviously .. he used to say i needed to relax and trust him .. i think he needs to relax and trust me for once dont cha think ????

I used to think the same way your SO does.

But then, I stopped to really think about it... It would only make a man "gay" if he wanted another MAN to do him in the ass... If he wants a WOMAN to do him in the ass with a stapon, it just makes him "sexually adventurous".

*shrug*

You could try to explain the difference to him that way.

 

[rosebud5446]

I wish my boyfriend would at least let me try to play with his anus... meh. oh well.

I'm not familiar with your story, I gathered that you both may have been virgins.... I could be completely wrong on that one. but aside from trying new things, have you tried different variations on the positions?
In missionary, you could put your legs up in many different ways over his shoulders or he could hold them. a pillow under your butt works well too.
Doggy style, notice different angles when you arch your back differently, or as (i think it was NWA) put it, "face down, ass up"
I'm not a fan of reverse cowgirl either, so let's skip that.
Girl on top however, I love to straddle him when he's sitting up. I like the couch best... This may be my favorite position.

If this stuff has been mentioned, youve already tried it, whatever, I'm sorry, not familiar with your story, and have class soon, so i didn't have time to go over everything.

 

[mathis847]

alright guys , a little update ...
you dont have to worry about sending me replys or anything anymore about me spicing things up with my bf

we pretty much broke up the other night ..
and im back home with my mom two states away from him ..

if you want details you can pm or email me ..

thanks for everything though , its bad when i am depending on complete strangers to help me in this department when it should have been my bf (ex)

::sigh::

thanks though ..