I need some advice, can you guys help me? Here is the sitch: I am totally in love with this guy. We live together and I have a (near) 4 year old daughter who totally adores him. Now everything was totally perfect until he started working a night shift for this job that he's been doing. Our sex life dwindled, and he's been totally surfing porn sites hard core, and chat rooms, and personals.... This was about 3 months ago. Now it has gotten steadily worse and I'm freaking the *eff* out! I don't do very well w/o sex and he's the first guy I've felt like being monogomous with. Is he cheating? Thinking about it? I just don't know what the deal is. Why would he want to look at all this porn stuff and then not share it with me or even want me afterwards when before we couldn't get enough of it together?
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That's a tough one. Have you tried to sit down and talk to him about it? I had a bf that started calling those 900 numbers, and wouldn't have sex with me. Sorry to say, he's an ex.
I would say you need to call him out on it, and find out if somethings wrong. Sounds like it from your description.
Moon
I would say you need to call him out on it, and find out if somethings wrong. Sounds like it from your description.
Moon
Well I've tried talking to him about it but he says it's just the way that he is and he can't help that he doesn't feel like having sex anymore. But it's more than just the sex. There are no more compliments on the way that I look (unless I specifically ask for one). He says that he still finds me sexy and attractive and still loves me. He has started working day shift again and the sex has pretty much disappeared. I am SO not used to this kind of rejection and I don't know how to handle it.
