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[Nat1972]

I am sorry if this is in the wrong place but I need some advice. I had had some questions about my sexuality for quiet some time. It wasn't until recently that I have really thought about having a relationship with a woman.

I have been attracted to woman but never really thought any further than oh she is cute. Until recently. I have had a stronger attraction and I am not sure how to go about exploring that side of me. Any suggestions? I live in a very conservative community so I am a bit limited.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Same way you explore any attraction-- find out where the women hang out, and hang out there with them, see if you click with anyone in particular.

Colleges and universities, larger towns and cities, of course, are your best bets. Look for women's sports teams in your local parks. Besides the women on the team, some of the women rooting for the teams may be attracted to other women.

Be friendly, be yourself. Be honest that you are only exploring. Try not to fall in love on the very first date with the vary first woman-- it isn't fair to either of you. Fall in like instead, for a while.